Petria Leggo-Field

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I’m Petria 👋 solo mum of 4, retreat host & late-blooming le***an here to share the messy, magical journey of coming out later in life. 🌈

I’m creating spaces for connection, courage & community.

Drop a 🌈 in the comments if Le***an TikTok helped your Gay Awakening as well….It’s the one and only time I’ve had TikTok...
28/08/2025

Drop a 🌈 in the comments if Le***an TikTok helped your Gay Awakening as well….

It’s the one and only time I’ve had TikTok on my phone and was so confused why the algorithm kept showing me these beautiful masc le***ans, with their hat backward, doing the slow eye look up and lip movements and I thought I was going to combust 😂

It you’ve been on le***an TikTok you know EXACTLY what I mean right?

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28/08/2025

Just going to leave this here 😜

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Your going to want to save page 8,9,10,11 they are going to help you so much in your journey 💌Leave “SCRIPT” in the comm...
27/08/2025

Your going to want to save page 8,9,10,11 they are going to help you so much in your journey 💌

Leave “SCRIPT” in the comments and I’ll send you the link the Coming Out Conversations so you have the confidence to have those conversations you need to have in your life.

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Here 👇🏻If you’ve never been to Virtual Q***r Speed Friending before, don’t stress, it’s honestly super chill, just like ...
25/08/2025

Here 👇🏻

If you’ve never been to Virtual Q***r Speed Friending before, don’t stress, it’s honestly super chill, just like having a cosy chat with a friend from your couch 🛋️

You don’t need to worry about not having the “mental capacity” at the end of the day, it’s all really easy, light, and fun.

Here’s how it flows:

☕️ A short intro from me (promise I’ll keep it quick!)

💬 Then we jump into 10–15 minute sessions in little breakout rooms

🎲 Around 3 questions each round, some fun, some deep, some a bit silly to get us laughing

🌟 At the end we all come back together, if anyone wants to hang around, I’ll stick around to chat and answer questions

And the best part?

Afterwards, a group chat is created just for you and the others from the event so you can keep those connections going 🥰

So bring your PJs, your tea, your nervous butterflies (totally normal!) and let’s turn them into laughs and new friendships.

No pressure. Just real conversations. Real connection. Real community.

And guess what?

We’ve got heaps of events coming up, and you can choose the one that fits your time zone:

🇦🇺 Prefer the Australia/NZ time?
👉 Leave “SPEED” in the comments and I’ll send you the details.

🇺🇸 Want the USA/Canada time?
👉 Drop “FRIEND” in the comments and I’ll send the link.

🇬🇧 Want the UK/EU time zone friendly time?
👉🏼 Drop “SAPPHIC” in the comments & I’ll send you the link

You deserve a community that feels like home.
Let’s make it easier to find your people.

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You know what I’ve been thinking about lately? How flipping hard it can be to make q***r friends as an adult.Like, bars ...
20/08/2025

You know what I’ve been thinking about lately? How flipping hard it can be to make q***r friends as an adult.

Like, bars aren’t always the vibe, dating apps feel weird when you’re not looking for love, and “just say hi” sounds great… until you’re standing there like 😅 “ummm… now what?”

That’s honestly why I brought Q***r Virtual Speed Friending back after 8 months away. Life got busy, I pressed pause, but I kept seeing the same posts online:

✨ “I feel so lonely.”
✨ “I don’t have any q***r friends.”
✨ “I’m not looking to date, I just want people who get it.”

And the replies are always, “same,” “me too,” “following.”

But it just… stops there.

Nobody knows how to take the next step.

So I thought, alright then, let’s make that step together.

It’s not about selling you anything or playing matchmaker. It’s just a cosy space to have real chats with women who get what it’s like to be on this journey.

No pressure, no small talk at loud bars, just connection from the comfort of your couch.

💻 And I’ve got 4 Virtual Speed Friending events happening over the next few weeks, across different time zones, so no matter where you are in the world, there’s one you can join.

AUSTRALIA

🇦🇺25th August 7-9pm AEST

https://events.humanitix.com/copy-of-virtual-q***r-speed-friending

🇦🇺29th September 7-9pm AEST

https://events.humanitix.com/virtual-q***r-speed-friending-aus-sept

UK/EU

🇬🇧🇪🇺7pm BST 9th September
https://events.humanitix.com/virtual-q***r-speed-friending-uk-https-events-humanitix-com-virtual-q***r-speed-friending-aus-sept

🇺🇸🇨🇦USA/CANADA

7pmCT 26th September
https://events.humanitix.com/virtual-q***r-speed-friending-usa-sept

Because you deserve that warm, fuzzy “I found my people” feeling.

P x

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Sooo I think I might be a le***an… first of all… welcome!Take a deep breath. You don’t have to have it all figured out r...
20/08/2025

Sooo I think I might be a le***an… first of all… welcome!

