15/11/2025
Empty the Cup and Begin Again
There are many versions of the teacup story, but one goes a little like this:
A long time ago, a wise Zen master was known far and wide for his counsel. People travelled great distances to seek his guidance and ask for wisdom.
One day, an important man — powerful, respected, and very used to getting his own way — came to see the master. He wanted to learn about Zen. He wanted the master to open his mind to enlightenment.
The master smiled and suggested they talk over tea.
When the tea was served, he began to pour.
He poured… and poured… until the cup overflowed. Tea spilled across the table and onto the fine robes of his guest.
Finally, the man shouted, “Enough! Can’t you see the cup is full?”
The master stopped pouring and simply smiled.
“You are like this cup,” he said.
“Full of your own ideas, opinions, and assumptions.
How can anything new enter?
Come back when your cup is empty. Come back with an open mind.”
Alvin Toffler once said, “The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.”
When I started my online business, I knew there would be a lot to learn — but what surprised me was how much I would need to unlearn so I could learn again.
And I’m not talking about systems, funnels, compensation plans, structures, or DMO’s.
I’m talking about:
• mindset
• self-belief
• perceptions
• my relationship with money, success, and possibility
• the old narratives that kept me small
Unlearn the beliefs that said I wasn’t ready.
Unlearn the mindset that tied my worth to productivity.
Unlearn the fears around money, success, and being seen.
And in that unlearning, I began to relearn what truly matters —
to trust my intuition, to honour my own rhythm, to believe without limitation.
Sometimes growth isn’t about adding more.
It’s about making space.
Emptying the cup, spilling the old tea —
so that something new, something truer, can finally be poured.