Styling You

Styling You Journalist, turned blogger and content creator. Follow for the outfits, stay for the travel, beauty and meno chats. I'm more confident in my outfit choices.

In 2008, in my early 40s, I left my former career as a journalist and stumbled into this one as a blogger and now content creator. Writing, sharing, connecting and running my own business was like finally finding the "thing" that I was meant to be doing with my life. I started Styling You as a way to help women find confidence through their personal style. The older I get, I dress more for myself,

not for anyone else. I don't wear something just because someone else is. I wear it because I feel fabulous in it. That's such a liberating feeling. I want you to feel that way too but what I've learned through this whole process of showing up online is that clothes are just one part of the confidence conversation in our midlife years. Confidence for me is about embracing this chapter and making it a vibrant one. We only get one shot at life and I want to keep doing as much or as little as possible while I still can. If that's you too, stick around. It's great to have you here.

Where are your sunglasses from?And yes they are now basically my entire personality. HAHAHA! They’re Valley Eyewear Bang...
04/09/2025

Where are your sunglasses from?

And yes they are now basically my entire personality. HAHAHA!

They’re Valley Eyewear Bang Bang in gloss black with gold metal/orange gradient lens. The Bang Bang style is Valley Eyewear’s smaller avaiator. The original - the Bang - is larger and is more proportionate to a wider upper face.

Tell me something fun you’ve done this month?My world has been very small, hibernating and healing post-surgery. No soci...
31/08/2025

Tell me something fun you’ve done this month?

My world has been very small, hibernating and healing post-surgery. No social events or gatherings. Just slow steps back into movement and work. Bonus points for walking and coffee catch ups with friends. Some days I feel 💯 others I’m completely shattered. I’m mostly winning this long game and I’m almost there.

Bring on spring 🦋

Tell me where you shop for quality t-shirts? A good quality t-shirt is my number one wardrobe essential. They work on th...
28/08/2025

Tell me where you shop for quality t-shirts?

A good quality t-shirt is my number one wardrobe essential. They work on their own but also provide an ideal base layer under blazers and jackets all year round.

5 things I require of my t-shirts:

✔️ to be decent weight
✔️ to have some structure
✔️ to not cling to the body*
✔️ to not be too long in the body (because I’ll often want to tuck them)
✔️ to feel soft on the skin
✔️ to keep their shape wash after wash

Over the past few months I’ve been putting the COS clean cut regular t-shirt to the test and the report card is in: A+ (see my try-on video for more - I’ve added to the comments)

SHOP HERE: https://myshop.klarna.com/p/NVGdkL7

A note on sizing. I’m wearing size L. Size M would fit me but I prefer a non-fitted fit to my tees. To find your perfect fit, get out a measuring tape and measure your bust and hips. On the product listing, select the size you think you might be, then click SIZE & FIT. It will show up a diagram and the measurements for the size you clicked. Doesn’t match your measurements or your preference for how fitted or relaxed you’d like the tee? Click a size up or down and check again.

(Affiliate partner - I was gifted one of these tees - other items from my wardrobe)or

When it comes to gifts for me, I always let my family know that I’d love a voucher towards a spa visit. It makes it easy...
27/08/2025

When it comes to gifts for me, I always let my family know that I’d love a voucher towards a spa visit. It makes it easy for them and I always have something to look forward to. A couple of my girlfriends do the same and we often work it to go together. This might end up being a couple of times a year - more if I’m lucky!

Before my surgery I was invited to experience Brisbane’s newest spa at Total Fusion Platinum Newstead. I thought you had to be a member to book in but, no!

The spa offers a full range of face and body treatments but if, like me, you love a holistic approach to your pampering, do check out the Ayurvedic treatments on offer.

I experienced the Udwarthanam Exfoliating Massage followed by the Shirodhara (pictured). This was my fave and what my mind was craving that day and yes that’s warm oil streaming on to my forehead. A head massaged followed. BLISS.

