08/12/2025
1) Truth is no one will gaslight you if you right and they are wrong.
2) No one will ignore you but talk openly no matter how hard it is.
3) No one will disrespect you, and confront you and but all the blame on you and rather show you they love you.
I have been in abusive and cheating relationships. And the last one was where my child was killed in my tummy because of insecurity, wanted validation he wanted me for himself, never complimented me but other girls. He talked to girls but I had to provide fir him while he was sitting at my house and play games. I had to give out money like no one's business. He gaflighted me, never wanted to talk to me openly kept his phone in his pocket 24hours and on silent. He had passwords and when I did confront him he got angry and raised his voice for me. He got so angry that he hit me that im blue and he said im a sl@t etc. But never picked me up as a person and said hey baby i love you im sorry I was wrong, but no he took his claws *hands* and turned my breast around and said I'll puncture your implants so no other man can touch you? He grabbed me by my V(lips) and said no other guy will get you or have a baby or make love to you. (Had to say it better cause it was brutal) the scars a man leaves when he cheats when he lies about things when he goes down on you and you did everything while you could work and not.
I am a VICTIM BUT NOW IM WILLING TO SPEAK OUT AND HELP OTHERS!!!
Till this day I won't forget but I forgave him for what he did.
Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34).
Key Biblical Teachings on Forgiveness
Conditional Forgiveness:
Jesus teaches, "If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15).