OkwenkosiKuhle

02/01/2026

As someone who has been part of the spiritually awoken community
When do you celebrate your new year's?

30/12/2025

What are you grieving? 🥺

30/12/2025

Don't stay because of the "kids"

30/12/2025

Toxic partners are your drug 🤞🏼

27/12/2025

Expectation is human. Assignment is spiritual. So I had a conversation yesterday with my sister and this is what I learned about myself.

Expectation says: “You should be there for me.”

Assignment says: “If you are meant to be there, you will be sent.”

Most relationships - friendships break not because love is absent, but because roles were assumed instead of revealed. One person expects physical presence, the other is offering spiritual alignment. Others nothing. These currencies do not match and so disappointment is inevitable. And social currencies are not Spiritual currencies
Spiritual maturity teaches you that you cannot punish people for not fulfilling contracts they never signed in the spirit. And physical support without spiritual alignment becomes debt. When help is given without spiritual grounding, it eventually turns into resentment, scorekeeping, emotional debt and silent withdrawal

This is why some friendships feel heavy.
But when physical help flows from spiritual alignment, it is clean. It is joyful. It does not demand repayment, nor recognition, or even loyalty beyond the season.
Spirit fed relationships do not exhaust you, they actually restore you 🤍

Umoya wakho summons who is needed, when it is needed.

One of the clearest signs of spiritual readiness is that provision arrives with a face.

When the spirit is aligned, listening, and ready:
the right person appears
the right door opens
the right word is spoken

Spiritual maturity also reveals this uncomfortable truth: Sometimes you were placed in someone’s life not to receive, but to elevate.
You were the door. the voice. the bridge.

Accountability is spiritual, not social.
When life ends, you are not judged by:
how many favours you did, how many emergencies you attended or how available you were to others

You are judged by:
how closely you reflected God
how truthfully you lived
how faithfully you spoke
“Be like Him. Speak His word. Do His word.”
That is the measure.

When umoya wakho is in order, everything else finds its place.
relationships align
support aligns
provision aligns
purpose aligns

Not because you demanded it but ngoba you were positioned correctly.
Nothing else truly matters if the spirit is neglected.
Everything else flows when it is honoured.
Do not expect people to save you.
Align yourself so spirit can send who is needed.
Not everyone is meant to stay.
Everyone is meant to serve a purpose.

26/12/2025

Some parts of your life don’t change because you prayed once. 🥺
They change when you become consistent, disciplined, and persistent in your spiritual life.
Your life will only responds to commitment, not curiosity.

26/12/2025

If beef tallow were a person, it would be that one friend who can:
✔️ cook
✔️ moisturise
✔️ heal
✔️ protect
✔️ mind their business

Let’s break it down 👇🏽

🥩 WHAT IS BEEF TALLOW?
Rendered beef fat, old-school, ancestral, trusted.
Before “clean beauty” was trendy, this was the clean.

IN THE KITCHEN:
• High smoke point = doesn’t break down like seed oils
• Great for frying, roasting & sautéing
• Stable, nourishing fat
• Your great-grandmother cooked with this and survived just fine 😌

FOR SKIN & BODY:
• Deep moisture (dry skin, elbows, heels, knees are sorted)
• Supports skin barrier repair
• Helps calm eczema-prone & sensitive skin
• Absorbs beautifully because it’s similar to our natural oils

FOR BABIES & SENSITIVE SKIN:
• Gentle
• No synthetic fragrance
• Minimal ingredients = less irritation
(Yes, even soft baby skin loves it)

FOR HAIR & SCALP:
• Seals moisture into dry hair
• Helps with flaky scalp
• Adds shine without that crunchy, greasy look
• A little goes a LONG way — we’re not deep-frying our heads 😭

FOR THE HOUSEHOLD:
• Natural leather conditioner (bags, shoes, couches)
• Protects wooden tools & boards
• Yes, even your furniture can glow in 2025

FUN FACT:
Your body doesn’t panic when it meets beef tallow.
It says:
👀 “Ah… you again.”

No trends. No drama. Just nourishment.

If 2025 is about less noise, more sense,
Beef tallow fits the assignment 🤍

01/12/2025

19/11/2025

Movement is medicine 👣
Many of you have stopped moving spiritually 🥺

19/11/2025

Thola amafutha enkomo

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🧼 Did You Know? Beef Tallow Was One of the First Ever Soap Ingredients?

Long before modern skincare labs and fancy formulas, our ancestors used natural fats—especially beef tallow—to make soap that actually worked.

Here’s why tallow became the OG soap ingredient:

✨ 1. Readily Available & Sustainable
People used every part of an animal. After cooking or rendering meat, leftover fats were melted down into tallow. Nothing went to waste.

✨ 2. Tallow + Wood Ash = Soap
In ancient times, soap was simply made by combining tallow with lye from wood ash. This simple mixture created a cleansing bar that was safe, effective, and long-lasting.

✨ 3. Creates a Hard, Long-Lasting Bar
Tallow makes soap bars that don’t melt quickly. They last longer in the bathroom and keep their form beautifully.

✨ 4. Creamy, Luxurious Lather
The natural fatty acids in beef tallow give soap a rich creamy foam—the same type of lather hot-process soap makers still love today.

✨ 5. Skin-Loving Nutrients
Beef tallow is packed with vitamins A, D, E, K & antioxidants. Our ancestors didn’t know the science, but they knew their skin felt soft, nourished, and protected.

✨ 6. Mirrors Human Skin Oils
Tallow’s structure is almost identical to the oils naturally found in human skin, making it incredibly gentle and healing. No wonder traditional soap always left skin feeling moisturised instead of stripped.

✨ 7. A Tradition That Still Works Today
Even with all the modern alternatives, high-quality tallow soap remains unmatched for moisturising, soothing, and cleansing without harsh chemicals.

19/11/2025

A fascinating new study shows that women who wore rose essential oil on their clothes for just 30 days experienced a significant increase in gray matter volume across the whole brain, as revealed by MRI scans. This suggests that simple, natural aromatherapy may have measurable effects on brain structure and cognitive health.

Gray matter is crucial for memory, learning, and emotional regulation, and its increase could indicate enhanced neural connectivity and brain function. Researchers believe that the pleasant aroma of rose oil may stimulate brain activity and neuroplasticity, potentially supporting mental well-being and cognitive resilience.

Incorporating rose essential oil into daily life is easy, just adding a few drops to clothing, scarves, or fabrics could provide a subtle yet powerful brain-boosting effect. While more research is needed to fully understand the long-term impact, this study highlights the potential of natural scents to influence brain health in meaningful ways.

This discovery opens a new chapter in exploring how aromatherapy and lifestyle practices can support neurological function and mental wellness.

09/11/2025

Okra as a purifier and protector:

Add some to your spiritual bath for clearing stagnancy and opening paths.

Combine with herbs like imphepho, mint, or rosemary for cleansing and renewal rituals.