29/12/2025
I (45M) am a single father to my 14 🌙 year old daughter, H. We are lucky enough to be in a very good 🎠 financial situation even though the pandemic. H's best friend M(14F) had her birthday a week ago and was apparently promised that she could go to Red Lobster for her birthday. I know that M's family struggles financially and H told me that M's dad lost his job due to the pandemic. Unfortunately M's family couldn't afford to take M to Red Lobster and H told me that M was very upset. I told H that M could sleepover and we could go to Red Lobster as a birthday surprise for her. We went and had a blast and M told her parents the next morning. M's mom calls me and starts berating me about 'trying to prove that I am a better parent because I have money' and how it was rude of me to take M out to eat. I feel bad that I upset M's family but I was honestly just trying to be nice. AITA?