22/07/2024
THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVER!
Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.
Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling, and when possible, try to keep your phone off when youâre together with your spouse.
Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the âcurrency of relationships,â so consistently invest time in your marriage.
Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.
Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.
In every argument, remember that there wonât be a âwinnerâ and a âloser.â You are partners in everything, so youâll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.
Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. Itâs usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.
Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than s*x to build a strong marriage, but itâs nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!
Remember that marriage isnât 50-50; divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. Itâs not splitting everything in half but both partners giving everything theyâve got!
Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after youâve given your best to everyone else.
Learn from other people, but donât feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone elseâs. Comparison puts your focus on the wrong person.
Donât put your marriage on hold while youâre raising your kids, or else youâll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.
Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.
Never lie to each other. Lies break trust, and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.
When youâve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, âI was wrong. Iâm sorry. Please forgive me.â
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