Katlego Prudence Sekwati

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Diary Of A Young Widow[Insert 7]They can call me evil and dramatic, but I no longer care. I’m done worrying about people...
29/07/2025

Diary Of A Young Widow

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They can call me evil and dramatic, but I no longer care. I’m done worrying about people who don’t care about me or my children—people who only love my money and not me. So, I closed my gates and went back inside to mourn the death of my lovely husband in peace. While I was inside, I heard them screaming my name and calling me all sorts of names. They even said they would see if I could bury someone I didn’t give birth to. My in-laws were still in the house, while the relatives were chased away by the dogs.

I was terrified and emotional. I went to my bedroom and cried out loud, wishing my husband would wake up so that the drama could end. While I was sobbing, my mother-in-law came to me and said hurtful things. She told me that I could cry as much as I wanted, but once I was done, I should explain why I had killed her son. She accused me of wanting to claim his life insurance money.

I continued to cry until she crossed a line. She mentioned that I had succeeded in killing my parents, and she warned me about what would come my way regarding her child. I stood up and walked straight to her, slapping her across her face. “Don’t you dare talk about my parents! You don’t know what happened to them, yet you’re here spouting nonsense. I have tolerated your hurtful words long enough, but now you’ve pressed the wrong button!” I said, making my way to the bedroom door. I opened it and ordered them to leave my house. They didn’t even bother to listen; they acted as if they were deaf. So I went to each of them one by one and forcefully removed them, locking all the doors behind me.

I was so heartbroken that I didn’t care about what would happen tomorrow. I felt indifferent toward them because they never accepted me as their daughter-in-law. I even told them that I didn’t want to see them at my husband’s funeral. I didn’t mean it; I just said it out of anger and pain. They all got into their cars and drove back home. Watching those cars leave one by one gave me a sense of relief.

I mourned my husband with only friends until my uncles, aunts, and cousins from my mother’s side came to support me. At least I wasn’t alone, even though my heart was broken with no one from my husband’s side there.

While I was preparing for the funeral, I accidentally opened my phone and went to WhatsApp. I saw a picture of my husband along with funeral arrangements that were to take place in Limpopo. His younger sister was informing people that my husband would be buried in Limpopo, his home. I didn’t want to engage with her and continued with my preparations.

My aunts set up a mattress for me where I sat and performed the traditional rituals for a widow. I was grateful for having such a caring and loving family. I wished they had been the ones raising me, not that woman with a heart as cold as a snake’s.

On Wednesday, I went to the funeral parlor with my uncles and aunt to choose a casket for my husband. When we arrived, I was told it was not possible to select a casket for someone who was no longer there. It felt like I had a mini-heart attack.

“What do you mean we can’t choose a casket for someone who is not here? Where is my husband?” I asked the receptionist, struggling to breath and stand still. I then balanced myself with my uncle as I felt like I was about to faint.

“Your husband was taken by his parents. We had no choice but to release him body since they were threatening us,” she explained. It sounded like she was shouting at me; nothing she said made sense. Why hadn’t they contacted me to inform me that my husband’s body had been taken?

I went straight to the car and drove to Limpopo with my uncle, leaving my other uncle and aunt at the parlor. I had to hold it together, putting aside my own feelings while fighting for my husband. We first went to the nearest police station to explain our situation, but they were unhelpful, saying it was a family matter we needed to resolve ourselves. I was disappointed and felt let down by them, but I never gave up on my man.

Upon arriving at his home, we found a lot of people in the yard preparing for a funeral that wasn’t supposed to be held there. I went straight to his old bedroom and found his mother and father inside. The nerve of that woman, she was setting on the mattress mourning for my husband as if she was her wife.

“Where is my husband?” I asked, looking directly at her, my eyes filled with hurt and tears. She stood up and slapped me several times. Her actions were futile because I felt nothing; all I cared about was my husband, who was somewhere cold that I didn’t know. I demanded to know where his body was.

