Days with Kate

Days with Kate 🌍 Lapping Aus with my little fam
📸 Photographer capturing the beauty & chaos
🌻Currently in my holistic healing era

MY THIRD BABY REPORT CARDPregnancy: 7/10First trimester = absolute dumpster fireThe rest was a total dream.Birth: 9/10Pe...
08/09/2026

MY THIRD BABY REPORT CARD

Pregnancy: 7/10
First trimester = absolute dumpster fire
The rest was a total dream.

Birth: 9/10
Peaceful. Calm. Empowering. Well supported.
Baby, however did not get the memo.
Hardest one yet. Would still do it again.

Breastfeeding: 2/10
Every symptom of a tongue tie. No tongue tie.
Baby is gaining lots of weight, so we’re calling this one an ongoing investigation.

Sleep: 10/10
Best sleeper yet.
I must be God’s favourite or co sleeping is the cheat code I wish I’d unlocked previously.

Settling: 3/10
Colic hits at 4pm and she hates everyone and everything.

Fourth trimester: 8/10
Pure bliss.

Temperament: 10/10
Very passionate about her preferences.

Being put down: 0/10
Absolutely not. Full time koala.

Capsule: 0/10
Don’t put her in there. Ever.

Car: 0/10
That’s also a no.

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Baby has all the resources available to her. She simply chooses not to use them.

05/09/2026

Have the third. Highly recommend 👌🏼

From the quiet hours of early labour to the moment we finally met our beautiful little girl.There are moments in life th...
11/08/2026

From the quiet hours of early labour to the moment we finally met our beautiful little girl.

There are moments in life that feel impossible to put into words, and this was one of them.

To birth in the comfort of our home, to be surrounded by the people I love most, to watch our little babes simply wake up to another ordinary morning before meeting their baby sister… it all felt so gentle, so peaceful, so deeply held.

Birth asked everything of me, but it also gave me so much in return. I’ll forever be grateful for the beautiful hands and hearts that supported us through every moment.

📸 Also, a little love for our photographer, Bec. She captured every moment without ever interrupting one. Calm, kind, supportive, incredible with the kids and these memories are something we’ll cherish forever.

Waters broke at 12.01am, contractions kicked off at 12.02am. The first few hours were slow, quiet and grounding

My safest place. He’s an incredible birth partner, but the way he held and supported me through this birth still completely blew me away

My MVPs: a TENS machine and spiky acupressure balls (borrowed from the beautiful Liv | Birth & Postpartum Doula | Hobart). These two along carried me through 90% of labour

While one of us was busy having a baby… naps were still on the agenda for everyone else

Held so beautifully by our incredible midwife, Rashelle. Her quiet confidence and gentle guidance allowed me to completely surrender

Sonny making sure everything was okay… and probably wondering why there were so many people in his house

The quiet check ins, the little chats, and the calm in between contractions

Waiting for a baby is serious business… thankfully there was crafting to fill in the time

Officially entered the “I can’t do this anymore” phase… except there was no “I want to go home” card left to play for this birth

9:04am. Our beautiful girl arrived earthside

The sweetest surprise… “It’s a girl.”

Dad’s first cuddles

Our tiniest baby. We were certain she’d be our biggest baby

Big sibling snugs

The important work that makes home birth possible. Gentle hands, calm hearts, and everything thoughtfully prepared just in case.

Floating in that beautiful newborn bubble

I’ve been a little quiet here, not because things aren’t good, but because when life feels big, I tend to go inward.This...
19/02/2026

I’ve been a little quiet here, not because things aren’t good, but because when life feels big, I tend to go inward.

This little baby wasn’t part of our carefully mapped plan. We had made peace with being done, loving our rhythm and freedom. And then life shifted for us.

Whilst we are unbelievably grateful, pregnancy is not easy for me. It never has been. HG, exhaustion, depletion, tough postpartum seasons. For a long time I felt like I couldn’t say that out loud, like struggling somehow cancelled out gratitude. Now I know two things can exist at once; deep thankfulness and real physical hardship. Joy and nausea. Excitement and exhaustion.