Find out more here https://totalfusion.com.au/spa/tfp-newstead/spa-treatments-tfp/

… and yes I’ve channeled my family’s future gift givng to this spa!

(Invited, PR)

Does this work for you too?Five weeks post surgery, I’m mostly still at home and yes, I’m going a little stir crazy. My ...
26/08/2025

Does this work for you too?

Five weeks post surgery, I’m mostly still at home and yes, I’m going a little stir crazy. My current social life is limited to short walks and coffee catch ups with girlfriends.

Even without those catch ups, being intentional about what I wear each day has made a huge difference to my mental health by keeping some normalcy to my days.

I know it’s not for everyone but putting an outfit together even if I’m mostly working from bed just makes me feel better.

It’s more than just getting dressed. It switches something on in my brain that tells me I’ve got it more together than I actually do HAH.

Outfit details: https://liketk.it/5mkjB

Which is more your spring style? A set or jeans and a blazer?I’m Team Both! These pieces are from the new spring-summer ...
24/08/2025

Which is more your spring style? A set or jeans and a blazer?

I’m Team Both!

These pieces are from the new spring-summer collection at Zoe Kratzmann Footwear and Apparel - you can watch my try-on video for more details. I’ve posted in the comments.

Shop here: https://www.zoekratzmann.com (save 20% with my site-wide discount code nikki20)

Featured:
Look 1: Pixel top + Gesture pant
Look 2: Dash jacket + Piazza jeans*

* Please note there are limited numbers left in the Piazza jeans - these have been hugely popular already. Sign up to be notified of a restock.

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22/08/2025

Get photoshoot ready with me … if I’m doing my own makeup.

It’s a 14-step process - so not minimal by any stretch - but it only takes me 14 minutes to complete.

The foundation I’ve used is on the spendy side. I don’t use it every day - my everyday foundation is Charlotte Tilbury’s Beautiful Skin (4) via MECCA

I’ve listed all the products used via my LTK shop: https://liketk.it/5lV5S

Leave a comment if you have any questions. And if you live in Brisbane, I highly recommend booking in with jlsmakeup for a tutorial. Most of the products I’ve used in this video were recommended by Jac and she attempted to teach me how to use them.

{Saving my dress from makeup … Collar Up Co.}

Post surgery recovery really is a mental long game. It’s four weeks today since my robotic ventral rectopexy surgery. I’...
19/08/2025

Post surgery recovery really is a mental long game. It’s four weeks today since my robotic ventral rectopexy surgery. I’ve come so far, yet still have quite a way to go.

It’s a really tricky time. I feel good and there aren’t any outward signs that my body is in recovery. This and a yearning to get back to regular life were my undoing last week. In the walk pictured above, excited to catch up with two girlfriends, I walked a little too far and probably a little too fast.

The achey/heavy feeling in my pelvis set in - the feeling my pelvic floor physio had warned me about. The feeling that is a reminder that my body is still trying to heal an internal wound and form a scar. I was so cranky at myself. I’m such a rule follower and had up to this point been doing so well at managing my rest and activity.

It’s all good now. Lesson very much learned. I’m slowly easing back into my client work. With the emphasis very much on slow.

I opted out of all social activities this month, not knowing how I’d be and it was the best move I could have made, for rest, yes, but also personal enjoyment as it’s still a case of gently, gently does it in regards to what I eat or drink and how that *impacts* my digestive system!

If you have any questions, leave a comment or if too personal, my DMs are always open.

15/08/2025

This was such an incredible travel experience.

Need a rain jacket in your life?Shop here: https://liketk.it/5lqBfIf I let a little rain get in the way of my staying ac...
15/08/2025

Need a rain jacket in your life?

Shop here: https://liketk.it/5lqBf

If I let a little rain get in the way of my staying active, I’d have not been on many hot girl walks this year. lululemon has literally had me covered.

There is a style, length and colour rain jacket available to suit your preference. They make great practical and stylish travel partners too - I never go away without one.

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