While we were shouting and arguing, my aunt; who raised me came into the room, trying to intervene. Imagine, she went to my husband’s home, not mine. I knew she hated me with every fiber of her being but i never though she will choose people she didn’t know over her brother's only child. I didn’t say much to her; I just asked who she was and continued to demand answers. I acted as if I don't know her and she doesn't matter.

They remained silent, leaving me desperate for information.

To be continued......

29/07/2025

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Some situations remind us that we must always be there for ourselves, as we are all we truly have. It’s heart-wrenching ...
25/07/2025

Some situations remind us that we must always be there for ourselves, as we are all we truly have. It’s heart-wrenching to realize that the people you value—those for whom you would do anything—often don’t care about you at all. They seem to care only about what you can offer them. When they need you, you are fully present, but when you need support, no one shows up. It's both saddening and heartbreaking, and you are the only one who can put a stop to that.

Be there for the people who are there for you; support those who will fight for you in your absence. It’s okay if they call you ruthless because you have become what they are. It’s perfectly fine to walk away from situations that no longer serve you. It’s always okay to choose yourself and to prioritize your peace.❤️

The Teenage Pragnancy [Insert 3]The family issue was resolved even though I didn't reveal my whereabouts. We continued t...
24/07/2025

The Teenage Pragnancy

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The family issue was resolved even though I didn't reveal my whereabouts. We continued to love each other and communicate until one morning, before I went to school, he called to inform me that I was pregnant. What?

I was scared and shocked, and I couldn't believe him. He pleaded with me not to think otherwise and promised to take full responsibility, saying he would love me until the end of time. He also mentioned that he had always wanted a child. My whole world felt like it had turned upside down. I couldn’t believe it, so I informed my sister, who immediately asked to see my tummy and breasts. You don't want to know what happened next.

My sister started shouting at me, calling me stupid for allowing a guy to finish inside me when I was still so young, especially without taking precautions. She asked when I last saw my period, and I was clueless because I hadn't been paying attention. She went on to tell our granny, who shouted her name to help me every time she saw me vomiting.

As promised, they did the right thing and never disappointed me. However, the issue began when I became addicted to him. I would travel every Friday to see him. Even the person hired to guard me at school was aware that most Fridays were her short day. If we weren’t going to check up on him, we were “sick.” That was the only tactic I used to visit him.

Come Labor Day… the most painful yet joyous day of our lives.

I went to the hospital wearing trousers, a dress, and boots. It was March, and it was too hot to be dressed like that. When I arrived at the hospital, I was assisted by a nice and caring male nurse who would give me toilet paper to unroll when I was in pain and roll it back when the pain subsided. It was a grueling six hours, but we prayed, and God answered, blessing us with a handsome baby boy.

Please, teenagers, stay far away from that black or white thing you see when a man unzips his trousers. It doesn’t play; it vomits and not just food, a whole human being. You will go to the hospital and come back with a stranger who will cry for no reason...

Lol, that’s how I became a mother. Thank you.

The end.

The Teenage Pragnancy [Insert 2]When I arrived, he came to pick me up from his hometown. He was with his friend and brot...
23/07/2025

The Teenage Pragnancy

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When I arrived, he came to pick me up from his hometown. He was with his friend and brother. At least I was dressed beautifully for the wedding. We traveled to the venue, where we met his family and friends, who welcomed me warmly. It seemed like he had already told them about me. Everyone was happy to see me—except for his friend's wife. She was upset, shouting at her husband for leaving her for an hour to pick me up. She thought I was his girlfriend, and it seemed like my beauty intimidated her. After all, I know I'm beautiful! Not to mention, they were few light-skinned women (my self included) at the wedding, and those ambi bring back our black girls kinda skill.

Around 8 in the evening, we went to his home. That's where I met Belle and experienced the night when someone with full physical attributes entered me. When we arrived, he showed me his room, and after that, we took a bath together. We ended up doing the deeds. Even though it was painful, he was gentle and patient because he knew it was my first time.

Before we started, after he unzipped his trousers and took out his thing, I confidently asked about protection. He told me he didn’t have any and that I shouldn’t worry because he wasn't sick; he is HIV negative. He even showed me his medical report from work.

