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3 often under looked areas to improve public speaking.1️⃣ Unintentional Movement:When the stakes are really high, it’s n...
07/07/2025

3 often under looked areas to improve public speaking.

1️⃣ Unintentional Movement:
When the stakes are really high, it’s natural to feel nervous and those nerves can make you feel like a squirrel on caffeine. This nervous energy often comes out as constant fidgeting, unnecessary pacing on stage, or other unintentional hand movements, which can distract the investors and the audience from your message.

Quick fix: Before stepping on stage, channel that energy into a quick walk, some stretches, or even a mini dance-off backstage. It helps you feel more relaxed and keeps your movements intentional on stage.

2️⃣ Microphone Position (Avoid a game of charades):
Your message deserves to be heard loud and clear! If you’re holding a mic and start gesturing with that hand, your voice can cut in and out, making it hard for the audience to follow. Fastest way to lose the connection and impact is when the audience can’t hear you properly.

Quick fix: If a handsfree mic isn’t an option, be mindful of always keeping the mic near your mouth when speaking and gesture with your free hand. It might take some time getting used to, but your audience will thank you for the crystal-clear delivery.

3️⃣ Clicker Troubles (Master the magic wand of pitching):
A small tool like a clicker can make a big impact. If you don’t know how it works, it can break the flow of your pitch—like accidentally flipping slides the wrong way, not knowing where to point it, or having trouble syncing it with the screen.

Quick fix: Take just 30 seconds to familiarize yourself with the clicker before the pitches start. Test the buttons, check the range, and make sure everything works smoothly.

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What’s your go-to pitching tip? Share it in the comments. I’d love to hear your stories!

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Before every workshop, someone always asks me:“Shiv, how do I stop being so nervous on stage?”And I get it. You step up....
29/05/2025

Before every workshop, someone always asks me:
“Shiv, how do I stop being so nervous on stage?”

And I get it. You step up. Lights on. Eyes watching. Your inner critic starts giving a TED Talk of its own:
“Don’t mess up.” “Say it right.” “Why are your hands doing that weird thing?” 😅

But here’s a truth that changed everything for me:
👉 You’re not there to perform. You’re there to serve.

You’re not auditioning for Bollywood.
You’re offering value to real humans who want to learn, grow, and connect.

When you shift your focus from “How do I sound?”
to “How can I help?” —
something magical happens.

✅ You become present.
✅ You speak with heart, not just words.
✅ And the pressure? It melts away.

Because service is grounding.
And when you’re grounded, you’re powerful.

So next time you feel the fear rising, try this:
Don’t perform. Serve.
Don’t impress. Express.
And maybe… don’t skip lunch. A hangry speaker is a risky business. 😉

One of my proudest moments: facilitating a workshop at  the very college where my mom and her three sisters graduated de...
02/05/2025

One of my proudest moments: facilitating a workshop at the very college where my mom and her three sisters graduated decades ago.

What makes it even more special? Today, all four of them, along with my grandmom, will be sitting in the audience as I deliver the session.

Grateful to the amazing team at for trusting me with this opportunity and for giving me the chance to take my family back to the campus where they created so many cherished memories.

“You’re such a natural speaker, Shiv”“You are blessed with the gift of the gab”Every time I hear these kind compliments,...
04/04/2025

“You’re such a natural speaker, Shiv”
“You are blessed with the gift of the gab”

Every time I hear these kind compliments, my heart fills with gratitude. But my mind always whispers,
“If only they saw me at 15…”

Back then, I couldn’t even speak in front of five classmates without sweating buckets.
Stage fright? I had the deluxe version.
The kind where even giving a two-minute speech felt like preparing for a TED Talk for 1,000 people… with my crush in the front row 😅

The turning point came more than a decade ago when I stumbled upon this quote:

👉 “Only the prepared speaker deserves to be a confident one.”

It wasn’t some deep ancient wisdom, but it hit different.

I realised my stage fear wasn’t really only about people.
It was about the unknown.

❓What if I mess up my delivery?
❓What if I freeze?
❓What if they ask a question I have no clue how to answer?

