19/12/2025
How can I shop without conscience this Christmas?
I still haven't bought my quadruplets Christmas clothes or anything for Christmas celebrations because I keep procrastinating.
This morning, I woke up early and asked my husband to walk with me to the mall since he made a decision to workout more.
My husband gave all the excuses in the world, like "Babe, go alone I want to play with the children. I am Cold. I am tired. I have a flight to book, etc".
I suspected he didn't want to go with me because he'd never passed on any opportunity to walk with me.
I probed further and he said "Biko, go alone. You spend money with conscience when you shop alone. If I go with you, you will not be considerate at all."
Me: I will use your card whether I go with you or not so it doesn't really matter.
But guy man still refused.
This man haff catch me, the real reason I've been procrastinating and wanted to go with him is so I can spend without conscience.
I promised to shop wisely and have conscience for both of us, he still stood by his decision.
As last resort I asked, "If I do you, will you go with me?"
He thought for few seconds and still said No. This is serious.
And I wanted to spend money like YOLO (you only live once) this Christmas but I can't since my backbone no gree follow me.
