Gareth Pickering

Gareth Pickering Helping Men Attract & Maintain Healthy Connections
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For a decade, we've been working with men who are successful in their careers, portfolios, and on the field but struggle...
05/06/2026

For a decade, we've been working with men who are successful in their careers, portfolios, and on the field but struggle in their relationships.

It makes sense.

You've invested in leadership training. You've studied finance and investing and spent hundreds of hours optimising your diet and your body. But no one ever taught you the patterns that underlie your relationships.

An 85-year Harvard study found that the quality of your relationships is the single greatest predictor of your happiness and health.

Not your net worth. Not your performance metrics.

Your relationships.

So why has no school, culture, or system ever developed training for that?

We founded Fathers Sons Brothers to close that gap.

Everything we do is built on a simple framework: ME, WE, WORLD.

ME: You start with yourself. Restore self-trust. Heal the patterns that leak your power. Regulate your nervous system so you stop reacting and start leading.

WE: You build the relational skills that create real connections with your partner, family and community.

WORLD: From there, your mission sharpens, and you step into soul-aligned leadership

A well-lived life isn't measured by your net worth or your Ironman PB; it's defined by how present you were with those you love the most.

If something in this landed, we've got something that might be worth your time.
Drop a comment or send a message.

03/06/2026

New Episode Alert!
No. 59

If you’re tired of stepping on emotional landmines and watching your relationship suffer, it’s time to change the game.

The Relationship Roadmap is your key to navigating love with clarity and confidence:
- Know your desires
- Define your boundaries
- Understand your core wounds

If you want to stop reacting and start building something solid, watch the full episode [No. 59] for more expert advice:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGQFZhAKnYg&t=5s

03/06/2026

Are you creating space for the right relationship to grow?

Knowing your desires and setting clear boundaries is key. If your partner is falling short or your values are misaligned, it’s time to speak up.

For more relationship advice, catch Episode 59 - “Stop Stepping on Relationship Landmines”.

Watch it here, on the Fathers Sons Brothers Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGQFZhAKnYg&t=7s

1237 men have stepped into our transformational experiences.1237 men brave enough to drop the mask and be themselves.123...
03/06/2026

1237 men have stepped into our transformational experiences.

1237 men brave enough to drop the mask and be themselves.

1237 men who dared to be seen in their mastery and their messiness.

1237 men who felt the relief of speaking from the heart and experienced the healing that comes when they hear other men tell the truth.

1237 men who feel more connected to themselves.

1237 men who know they are not alone and that other men carry similar challenges.

1237 men connected to a global tribe of brothers who have each other’s back.

1237 men who have the tools and the accountability to let go of destructive habits.

1237 men who are showing up better as leaders, lovers, fathers, sons, and brothers.

The hardest part of men’s work is walking through the door.

Once you’re in the circle, the magic, the medicine, and the transformation happen automatically.

Thank you to the courageous leaders who show up again and again and do the work.

(Photo from King’s Circle 42. Theme: Post-Game 2025, harvesting the gold from the last 12 months.)

Next event: 11 December. Theme: Pregame 2026.

03/06/2026

Rejection isn’t the problem.

It’s the story you attach to it.

That fear is what stops you from speaking your truth, owning your desire, and fully showing up in your relationship.

In this episode of the Fathers Sons Brothers Podcast, we break down the mother wounds driving these patterns, and how to change them.

Break the cycle and lead powerfully in love.

Full episode on Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_xSUCqikr0E

Most of the men we work with have never recognised this pattern in themselves.But when they do, they can’t unsee it.Here...
03/06/2026

Most of the men we work with have never recognised this pattern in themselves.

But when they do, they can’t unsee it.

Here are the 6 mother wounds and how they show up in your relationships.

Swipe through and notice which one makes you feel something.

Drop your number in the comments - 1 through 6. Which one landed?

👉Tap the link in bio to get the free masterclass

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Most of the men I work with have never recognised this pattern in themselves.But when they do, they can't unsee it.Here ...
01/06/2026

Most of the men I work with have never recognised this pattern in themselves.

But when they do, they can't unsee it.

Here are the 6 mother wounds and how they show up in your relationships.

Swipe through and notice which one makes you feel something.

Drop your number in the comments - 1 through 6. Which one landed?

Tap to get the free masterclass sent to you on WhatsApp:

https://api.whatsapp.com/send/?phone=17134460104&text=I%20want%20the%20masterclass

29/05/2026

You're not arguing about the dishes, the money, or the text message.

You're arguing from a wound.

Until the wound is addressed, the pattern repeats.

If you'd like to learn how to identify the core wounds driving your reactions and relationships, join us for Relationship Checkpoint this Sunday at 6pm.

đź”— Link in bio.

30/04/2026

NEW EPISODE ALERT!

Most conflict in relationships isn’t about who you are, but which part of you has the mic.

The drill sergeant.
The protector.
The fearful-avoidant part trying to keep you safe.

In this conversation with Paul Sutton on the Father Sons Brothers Podcast, we unpack a relational skill most men were never taught:
learning to speak for your inner parts, not from them.

When defensive or controlling parts take over, connection can break down in seconds, even when your intention is love or understanding. But when you can name the part and ask what it needs, responsibility comes back online.

If you want to stop outsourcing your power to old survival patterns, comment “relationship” to receive the link to the full episode.

11/02/2026

We’ve been sold the myth that a man’s worth is tied to how much he produces, how fast he moves, how hard he drives.

But without rest, there’s no power.
Without pause, there’s no perspective.

In this short conversation with Lenerd Louw, we explore a different kind of leadership - one that listens, pauses, and moves with intention.

Slowing down isn’t falling behind, but learning to lead from your center.
Watch the full episode here, on the Fathers Sons Brothers Podcast:

https://youtu.be/F908_oE7XGY?si=n7dfWbwjRUm-Ts-j.

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