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Life Stories with Lady S, Johannesburg (2025)

16/10/2025

16 October 2025, 18:11pm

Hide me Cc ndingafa ndingu koti i joined group yokoti apha ku facebook kwangenwa ku whatsapp ndafumanisa uba kuyajolwa apha ndamane ndibhalelwa ecaleni ngabanye ookoti becela ulala nam ndaphuma kule group
Lahambi xesha ndajolelwa ngumyeni estressini ndancokola nomnye wokoti abakula group ndimbalisela ngalo mjolo athi bona stress bakhuphana bodwa kula group bosule imilomo babuyele ebayenini babo
She even convinced me uba umyenam akanokrokra cz akazucingela nto kuba singabafazi nam ke ndathatheka ndabuyela kule group ndajola nomnye ukoti siyiqhubile lento yethu ixesha elidana sabe sobabini abayeni bethu bangomankazana ango sithubeni sesiphumile kengk nakula group ngoba siyakhweletelana
Saqhubeka zaya ngokwehla feelings zomyeni besendimvimba ndisithele ngale mijolo yakhe nalo ngapha uthi akasalali nomyeni wakhe saqhuba sizixelele asizuphinda silale nabo owam isithuba sesehlile ngoku focus aphe ndlini haike wandigrogrisa ngobiza meeting ye family ndavuma salala.

Ingxaki kengk azange aphinde abe ryt umyeni yi drop emva kwenye clinic gqirha ntoni kuya kuba kubi kuye and uqinisekile uba wagula after eleli nam mna ngapha ndisalala nalo makoti
Ndise ndoyika omnye ukoti okulento yethu uthe inoba unenyoka lokoti ndilala naye ngoba yena ulala nomyeni nalo sis anaye akubikho ngxaki ndiyoyika kengk kakhulu kunamaxesha kubenzima nochama emyenin wam ndimve ethetha namgomntu wesiXhosa ingaba angamnceda kulento? Uxolweni ngobamde.

15/10/2025

15 October 2025, 17:58pm

Lady S, I'm not proud of what I'm about to share, but this is my reality. I'm a 42 year old man, and I lost my job during the COVID retrenchments. Since then, I’ve been struggling to find work. I have a family, a wife and four kids,l and as a man, nothing breaks you more than seeing your family go to bed hungry.

I tried everything, but the doors kept closing. Then one day, out of the blue, I got a message on Facebook from a guy, a g@y guy. At first, I ignored it, but the timing of that message and the situation I was in felt like it was meant to happen. He 0ffered me money just to sl€ep with him. I was desperate, Sesi I didn’t do it because I wanted to. I did it because I didn’t want my children to starve. That’s how it started.

It became a thing over the years, and eventually, people found out. And word got to my wife. She didn’t even argue or fight. She just packed her bags, took the kids, and left. I begged her to talk to me, but she refused. She told me straight that the kids aren’t even mine. Sesi that was the final blow.

I feel like I’ve lost everything. I sacrificed my pride, my manhood, my dignity… just so they could eat. Now I sit here humiliated and broken. People laugh at me. I walk with my head down. I know what I did was wrong, but I truly did it for my family.

I don’t know if I’ll ever get over this. But maybe someone out there will read this and understand that sometimes we do the unthinkable when we feel like we have nothing left.

15/10/2025

Khanize ndinibalisele story sam, Posta Admin ndidibene nomntu othweleyo, ayilo bali ke yandehlela nyani

P1 ndakhe ndadibana nomnye umfana kwi dating site ndixabene nomntu wam so ndabe ndiqonda ndifuna umntu endizomlibala ngaye 🤣fine Sa plan udibana, andoyiki nto moc mna🤣 Ndathi makangezi kwam ndizoya kwakhe kuba ndicinga lo unentloko enkulu uvele avumbuke , akukho kude kwamfana ke it’s like 7km so Ndathi ndizoyo dropper imoto yam kwakhe kule weekend sasi plan uphuma ngayo thn sisebenzise imoto eyi one yakhe but Ndathi ndifika nje sabhidana ke thn I decided to drive myself back home asaphinde sathetha. After iveki Wandi text ke ecela uxolo fine umntu ondim ohlala enesizungu waphinde waqinisa intloko waya kwa Mfana qha kwasuke kwanetha sabona asizulunga apho besizoya khona kuba ndandinganxibanga thn we decided ubukela movie, nyani umfana a order snacks elixa sijonge movie, nyani ke sibukele kakuhle ndozele sihambe siyolala (ningandi judge)🤣

Singene ezingubeni marn umfana athathe eyakhe ingubo andinike eyam ndiqonde ok ayizusokolisana nyani ndilale dwi but oloko ndisothuka ndothuka umfana ehleli ngempundu.

