04/05/2026
We recorded a podcast this week that as always hits on some painful truths!
It started as a conversation about what it means to be a man right now, in 2026, against everything that’s going on in the world… rising costs, pressure, distance from home, all of it.
But it quickly became something much more personal.
Louis shared about a weekend he spent with a group of men just sitting around fires, talking honestly, being seen. And it sounds simple, but it shifted something quite deeply for him.
And for us. Because if I’m honest, we weren’t really seeing each other anymore. We were kind of just walking alongside each other, but not actually meeting.
Something shifted in Louis after he came back from a recent transformative weekend away.
We ended up talking about:
– how isolation (especially after immigrating) can quietly take its toll
– the difference between real brotherhood and all the noise out there about masculinity
– what happens in a relationship when you start second-guessing yourself all the time
– and how revisiting our 2008 wedding vows brought us back to something we’d drifted away from
It’s not a polished conversation by any means, it’s just us, being honest about where we were… and where we are now.
If you feel like listening, I’d love to know what resonates.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3fio0dOAxhUSpEGeycyT0H?si=I-5PpB7aQLKX2u-zRZGyAA
Louis Bolton