
05/10/2025
💬 “They’re better off in Hospital.”
💬 “Just take the first bed available.”
💬 “They’re being picky.”
💬 “Hospitals give better care anyway.”
We’re seeing a lot of these kinds of comments on social media — and we need to talk about it.
Yes, it’s true that not all aged care facilities are equipped to meet every need, especially when it comes to complex cases like dementia with behaviours, or bariatric care. But let’s be clear:
Hospital is NOT the solution.
Hospitals are not designed for long-term living. They’re for acute medical care — not for providing the stimulation, emotional support, and daily human connection that every person deserves. What we are seeing instead are elderly people spending weeks, months, even years in hospital beds… fading.
Nurses do an incredible job under huge pressure — they care for the elderly by administering medications, manage hygiene, and feed those who need it. But they don’t have the time, staffing, or environment to offer quality of life. That’s not their fault — it’s the system.
This isn’t about being picky. It’s about dignity. It’s about people wanting to be close to family, in a place where they feel stable, safe, cared for, and valued.
The system is broken. And leaving our elderly in hospital because there’s nowhere suitable to go? That’s not just a policy issue — that starts to look a lot like neglect.
We need aged care facilities to step up and improve.
We need real investment in dementia and behavioural care.
We need choice, not just “take what you’re given.”
We need homes — not hospital beds.
It’s time for change. Every one of these elders deserves better.
A 70-year-old South Australian has spent almost three years in hospital limbo despite 60 attempts to move into residential aged care and she is not alone.