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07/09/2026

Good morning from Niigata, Japan πŸ›³οΈπŸ’• So nice to see blue skies!

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I was sitting at the baseball the other night when one of our tour guides, who happened to be an awesome Aussie, asked m...
07/09/2026

I was sitting at the baseball the other night when one of our tour guides, who happened to be an awesome Aussie, asked me:

β€œSo, is it school holidays? Or is Lulu missing school?”

I started to answer and she quickly added, β€œI only ask because I’m a teacher… or I was.” πŸ˜‚

It’s something I get asked about a lot here too, so I thought I’d share where I’ve landed on it.

And the truth is, I do worry about it.

A few years ago, I probably would have told you that school was THE priority. Shane works for the government, I’m a do-the-right-thing kind of person, and generally if there are rules and guidelines, we follow them.

But life has changed my thinking on this one.

Many of you know that a few years ago our eldest was brutally bullied at school. It got to the point where our only priority was keeping our kid alive and getting her through each day.

It was horrific for her, and it changed all of us.

And one of the things that helped our family enormously during that time was being together.

Getting away from home. Getting away from the school environment. Having time where nobody needed anything from her except to just be.

I still believe in school. I just no longer believe school comes before everything else.

Wellbeing does.

Connection does.

Family does.

And I also don't think all learning happens inside a classroom.

I've watched my kids learn so much through travel - independence, resilience, problem-solving, empathy, patience, teamwork. They learn about different cultures and histories, how other people live, how to navigate somewhere they don't speak the language, and how very big the world is outside their little corner of it.

And travel doesn't have to mean Japan.

Connection can be piling into the car for hot chips at the beach on a Sunday afternoon.

Although Japan is a pretty bloody nice place to do it. πŸ˜‚

As for Lulu, we take our lead from her.

She worked ahead before we left, submitted projects early, and she'll come home to work she'll need to catch up on. She's in an advanced class and does tutoring outside school.

But we don't need her to be top of her class.

We don't need perfect marks.

I'd much rather raise a happy, curious, kind human than one who believes her worth can be measured by a number someone writes on a piece of paper.

And yes, I still worry.

I wonder if she'll be overwhelmed when we get home. I wonder if she's missed too much. I wonder about friendships and the social stuff that happens when you're away.

Because I'm her mum. Of course I bloody worry. πŸ˜‚

But here's the bit that probably matters most:

If Lulu tells us this isn't working anymore, we'll change it.

If catching up becomes too stressful, we'll reassess. If missing school starts costing her more than travelling gives her, we'll rethink it. As she gets older and school becomes more serious, I fully expect what works for us to change.

We're not trying to prove that our way is the right way.

It's just the way that feels right for our family, right now.

Because if the last few years have taught me anything, it's that I will never again take connection with my kids for granted.

School matters.

Education matters.

But so does this.

And right now, I think there's room for both.

JAPAN DAYS 4 + 5 πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅Yokohama. Gyoza. A capybara in a bath with a toucan. And then we boarded a cruise ship. πŸ˜‚Our Japan ad...
07/09/2026

JAPAN DAYS 4 + 5 πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅

Yokohama. Gyoza. A capybara in a bath with a toucan. And then we boarded a cruise ship. πŸ˜‚

Our Japan adventure continues. It feels like we’ve been here a month, but somehow we’re still only in our first week.

Next stop: around Japan we go. πŸ›³οΈπŸ‡―πŸ‡΅

2-INGREDIENT MICROWAVE QUESO πŸ§€Okay, this is BRILLIANT.If you need a quick cheesy sauce for tacos, nachos, burritos... or...
07/09/2026

2-INGREDIENT MICROWAVE QUESO πŸ§€

Okay, this is BRILLIANT.

If you need a quick cheesy sauce for tacos, nachos, burritos... or just something to dunk corn chips into while standing at the kitchen bench, this takes about a minute.

You only need TWO ingredients:

πŸ§€ 4 slices American cheese (you could try other cheeses too)
πŸ₯› 2–3 tbsp thickened cream

Pop them into a microwave-safe bowl and microwave for 1 minute.

Stir really well until smooth, glossy and ridiculously cheesy.

THAT'S IT.

Spoon it over tacos, drizzle it over nachos, dip corn chips into it... or pour it directly into your mouth. πŸ˜‚

You can also add a little taco seasoning, smoked paprika or chilli if you want to give it some extra flavour or heat.

LET’S TALK... OP-SHOPPING IN JAPAN πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅πŸ›οΈIf you love a good op-shop rummage, PUT THIS ON YOUR JAPAN LIST.It’s become one o...
07/09/2026

LET’S TALK... OP-SHOPPING IN JAPAN πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅πŸ›οΈ

If you love a good op-shop rummage, PUT THIS ON YOUR JAPAN LIST.

It’s become one of our favourite things to do whenever we're here - and Japanese second-hand shopping is a whole different game.

The stores are clean. They're organised. There's designer stuff, vintage stuff, $5 stuff and the perfect dopamine thrill of finding the really quirky stuff!

And even as a plus-size woman who rarely finds clothes that fit me, I LOVE IT.

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♻️ FIRST THINGS FIRST: THEY'RE NOT REALLY "OP SHOPS"

They're more like second-hand or reuse stores, and many of them feel much more like regular retail stores than the op shops we're used to at home.