Uncertainty creates fear. Preparation eliminates it.

So I started rehearsing:
🔁 Not once. Not twice. But 100 times.
🏠 In my bedroom.
🪞 In front of a mirror.
👏 To an imaginary audience that clapped only sometimes.

Over time, the fear of uncertainty started shrinking. I felt more in control of my delivery and started developing a sense of certainty of how things will go when I was on stage because I practiced it so many times.

Today, when people say I’m a “natural,” I know the truth:
🧠 Confidence isn’t natural. It’s earned.
Through repetition, over-preparation, and talking to yourself like a lunatic 😄

So if you’re scared to speak, don’t wait for courage to magically appear.

Start preparing.

Because no matter how funny or charismatic you are,
🎤 only the prepared speaker deserves to be a confident one.

🇮🇳India, I’m coming home and and I’ve got something to say (literally).From April to mid-May, I’ll be in India, and I’m ...
31/03/2025

🇮🇳India, I’m coming home and and I’ve got something to say (literally).

From April to mid-May, I’ll be in India, and I’m looking to run workshops on public speaking and communication skills 🎤

Of course I’m coming home for the food, have you tasted my city’s Chole Bhature🤤?
But I’d also love to give back, connect, and hopefully leave a few rooms more confident than I found them 🪄

Whether it’s helping students find their voice, coaching founders to pitch with presence, or helping professionals shake off the “umms...” and “ahhhs” — I’m open, excited, and ready to contribute 💪

So, if you know a university, startup hub, corporate team, or even your chachu’s rotary club that could use a session on speaking with clarity, confidence, and presence, I’d be grateful for an intro or a nudge in the right direction 🤝

My speaker profile is in my bio

I believe in putting things out into the universe (and also on instagram) because sometimes all it takes is one connection to open a door🔑.

So if something or someone comes to mind, feel free to drop me a message. I’d deeply appreciate your support 🙏🏽

Let’s see what the universe (and Instagram) has in store ✨

I have plans to visit Delhi, Mumbai and Varanasi but if the right opportunity comes, I’m open to adding more cities to the list.

Hosted my 1st trivia for a social networking event and it was a hoot!
29/03/2025

Hosted my 1st trivia for a social networking event and it was a hoot!

Coaching Efue felt less like a “session” and more like two mates having banter and going full ROFL mode on each other’s ...
23/03/2025

Coaching Efue felt less like a “session” and more like two mates having banter and going full ROFL mode on each other’s jokes. Grateful for clients who make growth this fun.

What really stood out about Efue was his drive to grow and be a sponge absorbing everything. He showed up with curiosity, took feedback like a champ, and implemented everything like it was a mission. Working with someone that committed makes my job feel like a cheat code.

Appreciate you, Ef-Way, your transformation speaks volumes (and now, so do you 😉)

If you’re someone who’s ambitious like Efue and want to feel like a whole new speaker within a month, whether it’s in client meetings, team presentations or pitching your business idea.

Let’s chat.

If AI had existed when I was learning to speak up, I probably would’ve spent less time panic-Googling “how to not sound ...
22/03/2025

If AI had existed when I was learning to speak up, I probably would’ve spent less time panic-Googling “how to not sound like a robot while giving a speech.”

Truth is, using AI has actually made me a better speaker.
Now I can role-play awkward networking convos (without real awkward humans), draft tighter scripts, practice humor (yes, even the dad jokes), and get instant feedback on my voice, body language, and tone.

And that’s exactly what I’ll be showing you in this FREE WORKSHOP I’m running with this Sunday.

Topic?
Using Gen AI to 10x Your Communication — for personal and business growth.

Whether you’re trying to impress at work, pitch like a pro, or stop blacking out during small talk… this is for you.

When?
Sunday, 23rd March
7PM – 9PM AEDT

If you want to speak more confidently, connect more authentically, and finally stop winging it in every high-stakes convo…

Drop everything and register.
Link’s in the bio.

When I started public speaking. I used to hate it. Just the thought of speaking in front of people would make me want to...
21/03/2025

When I started public speaking. I used to hate it. Just the thought of speaking in front of people would make me want to throw up and over a long period of time, I became better at speaking because I was consistent and didn’t give up.

