The Ross Affect - John & Lawrell-lee

The Ross Affect - John & Lawrell-lee Just two parents rewriting our family story. We love family, adventure & empowering others. Living intentionally & leaving a legacy.

Someone said to us the other day, “Wow… you’re actually real people.”We laughed, but it reminded us how many people thin...
15/10/2025

Someone said to us the other day, “Wow… you’re actually real people.”

We laughed, but it reminded us how many people think building an online business means being glued to your phone, constantly selling, or missing real life.

For us, it’s been the complete opposite.
We built this during nap times, school hours, and evenings after the kids went to bed.
Now, we get to be more present in the hours that actually matter.

Because freedom isn’t found in working harder, it’s in taking back your time.

If you want to know how we did it, comment TIME below or DM us for the 60 minute masterclass that shows you exactly how this works.

Someone once told us, “You can always make more money, but you’ll never get the time back.”At the time, we didn’t really...
14/10/2025

Someone once told us, “You can always make more money, but you’ll never get the time back.”
At the time, we didn’t really get it. We were just trying to survive our shifts, get through the week, and squeeze in moments with our kids whenever we could.

But looking back, it’s true.
Time is the one thing you can’t earn back.

We used to tell ourselves that things would slow down after this week or after this roster, but it never did. Until we made the choice to change it.

Now our work fits around our life, not the other way around.
We still work hard, but we get to decide when.
We still provide for our family, but we don’t miss the moments that matter most.

13/10/2025

Let's play a trick on my husband 🤣

True story, I swear this guy just knows I'm pulling his leg.

But we got there in the end 🤣🤣

❤️

Yesterday someone said, “Wow… you’re actually real people.”It made us smile, because we get it. Online can feel fake or ...
11/10/2025

Yesterday someone said, “Wow… you’re actually real people.”

It made us smile, because we get it. Online can feel fake or ick sometimes.

Maybe you’ve been wondering if this is working.
If all the time, energy, and effort is actually leading somewhere.

We’ve been there too, sitting at the end of another long week, wondering if the hours we were pouring into something alongside our shift work would ever amount to anything.

Here’s something we learned: doubt only shows up where belief already lives.
You wouldn’t question it this much if you didn’t already care this deeply.

So don’t run from the questioning, it means you’re building something real.

If you’re a parent working long shifts and trying to create a different path for your family, keep going.

You might not see the change day by day, but one day you’ll look back and realise you built something that gave you your time, energy, and presence back.

What does freedom look like for you?Freedom isn’t just about money.It’s about peace. Choice. Presence.It’s waking up wit...
10/10/2025

What does freedom look like for you?

Freedom isn’t just about money.
It’s about peace. Choice. Presence.

It’s waking up without dread.
It’s being able to take your kids to school.
It’s sitting down with a cup of coffee in the morning and not rushing out the door.

That’s the kind of success worth building.

Because when you build your life around what truly matters,
money becomes a tool, not the goal.

Freedom is built in the small, daily decisions that honour who you want to become.

Start there.

One day it hits you.You don’t react the way you used to.You’re calmer. Softer. Clearer.You stop chasing validation.You s...
09/10/2025

One day it hits you.
You don’t react the way you used to.
You’re calmer. Softer. Clearer.

You stop chasing validation.
You stop seeking permission.

You begin to realise you’re finally leading from your truth, not your fear.

And that’s when everything shifts.
Because success stops being about the number in your bank account,
and starts being about the peace you feel when you wake up in the morning.

That’s real growth.
And that’s where everything good begins.

It’s easy to think you’re behind when you scroll and see everyone else “winning.”But timing isn’t comparison, it’s align...
08/10/2025

It’s easy to think you’re behind when you scroll and see everyone else “winning.”

But timing isn’t comparison, it’s alignment.

Your pace is your protection.
The delay isn’t a denial, it’s just making sure you’re strong enough to hold what’s next.

Trust your timing.
You’re not behind, you’re being prepared.

You’re right on time.
Don’t forget that.

There’s a strange moment in growth where the old version of you starts to fade and it’s uncomfortable.You’ll notice you ...
07/10/2025

There’s a strange moment in growth where the old version of you starts to fade and it’s uncomfortable.

You’ll notice you don’t enjoy the same conversations, the same habits, or even the same people.

You’ll question yourself.
You’ll wonder if you’re being too much.

But here’s the truth, you’re not being too much.
You’re just finally not being less.

You’re becoming the person who fits the vision you’ve been dreaming about.
And yes, that version of you might make others uncomfortable, but it will set you free.

So if you feel like you’re in-between, hold on.
You’re not lost. You’re expanding.

If this feels like you right now, it’s probably because you’re growing into the person you once dared to become.

05/10/2025

Decided to make a sandpit for the kids today… and wow, why didn’t I do this sooner?

Sometimes the best memories don’t come from big expensive trips or fancy toys, but from something as simple as playing in the sand in your own backyard.

The smiles, the laughter, the endless imagination totally worth the effort.

It’s a good reminder that our kids don’t care about how much we spend, they care about how much time we give.

Family time really is the best time. 🏖️❤️

There’s a story about a man who spent years digging for gold.Day after day, he worked the mine… breaking rocks, sweating...
02/10/2025

There’s a story about a man who spent years digging for gold.
Day after day, he worked the mine… breaking rocks, sweating through the heat, and pushing through exhaustion.

After years with no results, he gave up.
He sold his claim to another man, feeling defeated and convinced there was nothing there.

The new owner kept digging.
Just three feet later, he struck one of the biggest gold veins ever discovered.

The first man didn’t fail because he lacked effort.
He failed because he gave up too soon.

And that’s the lesson for all of us.
Most people quit right before their breakthrough.
Success, freedom, health whatever it is you’re chasing could be just around the corner.

So when you feel like giving up, remember… you might be three feet away from your gold.

Patience is one of the hardest lessons we've had to learn.We live in a world where we want everything fast, quick fixes,...
02/10/2025

Patience is one of the hardest lessons we've had to learn.
We live in a world where we want everything fast, quick fixes, instant results, overnight success.

But the truth is… the best things take time.
Raising a family, building a business, changing your health, creating freedom, none of it happens in a day.

It’s about showing up consistently, even when you can’t see the results straight away.
Because patience isn’t just about waiting… it’s about trusting the process and knowing that every small step is getting you closer.

If you’re feeling stuck right now, don’t quit.
Your future self will thank you for the patience you had today.

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