16/07/2025
When we first moved to lusaka from livingstone. The first house we rented in kamwala south, one of our neighbours I had just met asked me,
"How r u finding lusaka, i see u already found a school for your boy, which school does he go to?"
Nati, "which boy?"
Her: there's that young man who u take to the bus station every morning, u even carry his school bag. I don't know if he's your young brother or nephew.
I just cudnt understand who she was referring to.
The following morning I woke up around 04 as usual, prepared awisi Fe for work & around 07hrs, I walked out with him to es**rt him to the bus station (we didnt have a car back then). When I returned home from the station, i found the neighbour waiting for me by her kitchen door & said,
That's the boy I was asking u about. The one u r just from taking to the station.
Ine ☠️☠️😱😱😱😵😵😵🤯🤯🤯
Nati aSisy ndiye bamudala banga bamene baja😭.
Nati that's my husband imwe shuwa nemunzanu 🥺.
That man is 7yrs older than me😭.
By the time i was born, he already even knew how to insult😔.
Ninshi nemunzanu that's my impregnancer, ba head of household, pillar of my family, my sosovjoy imwe ati ni ba pupils.
Ninshi me your friend that same person rocks my world, bamani panga kuchito ni zizilika mendo imwe ati 'school boy'😔.
Awe she really hurt my feelings.
I quietly walked into my house & sat in the corner alone. that day i was depressed.
(That was before I had self esteem😂).
I even called my mother to report ati kuno mayo people r saying that awisi Fe niba fana banga ba school boy ba pa kabulonga boys secondary school 😭.
Instead of comforting me, my mother cracked up laughing. So I never told anyone else this story not even awisi Fe until tonight😂.
Fast forward to 2yrs later. Awisi Fe & I had an argument & since i was still childish back then, I packed my bags & left at around 21hrs.
I didn't have transport money, so I didn't go far. I was just walking slowly to the bus station hoping he wud com