For me running is hard. I hate it. I’m not much of a runner and was able to only run 1km at the start of this year.

today, I made a PB and realised how similar running and Public speaking are.

Tomorrow, I take the stage at Debate Club with my team members Amritha Rajavelu  and Vivienne Scott to prove once and fo...
19/03/2025

Tomorrow, I take the stage at Debate Club with my team members Amritha Rajavelu and Vivienne Scott to prove once and for all that the 4-day workweek isn’t just a dream but it’s common sense. There’s overwhelming data to back this up!

Less burnout, more focus, and an extra day to sleep, gym, or question all your life choices in peace. What’s not to love?

Come watch us convince the world (or at least the judges) that it’s time to work smarter, not longer. And if I lose? I’m calling in sick on Friday anyway. 🤷🏽‍♂️

What do you support?

It was my 21st birthday, March 18, 2019.I had moved to Sydney from Delhi just two months prior. It was my first birthday...
18/03/2025

It was my 21st birthday, March 18, 2019.

I had moved to Sydney from Delhi just two months prior. It was my first birthday away from family and friends. No mom stuffing my plate with extra gulab jamuns, no dad slipping me a crisp ₹2,000 note with a “don’t tell your mom” look, no cousins showing up uninvited with dhol-level energy.

I felt alone. No familiar chaos, no warm birthday hugs, just silence. So, I decided to do something bold.

I gave myself a present 🎁

A present to take a leap of faith.

Between midnight and 6 AM, I stood nervously in front of a camera and just rambled.

💡 Terrible lighting (looked like I was filming inside a haunted house)
🔊 Poor sound quality (my voice echoed)
🎤 And the microphone? Oh, I was wearing one… but it wasn’t plugged into anything. Just for aesthetics. A true professional!
🙈No real value in the content

Despite all this and with the voices of fear and judgment screaming in my head like an overdramatic Bollywood villain, I hit publish on my first piece of content.

It was a YouTube video titled “Leap of Faith.”

At that moment, I thought: Worst case scenario, no one watches it. Which, ironically, was also the best case scenario.

But here’s what has happened in the last six years since that day:
🎬 100s of videos posted
📹 1,000s more recorded but never posted
👀 5M+ video views (Mom and dad contributed at least 1M of these)
📊 20M+ impressions
🎤 3K+ people trained in my workshops
🚪 8K+ face-to-face conversations in D2D sales (yes, I bothered 8,000 Australians at their doorstep)
🤝 Several new friendships
💰 Many financial wins
❌ Plenty of failed projects
📚 Countless lessons learned (like never trust a ‘friend’ who says ‘just be yourself’ before a first date)

What’s the biggest lesson?

We really don’t know what’s on the other side of fear until we take the plunge and stand face-to-face with it.

If you have a song in you that you want the world to hear, don’t wait for anyone’s permission. Sing your melody out loud!

Some will appreciate it, some will resonate, and a few will be forever grateful for the impact you will bring in their lives.

The world needs what only you can offer!

Picture this: You’re about to speak. Your palms are sweaty, heart’s racing, and your brain? Complete loading screen.🚨 He...
17/03/2025

Picture this: You’re about to speak. Your palms are sweaty, heart’s racing, and your brain? Complete loading screen.

🚨 Here’s the fix: I’ve put together a 10-Minute Confident Speaker Checklist A simple, battle-tested routine to calm your nerves, boost your confidence, and make you sound like a pro before any talk, meeting, or presentation.

✅ Reframe nerves into confidence (science-backed trick)
✅ Quick breathing + vocal warm-ups (so you don’t sound shaky)
✅ Instant mindset shifts to walk in with authority
✅ Plus A simple hack to OWN the stage from the first word

💡 If you’ve ever thought “I wish I had a quick fix before speaking” this is it. And it’s FREE.

🔥 This is available for free right now, but I might turn it into a paid resource soon—don’t miss out.

📥 Click the link in my bio, drop your details, and I’ll send it to you ASAP.

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