16/09/2025
Managing child resistance to contact is one of the most complex issues in family dispute resolution, but it is also one where skilled, patient intervention can make a lasting difference.
✴️ Practitioners should combine clear assessment, education, concrete staged plans, and consistent follow-up.
✴️ Remember: change is often slow and incremental. Small acts of persistence from the resisted parent and continued co-parenting from the preferred parent can eventually restore relationship access.
If you work in family dispute resolution and face a challenging case, consider:
👉 joint and individual sessions,
👉 concrete staged agreements,
👉 family therapy referrals, and
👉 careful safety assessment
as your core toolbox.
Family dispute resolution work with resistant contact requires empathy, structure and evidence-based strategies. With persistence and the proper support, families can rebuild meaningful relationships for the benefit of their children.
For practitioners wanting to learn more, the book Overcoming the Co‑Parental Trap: Essential Parenting Skills When a Child Resists a Parent by John Moran, Tyler Sullivan, and Matthew Sullivan is a helpful resource.
What other tools would you consider using?