15/10/2025

15 October 2025, 07:10 am

Ladies please help me here.

I have been with my husband for 3 years now and he has 2kids with ex wife and i came with one and we have one. The kids stay with us most times and we have been cooperating with the ex very well, i would say she is a sweetheart, she sends money when kids are with us..
Here is the story
He tells me that ex called him and told him she want to have a child and would like to have his child. And if he wasn't married she was gonna ask him to do it the traditional way but since he is married she is trying to save money to do that. Her reason are she wants her kids to have same parents. So husband think that she is dating a married man (not judging) that's why maybe she doesn't want to have a baby with current partner. She is surely seeing someone but the kids doesn't know him but the older kid can see mommy is seeing someone he is a teen.
My husband is asking me how i feel about this and would only do it only if i agree. He wanted another child before this but i told him we are good with the ones we have.
Honestly i don't know how i to feel about this if i should agree or not. Especially because he wants a child and i don't.

What might happen if i let him have the baby ?
Could this woman be trying her luck with him.
She is just that calm and collected lady who never gives us a problem even the kids i never feel like their not mine.

08/10/2025

i boyfriend yakho ikwenzele i'surprise dinner xanizongena emnyango akogqume amehlo(blind fold) akuhlalise estulweni athi uyabuya uyothatha champagne, ngalomzuzu angekhoyo uphuthaphuthe etafileni xa usiva yi full chicken hayke uqhawule iphiko kule chicken, utye ukhukhuze amathambo uwafake epokothini gqiba usule umlomo wakho xa ibuya i'boyfriend ikususe lo blind fold , xawusithi kule tafile kuhleli family yakhe yonke oko bekujongile .😩🚶‍♀️

26/09/2025

Welcome to South Africa where an SGB chairperson without matric certificate is interviewing a graduate with a degree.🤣

25/09/2025

Meet your tribe here, speak your language; anyone who understands it will chat with you 😊

24/09/2025

24 September 2025, 19:54pm

I heard my husband crying in the bathroom at midnight 2am. thought I was dreaming...I wanted to urinate at that time. At first, I wanted to ask what happened but i told myself to exercise patience.

I stood at the bathroom door and all I was hearing was "Please I'm sorry" Don't leave me"
Eh!!!! What is happening. I listened to the whole conversation.. His girlfriend was thre@tening to breakup with him.

My husband is a warrior at home, almighty soldier. No n0ns£nse man. He has never apologized even when he is wrong. He is always so authoritative.

So l was shocked to see him crying .That woman must be so important to him. I needed to hear more. So I waited and surrender all my listening attention to the conversation... At this time I have brought out my phone for recording. He has a loud voice so he made it easier for me.

Later, he said I just sent 40k to you I will make it up to you. Haaaaa.40k ??? I have been the one taken care of the homes finances since about four months when he complained he was broke ...When I heard that, I felt che@ted, l felted used. But still I maintained my silence.

"Give me some time, I will restock your shop with new stocks. If I can open a shop for you why can't I restock it. I'm sorry for asking you how the stocks went down. 'm sorry for asking you what you were using the mon£y for. l know business sometimes can be funny so I understand you”.

Heeeeeehhhhhh my head wanted to búrst...l wanted to run m@d ....God ...My husband opened a shop for a Sidechick and here i am playing the role of a breadwinner.

I heard so many things from the conversation. He told the woman to learn different new styles for him and they planned to meet the following week.

I went back to bed. When it was morning. I went to meet him that there's nothing to eat at home. This man said, "Are you m@d? Or are you just going m@d m@d?. Don't you know what I'm passing through? Why then are you asking me for mon£y?" | said I am not m@d and Or are you just going m@d m@d?. Don't you know what I'm passing through? Why then are you asking me for mon£y?" | said I am not m@d and he should stop being h@rsh on me over a simple request.....

"How dare you talk while am talking ? When did this see finish start? If you don't shút up there, I will be@t the h£ll lout of you”.

I am not your daughter that you can be@t. Enough is enough I shouted back. In our eight years of marriage, l have never raised voice on my husband... He is so strict. l sh@ke when standing in front of him because at any time sl@p may land ..So he was shocked at my response. l told him I am done being the husband that he should take over his responsibility.....

He said then watch your children starved. It's not my business. Then I reply, if you didn't watch your Sidechick starved, then you dare not watch my children starved. School has resumed and don't forget their school fees and all if not we will drag each other to court.

