28/12/2025
Dear Qtalk family,
I am writing this with a very heavy heart. Honestly, I truly believed I had met the love of my life, but now I realize I was wrong.
I am a 35 year old man from Mazabuka, a widower and a father of two girls from my previous marriage.
In 2024, I found a job in Kafue, and that is how I relocated there. While in Kafue, I met a lady who is 25 years old. We connected instantly, and that is how our love journey began.
Before this relationship, I was married. Sadly, my wife passed away, and after her death I tried to move on with my life.
Throughout 2024 and 2025, this new lady and I dated seriously, and with time, we decided to tie the knot. Our wedding was even scheduled for 20th December 2025.
Later on, through a friend of mine, I helped her get a job in Lusaka, since we were both in agriculture. My friend was also working at the same company. From that time, our relationship became long distance, because I would see her only when I was off work, and she would also travel when she could.
After she got the job in Lusaka, I continued to support her financially. I helped her with her school finances, and I also paid for the place where she was staying in Lusaka, because she was my wife to be.
At some point, rumors started coming out that my wife to be was having an affair with a workmate at the same company where I helped her get a job. Every time I brought this issue up, she dismissed it and told me that people at work were just jealous of her, so we ignored the matter and continued with wedding plans.
What has brought me here today is what happened one week before our wedding.
My wife to be disappeared.
She switched off her phone, changed her location, and completely vanished. We tried to follow up with the man she was alleged to be having an affair with, but even he claimed he didn’t know where she was.
Up to now, as I am writing this, no one knows where she is or what really made her do this.
During that same week, she only sent a message to her family members, saying she was okay and that they should not worry about her. That was the last communication. Nothing more well according to them.
Dear Qtalk family, I am here looking for answers, but no one seems to have them.
Imagine your woman disappearing a week before your wedding. All the preparations, plans, money, and hopes have gone to waste. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.
Please guide me on the best way forward, because I am completely lost.
Remember, I already lost a wife to death, and now this one has chosen to run away without leaving any trace.
What can I really do in this situation?
I am tired.
I am hurt.
I am confused.
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