Over nine years of motherhood, my views on pregnancy, birth and postpartum have completely evolved. I didn’t start here. I started afraid, influenced by horror stories, looking outward for certainty. It took two very different births, beautiful support, hard lessons, a child harmed within a system I once trusted blindly and years of reflection to land where I am now. This perspective was shaped slowly, through lived experience, unlearning and relearning.

I deeply respect modern medicine. In emergencies it is extraordinary. I am grateful it exists. At the same time, I don’t see pregnancy and birth as medical emergencies by default. This time I’ve intentionally curated care that aligns with the woman I am now a blend of medical, midwifery and holistic support. Collaborative. Individualised. Not to prove anything, not to reject anything, but because after experiencing both physiological and medicalised birth, I know what felt most supportive for me.

I genuinely believe women should choose the path that makes them feel safest and most supported.

I share this because I wish I had seen more nuance the first time I was pregnant. Not just fear-based stories, not just glossy highlights. Just women calmly choosing what felt right for them.

I’m protective of the mindset I’ve worked hard to build. I don’t have capacity in this season to absorb fear or projections that aren’t mine.

If this resonates, I’m glad. If it doesn’t, that’s okay too. This is simply our little family, choosing what feels aligned for us right now.

🤍

A little life update we’re ready to share 👶🏼🤍Turns out our plans for this year went out the window and we’re pivoting to...
29/01/2026

A little life update we’re ready to share 👶🏼🤍

Turns out our plans for this year went out the window and we’re pivoting to something new.

I’ve loved this little bambino since forever and we can’t wait to meet them.

📸 Special thank you to the beautiful Krystal from for capturing these special memories we’ll cherish forever

2025 ✨What a year. The kind that stretches you, softens you and changes you forever.We started knee deep in big feelings...
30/12/2025

2025 ✨

What a year. The kind that stretches you, softens you and changes you forever.

We started knee deep in big feelings. Selling our family home, the one we built from scratch, held more emotion than I expected, even though the decision had been made months earlier. It felt unsettling and nerve wracking and I questioned our sanity more than once. But the universe clearly knew what it was doing. The house sold instantly, leaving us stoked and briefly homeless. So for the following two months we lived in a beautiful beach house, and some of my favourite memories of the year were made there.

April came and we hit the road. Almost immediately it felt right. Four months of magic through the outback, NT, the Kimberley’s and finally the Ningaloo, with days that made us stop mid sentence and ask, is this actually our life? Every day felt like a pinch me moment. We all grew in ways I didn’t expect, and the kids still say, “remember when we did that?” which is the biggest win of all.

By August things shifted. Our girl was homesick, I missed my people and we stood at one of those travel crossroads: stop in WA and work for a while, keep going, or go home? We chose one more three month travel stint, tracing the WA coast and across SA to Melbourne.

Melbourne nearly broke me. Two hard weeks of curveballs: I got offered an epic ambassador gig to do marketing for one of the biggest van manufacturers, we sold our van because we couldn’t get it home, bought a new car from Brisbane, parenting solo for the first time all year, adding Sonny to the chaos and finally headed home. The weeks that followed were heavy. Coming back to real life was harder than I expected. I’m grateful to be home, surrounded by our favourite humans, but after a year full of adventure, settling back into the grind hasn’t been easy. Add gastro, covid and basically every illness going and we’ve been running in limp mode. So I stopped. Switched off online, cocooned ourselves, slowed everything down.

2026 is going to be big. There’s a lot quietly brewing. For now, we’re soaking up the slowness, letting this year land before the next chapter takes off.

And honestly, what a year to land. So grateful 🤍

25/11/2025

Our first Sunday back after seven months on the road. Nothing glamorous… just washing, unpacking, meal prep, cousins running wild, grandparents cooking up pancakes, and us slowly finding our rhythm again. After living in a caravan for so long, this kind of ordinary feels pretty magic. ✨

Esperence 🩵💙🩵
23/10/2025

Esperence 🩵💙🩵

Today was a good day, started it hiking up Mt Barren and  locked in a new van build. We’ve just ordered our new home on ...
13/10/2025

Today was a good day, started it hiking up Mt Barren and locked in a new van build.

We’ve just ordered our new home on wheels complete with a king bed, dishwasher, all the lithium so the Thermomix can come too and air bags so she’ll self-level.

Can’t wait to take you along for the build journey.
Next stop, Melbourne in November to choose all the finishes!

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