He said, which Sidechick? I said the one you opened shop for and sent 40k to yesterday. And that you are going to meet next week for a sweet love making ... His voice went down.

He said give me till next month. Borrow mon£y and pay the children's school fees then I will return it.
He wanted to come close to sweet talk me but I told him to maintain his stand .....My car that he takes to work I told him I will start using it tomorrow. He should go and fix his car.. I'm tired of running after buses in the morning when I have my own ride .. And I told him if he thinks he can do anything funny to me that my brothers already know what is happening.

I Love God. Today being Monday rain was falling heavily he thought I would consider him. l entered my car and drove off ...Before, I would have to be the one entering the rain and yet I have a car I bought with my earned mon£y.

He entered the house heavily weted with rain and it sweetened me ... I was suppose to be that but l have gotten back my joy and freedom.

The drama just started. No more shiverring or getting scared of him….H@te for h@te…Shout for shout. Was just venting admin.

17/09/2025

Aibo🤔 "kuthiwa masiyeke abafazi babantu
"Bafazi babantu nina niyafuna siniyeke???

from : Ta Mlu

13/09/2025

13 September 2025, 05:00am

Ayke my husband sat me down and told me ukuth uthando luphelile. Akaze angiphathe kabi belukhona ushintsho but angikaze ngimthole esephutheni or felt like theres another woman. But today inhliziyo yam ibuhlungu.

Uthi he tried to ignore the feeling, its been too long. Uthi he didn’t want to hurt me, he thought its just a phase ezodlula but akudluli, instead, he feels trapped and he’s becoming an angry man now because he always has to come back home to a good woman he no longer loves.

He continued saying there’s no other woman, akaze azame ngisho nokujola.

Yazi he answered all the things ebezisekhanda lami ngingakamubuzi.
Ngyaz ukuthi i have to let him go, kodwa kanjan ngoba he’s always been good to me, kshuth he’s a good pretender 🤞🏽

Ungshiyile ke waya kubo wathi ucela ukungishiya khona ngizo meditater about everything he has said, and when he got there ungfonelile and told me ukuth uhambe kahle… i got silent, i didnt know what to say to him. Wakhulumisa izingane nogogo wazo. Angaz noma ngidiniwe noma iyona ibroken heart le.

He didnt mention indaba ye divorce ..

11/09/2025

11 September 2025, 11:21am

MY HUSBAND IS WE!RD

It's been just about 2 months of marriage and I'm out considering dîv0rce already. Saturday July 5th was my wedding day. It was the best day of my life. My fairytale wedding as anticipated. My husband gave me the best wedding party i could ever dream of. Ok let me go straight to the point. I met my husband when I was in the university when he came home from abroad for holidays. He was interested in me but I was hesitant because in my mind he was just one of the usual guys who come home to play around then go back. In one of our encounter we had exchanged contacts. He didn't relent, he kept reaching out even when he went back abroad.

Our communication was smooth and lovely and he got involved in my life, taking care of my needs. Fast forward we eventually got married in July. It was a big wedding. I felt like heaven was brought right in front of me to experience.
Now this is where our pr0blem started. On our honeymoon night it was all lovy dovy. But when it was time for us to get întimate,🍑🍆 my husband wanted it from the back. I refused thinking it was just a joke. He got so . The back and forth we had in our hotel room was so loud that the management had to knock at our door to check if everything was alright. My husband vehemently told me "if I don't abide to his fantasy, our marriage ends that same moment" I got scared! I kept thinking how will I get married and it's over the same night. Finally I gave in to him. Gosh!! The païn i felt was too much (i don't want to describe how messy the bed was💩🙊🙈). After that act I couldn't describe what I felt for my husband anymore. The sight of him is dïsgüsting. I became moody and we had to cut our honeymoon short. This has been my struggle everytime because even if we have s*x normally, he will still want it from the back of which I have been refusing. Presently I'm not in his house anymore because I feel like he's a M0nsta. He boldly told me that's his fantasy and his woman should be able to make him happy as he gives me everything I ask for. I don't know how to relate this to my family as they already see him as their light and shining armor.

Please I need advice for this thing is draining me. In just 2months of Marriage I have lost weight instead.
What should I do?

11/09/2025

Kushota 10 yePlate kotata
kucelwa iPlate ene Chicken
kucelwa iPlate eneVeg
kucelwa iPlate yoMngqusho ibene Beef qha
Singena endlini enkulu ngoku
kukho oTata abafikayo abayi4
sisaya ebafaneni nasezintombini ke Bafazi
kulandlu ingentla kucelwa iti
Khanizibaleni

bengase ndothatha iNdoda yam ebuhlanti sigoduke🥱🥱🥱

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