So, there I was, lying there like a slaughtered chicken, and we proceeded. Afterward, he handed me a towel to wipe myself, and I didn’t quite understand what I was supposed to wipe because he promised he wouldn't cm inside me.

When I stood up to clean myself, I felt quite wet and screamed, telling him that I thought he had cm inside me. He just laughed, saying it was actually me.

Wow, relationships are definitely not for the faint-hearted!

I understood the situation because I wasn't very knowledgeable about these things. We slept overnight, and the next day, he accompanied me to his hometown so I could take a taxi back home. The moment I arrived, my phone started working, and I received plenty of messages and missed calls. While I was there, there was no network coverage, so my phone was off from Friday to Sunday. Although I had informed everyone that I arrived home safely on that Friday, they were not convinced since my phone and my father's phone were both not working.

At the taxi rank, I bought a sack of oranges because they are my favorite. I traveled and reached home around 6 in the evening. When I got there, my uncles, aunts, and Granny had gathered, saying that I was missing and that they were about to report me to the police. My sister didn’t say anything since it was our little secret. Imagine arriving home to a house full of people claiming that you were lost! It was a stressful situation for them, but looking back, I find it funny. It's like you end up finding yourself in trouble after thinking everything is fine! 😂😂😂😂

To be continued....

The Teenage Pragnancy[Insert 1]This is for young girls...Dear Girls, if you see a man unzipping his trousers, please run...
22/07/2025

The Teenage Pragnancy

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This is for young girls...

Dear Girls, if you see a man unzipping his trousers, please run away, even if he appears to be just peeing. Don't be like me, who got Belle (pregnant) on my first day of experiencing antimacy, of doing the deeds.

Okay, fine. I met this young man in early 2010 while visiting my aunt. We exchanged numbers; I was still young—I won’t mention my age, but I was in grade 10. Eban, this guy, started sending me morning, good day, and good night messages every day. He would even buy me R30 airtime four times a week. At that time, receiving airtime felt like a big deal. We communicated every day for four to six months before we finally met. He would send me lunch money, and as naive and young as I was, I would share that money with my sister. Can you imagine? Someone was sending me money, and all I could think about was snacks and Kota at school.

One day, he invited me to his home to see him because he had a wedding to attend. I didn't want to go, as I was scared of him, but I told my sister about it. She assured me that I would be safe since she trusted the guy. So, we came up with a plan to lie to my grandmother. We told her that I was visiting my father, and my sister even changed my father's number in my grandmother’s phone to the wrong one. Eventually, I traveled 124.2 km to get Belle.....

Chaii life has no balance (with Nagerian accent)😂😂😂😂😂.

BASED ON A TRUE STORY

To be continued........

These are pictures of me and my younger sister. I've been telling you that I was always slaying! In the 2011 picture, I ...
22/07/2025

These are pictures of me and my younger sister. I've been telling you that I was always slaying! In the 2011 picture, I was wearing a Brazilian hair, and the glow khe sana I don’t want to say much about it. These are special mementos, so please don’t share these pictures because my younger sister will go mall! 🤣💁‍♀️👯

17/07/2025

Those who were given belle🤰 at the first time of intimacy must gather here and cry with me
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Grab to be Grabbed❤️🔥
17/07/2025

Grab to be Grabbed❤️🔥

Came across this picture ya 2013....I've been slaying mos😂😂😂😂
17/07/2025

Came across this picture ya 2013....I've been slaying mos😂😂😂😂

This is the most painful test I've ever had in my entire life. It's a HIV test....The process:They withdraw blood and th...
17/07/2025

This is the most painful test I've ever had in my entire life. It's a HIV test....

The process:

They withdraw blood and then pour it into a small bottle that contains a liquid. After shaking it until the mixture turns purple, they pour it onto that test device. You need to wait a few seconds to see the results. If there is one circle, it means you are not sick, but if there are two circles, it means you are positive. I wish not to take this test again because the needle is too painful.

16/07/2025

When you pray for blessings, remember to also pray for good health. 🕯

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