Take a deep breath. You don’t have to have it all figured out right now. Realising you might be a le***an is a big moment, and it’s okay if it feels equal parts exciting, terrifying, confusing, and freeing. That’s all normal.

So what now?

Here’s your soft, no-pressure starting guide:

1. Let it simmer
You don’t need to make any announcements or decisions today. Sit with it. Journal. Cry. Smile. Daydream. It’s yours.

2. Consume the gay content
Le***an podcasts, q***r books, TikToks that hit you way too hard… let yourself be curious.

3. Reflect on your past through a new lens
Some things might suddenly make a lot more sense.

4. Find community
Whether it’s online (like my Facebook group The Late Blooming Lounge) or q***r meet-ups, you’ll quickly realise: you’re not alone.

5. Give yourself grace
You don’t have to be sure. You don’t have to label it perfectly. You just have to keep moving toward what feels true.

If you need community, I’ve got 7k women in my FB group who are on the same path as you. Just leave 💜💜💜 in the comments and I’ll send you the info.

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Is this your brain? I love him, but I can’t un-know this part of me? I didn’t wake up one day and suddenly realise I was...
20/08/2025

Is this your brain? I love him, but I can’t un-know this part of me?

I didn’t wake up one day and suddenly realise I was a le***an.

It came slowly. Quietly. In whispers and gut feelings. In years of overexplaining my attraction to women. In the constant loop of “Am I just confused? Bi? Lost?”
But eventually… I couldn’t unknow what I knew.

I was 37, Married to a man. A mum of 4 beautiful little humans. And I’d spent the last few years gently, painfully, honestly… figuring it out.

He knew. He always kind of knew. And when I said I needed to explore this side of myself, he gave me that space. For that, I’ll always be grateful.

But then, the truth got louder. Clearer. And it feels like the only honest thing left to do is say: I’m a le***an.

Not maybe. Not probably. Not if-this-or-that. Just… I am.

But when I said the words out loud, it landed like a bomb.

And I was sitting there with the aftermath, his heartbreak, my guilt, the weight of what comes next. Finances. Parenting. Divorce.

And yet, there’s this tiny ember inside me that knew this wasn’t destruction.

It’s truth.
It’s freedom.
It’s the beginning of something more honest, for both of us.

If you’re in this place too… walking the edge between who you’ve always been and who you’re becoming, please know: you’re not alone.

This is my story.
But maybe it’s yours too.

And if you’re still in the spiral of “what do I do with all of this?” I’ve written a set of 12 gentle prompts to help you have the initial conversation, one step at a time.

Drop “TALK” in the comments and I’ll send them your way.

You’re not selfish.
You’re not wrong.
You’re just finding your way back to you.

If Australian later in life le***ans had to choose a book week character for themselves 😂🌈💋👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 ***anmum ***an...
20/08/2025

If Australian later in life le***ans had to choose a book week character for themselves 😂🌈💋👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

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The anxiety you’re feeling now won’t last forever, I promise ❤️‍🩹You’ve navigated tough times before, and you’ll do it a...
20/08/2025

The anxiety you’re feeling now won’t last forever, I promise ❤️‍🩹You’ve navigated tough times before, and you’ll do it again.

You will find your way through this, and you will come out stronger on the other side.

If you need some support from women on the same path as you, leave 💜💜💜 in the comments and I’ll send you the link to my FB group with 7k women inside who are just like you.

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Yes? Then you need this 👇🏻It’s not another “Am I Gay” quiz, because we all know that a quiz on goggle isn’t going to giv...
20/08/2025

Yes? Then you need this 👇🏻

It’s not another “Am I Gay” quiz, because we all know that a quiz on goggle isn’t going to give you the answers you want to hear.

This is 44 questions for you to grab your journal, grab a cup of tea and start some really honest enquiry into who you really are.

Leave “ FREE” and I’ll send you a DM 😘

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Can you believe this September will actually be my very first time marching in the .pride March?For years I’ve watched t...
19/08/2025

Can you believe this September will actually be my very first time marching in the .pride March?

For years I’ve watched the photos, the colours, the love, and thought: one day that will be me. Now here I am, finally ready to step onto that street, not just as me, but as part of a rainbow family.

It feels a little like planting a seed and waiting years for it to bloom. 🌱

For so long, the dream is just an idea, tucked away quietly. Then, one day, the light hits just right, and suddenly it’s time to grow, to stretch, to be seen.

And I don’t want to do it alone.

I’m on a mission to make this the BIGGEST march yet, a sea of prams, tiny waving hands, rainbow tees, and parents walking side by side showing Brisbane the strength, the joy, and the love in our families.

So here’s my invite to you:

Bring your kids. Bring your colour. Bring your whole self.

📅 RSVP to march with us via the link in bio, and let’s make a rainbow wave that no one will forget.

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Which story do you relate to? Tell me in the comments ⬇️👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩🌈 ***anlife ***rls ***anmemes ***angirl ***ancoup...
13/03/2024

Which story do you relate to? Tell me in the comments ⬇️👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

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