As A Muuze

16/04/2026

. How do you maintain trust in online friendships?

28/03/2026

The "Mara" In Our Hearts

We often judge Naomi for calling herself "Mara" (Bitter). We label her as a woman who lost her faith. But as an educator and a writer, I see something much deeper in her story. Naomi wasn't being pessimistic; she was being authentic.

Naomi lost her husband and her two sons in a foreign land. To come back and pretend everything was "Pleasant" (Naomi) would have been a lie. She was simply acknowledging her current state. In Psychology, we call this Radical Acceptance. You can't heal from what you won't name.

If Naomi had truly lost hope, she would have never left Moab. The very act of walking back to Bethlehem was an act of faith. She knew that if there was bread anywhere, it was in the "House of Bread" (Bethlehem). Her "bitterness" was the weight of her grief, but her "feet" were following the promise of God’s provision.

Sometimes, we feel guilty for being honest about our "Mara" moments—the exhaustion, the stress, or the grief. But being real with God about your pain doesn't mean you've lost your hope. Like Naomi, you can be "bitterly" tired and still be "faithfully" moving toward the harvest.

Are you in a season where you're struggling to be "pleasant"? Remember, God can handle your honesty as long as you keep walking toward Him.

25/03/2026

*The ABCs of Friendships 🤝*

A - *Acceptance*: Embracing each other's quirks and flaws.
B - *Belonging*: Feeling part of a community, being included.
C - *Communication*: Open, honest, and respectful dialogue.
D - *Dependability*: Being reliable, supportive, and trustworthy.
E - *Empathy*: Understanding and sharing each other's feelings.
F - *Fun*: Sharing laughter, adventures, and joyful moments.
G - *Growth*: Supporting each other's personal development.
H - *Honesty*: Truthful and transparent interactions.
I - *Inclusion*: Welcoming and valuing each friend.
J - *Joy*: Spreading happiness and positivity.
K - *Kindness*: Showing care, compassion, and generosity.
L - *Listening*: Actively hearing and understanding each other.
M - *Mutual Respect*: Valuing each other's thoughts and boundaries.
N - *Nurturing*: Supporting each other's well-being.
O - *Open-Mindedness*: Embracing differences and new perspectives.
P - *Patience*: Understanding and accommodating each other's pace.
Q - *Quality Time*: Prioritizing shared moments.
R - *Respect*: Treating each other with dignity and appreciation.
S - *Support*: Being there through thick and thin.
T - *Trust*: Building and maintaining faith in each other.
U - *Understanding*: Seeking to comprehend and connect.
V - *Vulnerability*: Being willing to be vulnerable and authentic.
W - *Warmth*: Showing affection, care, and kindness.
X - *X-factor*: The special bond that makes friendships unique.
Y - *Yearning*: Embracing the desire for connection and friendship.
Z - *Zeal*: Living life with passion and enthusiasm, together.

What's your take on what makes a strong friendship?

24/03/2026

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17/03/2026

My wife asked me if Kaizer Chiefs is a series. I asked why she replied "Because their fans are always waiting for next season".😭😂

16/03/2026

13/03/2026

As a team member of aaawwww🥰🥰and wow association, we regret to inform you that many couples we saw in 2025 didn’t make it to 2026 with the same partner. Therefore, we encourage all of you to focus on business especially if you are in Lusaka
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01/03/2026

With Funny Time Media – I'm on a streak! I've been a top fan for 4 months in a row. 🎉