15/09/2026
One thing life has taught me is that it doesn't take long for one person choosing to act to change what happens next.
I've seen it in workplaces, in the media, in team chats and in everyday life.
It often starts with:
"I'm joking."
Sometimes people join in because they're trying to fit in, deflect, or avoid becoming the next target themselves.
That doesn't make it okay.
But I've learned there's often more going on underneath it than we can see.
Support doesn't always have to be a big thing.
It can be checking in with the person who was targeted.
Saying, "That's enough."
Changing the subject.
Standing beside the person who looks uncomfortable.
Or getting help early if things start to feel unsafe.
And sometimes, knowing when not to step in yourself is part of helping too.
I'm not an expert. Sharing some of the thing's life has taught me along the way.