Everything is beautifully organised and SO clean. Even the shoes often look almost new.

Some stores are enormous and you can easily lose an hour or two wandering around.

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πŸ‘— WHAT CAN YOU FIND?

Pretty much anything.

Clothes, shoes, handbags, jewellery, sportswear, vintage pieces, Disney, character stuff, designer bags and a LOT of American college and sports gear.

Then there are the completely random finds.

Last year I found a rabbit-shaped handbag. This year smiley Nikes, and I'm still looking!

The treasure hunt is half the fun.

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πŸ‘š WHAT ABOUT PLUS SIZES?

This is the catch.

If you're plus-size like me, don't go expecting to find a whole new wardrobe.

Japanese sizing generally runs smaller and I don't find loads of clothing that fits me.

But I still LOVE looking.

I head straight for oversized sweatshirts, jackets and men's sections - and bags, shoes and accessories.

Although if you've got big feet like me, shoes can also be slim pickings.

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πŸ”Ž THE STORES I LOOK FOR

2nd STREET is probably the easiest place to start. There are stores all over Japan and they sell clothing, shoes, bags, accessories and designer pieces. Some are little neighbourhood stores and others are HUGE.

I literally just open Google Maps and search "2nd Street near me."

KINJI is another favourite, particularly if you like vintage, American sweatshirts, Disney and quirky stuff. We went to the Harajuku store and I could happily rummage there forever.

BOOKOFF / BOOKOFF SUPER BAZAAR is great for books, games, toys and collectibles, but the bigger stores can have clothing, shoes, bags and designer goods too.

HARD OFF are worth searching as well. HARD OFF leans more towards electronics, games and hobby stuff.

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πŸ‘œ AND YES... THERE'S LOTS OF DESIGNER

This still blows my mind.

Gucci. Chanel. Louis Vuitton. Prada. YSL. Coach. Michael Kors.

You'll see designer pieces everywhere from shelves of bags to glass cabinets filled with the $$$$ stuff.

Last year I even found YSL shoes for my sister for around $13.

THIRTEEN DOLLARS. Thankfully she has teeny feet!

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πŸ’° ARE THE PRICES GOOD?

This really varies.

You can absolutely find bargains - we've bought $5 jeans, cheap sweatshirts, Converse, bags and all sorts of bits over the years.

But don't assume everything second-hand is cheap.

Vintage pieces, popular brands and designer goods can still be expensive, and some stores are definitely more curated vintage boutique than bargain op shop.

My favourite finds are usually the random things nobody else seems to want. πŸ˜‚

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πŸ›‚ DON'T FORGET YOUR PASSPORT

Some second-hand stores offer tax-free shopping to eligible international visitors.

For example, 2nd STREET currently offers tax-free shopping at participating stores when eligible purchases at the same store on the same day total at least Β₯5,000 before tax, and you'll need your passport. BOOKOFF also offers tax-free shopping at participating stores with conditions, so check at the store.

Basically: if you're shopping in Japan, chuck your passport in your bag.

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❀️ WHY WE LOVE IT

It's actually one of those rare things we all enjoy doing.

Everyone is hunting for something different, there's no pressure to buy anything, and you never really know what you're going to find.

Plus it gets us wandering into neighbourhoods and shopping centres we'd probably never visit otherwise.

And THAT is usually where we find some of our favourite bits of Japan.

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πŸ“Œ MY BIGGEST TIP?

Don't plan your whole day around finding one particular item.

Just search "2nd Street", "KINJI", "BOOKOFF", or "HARD OFF" in Google Maps wherever you happen to be and go for a rummage.

Some will be amazing. Some will be tiny. Some you'll walk out of in five minutes.

And some you'll emerge from two hours later wondering how you're going to get all those buys home. πŸ˜‚ (Speaking from experience!).

SAVE THIS ONE if you're heading to Japan! πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅

And tell me - what would YOU be hunting for? Designer bag? Vintage Disney? Sneakers? Or the weirdest thing you could possibly find? πŸ˜‚

Good morning from Hakodate! A cute little port in Hokkaido. πŸ‘‹
06/09/2026

Good morning from Hakodate! A cute little port in Hokkaido. πŸ‘‹

ICE CREAM OF THE DAY πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅πŸ¦  #6Today was a sea day aboard Diamond Princess and I have to admit, I’ve done very little walki...
06/09/2026

ICE CREAM OF THE DAY πŸ‡―πŸ‡΅πŸ¦ #6

Today was a sea day aboard Diamond Princess and I have to admit, I’ve done very little walking and a WHOLE lot of resting (and catching up on work) - which I think we needed.

We went from buffet for brekky, to burgers for lunch, and finished with an ice cream chaser. πŸ˜‚

I think we’re carb-loading and resting up for our big days ahead. That’s my story anyway.

Anyway, back to the important stuff.

Chocolate and vanilla swirl. Light crispy cone. Perfectly creamy ice cream.

This is dangerous because it’s UNLIMITED.

πŸ’° Cost: Β₯0 / AUD$0 - unlimited ice cream for all guests
⭐️ Rating: 8/10

And I’m currently thinking about going back for another one.

Because why not? πŸ˜‚

06/09/2026

I'm curious... when you go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, do you turn the light on? πŸ’‘

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