19/03/2025
The's this girl called Bonolo at school, she asked me "Why does it seem like you don't talk to lot of people this days"? & my respond was.....
Not everybody deserves me in their life and that's why I don't talk to a lot of people anymore .No bigfallout 💐, no long explanations 🎀, no beef 🥺. I just got real with myself and realised not everybody's for me and that's cool😁 . I used to feel like I owe people my presents😔 . Like I had to keep certain friendships just because of history 😭. Like I had to keep entertaining conversation even though they were draining me and for what all just to be nice but then I asked myself why am i showing up for people who wouldn't show up for me 🥺? why am i making space for people who wouldn't even notice if I stop showing up 💔? The truth is ... when you start valuing yourself you naturally start distancing yourself from anything that doesn't and a lot of people can't handle that they think you're acting funny or they say things like you're switching up but Nah , I just stopped connections that weren't meant for me ❤️🩹. I didn't cut people off they cut themselves off when they showed me who they really were 💔 & I didn't lose anybody they lost me😏