Her Ride, Her Way

24/09/2025

🔥 𝗦𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀? 🔥

Guess what… nobody actually cares about you as much as you do.
Yep. Ouch. But also… kind of freeing, right? 🙌

That constant fear of judgment?
🚫 It keeps you small.
🚫 It keeps you second-guessing.
🚫 It stops you from stepping into your full potential.

So let’s flip it 👉
💭 What would you do if you weren’t holding yourself back?
💭 What would it look like to go all in on YOU?

📓 Write it down.
🎙️ Record a voice note.
✏️ Draw it if you have to.

Then replay that vision in your head on loop—over and over.
The secret? You can do this quietly, no one even needs to know. But watch how things start to shift when YOU start backing yourself.

⚡️ Stop worrying about them. Start betting on you. ⚡️

Psst… they’re probably not even thinking about you 👀😂
📧 let me help you….
wwwherrideherway.com

24/09/2025

🌸🐴✨ 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐡 𝐁𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐡 𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐁𝐀𝐂𝐊 ✨🐴🌸

Here’s to the next 4 months of rocking that signature black face after a ride!
Nothing quite like it – the dust, the sweat, the laughs… pure bush riding magic 💨💖

Who else is ready to wear their dirt-stained glow with pride?! 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️

23/09/2025

I’m sharing this because EVERYTHING Equitouch Sports Massage Therapy with Kristy says is true & I couldn’t have said it better. This is now our Monday evening ritual- I’ve never practiced yoga 🧘‍♀️ and maaaan am I enjoying it. Hips are a real issue for me- I can’t even sit cross legged without pain in my hips- the improvement I have notice in just 2 weeks is amazing!! 🤩
Self care isn’t selfish - it’s a necessity.
🫶🏻🦄🫶🏻

Yoga 🧘‍♀️

Balancing selfcare and building strength within our own bodies can have such a powerful and direct impact on our horses as riders 🐎

The way we carry ourselves our balance and our range of motion all influence how our horse moves beneath us and that’s powerful 💪

When we look after our physical and mental well being we don’t just improve our own quality of life we also reduce unnecessary strain on our horses and create clearer communication in the saddle because having more balance and range of motion through our own bodies definitely transfers to our Horse 🤌

I’ve recently introduced yoga Into my own routine alongside some wonderful horsey friends with a wonderful instructor and therapist herself over at Flow into Motion Remedial Massage and the difference has been incredible even in just a short time I’ve noticed greater mobility and openness in my hips not only do I get to hang out better my body and laugh and connect with some wonderful ladies my body and horses get some incredible benefits 🔥

From a biomechanical perspective having struggled through my hips in the past I certainly feel softer and more open within my body and our hips are essential for allowing the pelvis to move freely which in turn improves our seat stability and the way we follow our horse’s motion and that’s important this freedom supports the horse’s back and encourages them to move with more ease and relaxation 🙌

Prioritising our own strength growth and self care is one of the most impactful ways we can give back to our horses 🫶

I am also very excited to be getting my treatment and we all know how many wonderful benefits that has for ourselves and our horses so if you are in need of a good therapist for your own body be sure to head over to flow in motion and check it out 👌

When we move better they move better also 🐎

23/09/2025

There’s a stack of things I could be better at. 🤷‍♀️
Sure, that’s true… but 𝗵𝗲𝘆 — it doesn’t mean where I am right now isn’t 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵. 💫💖

I’m all about learning. 📚
I’m all about improving. 💪
𝗔𝗻𝗱 that’s bloody impressive in my books. 🔥

And guess what, legend? 👑
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲. 🐴
You’re showing up. 💃
You’re giving it a go. 🌟

So here’s today’s challenge:
𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗮𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴. 👀✨

(Hint: the fact you’re reading this right now? … 𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁 tick that off as proof, mate. 😉✅)

23/09/2025

🌟 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙟𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙮 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙄 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙣? 𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙨𝙚. 🌟

It’s not about taking you back to the past.
It’s not even about figuring out why you are the way you are.

It’s about flipping those limiting beliefs on their heads so you can go off and train your horse with confidence — without the panic, the doubt, or the “do I belong?” whisper.

✨ So you CAN take the lessons, not hide from them.
✨ So you CAN show up, mess up, learn, and come back stronger.

I’m here to guide you. You already have the answers — you just need:
👉 a coach,
👉 a cheerleader,
👉 a safe space to figure it out.

You don’t have to do it alone. 🤝💛
Want to unpack this together? Drop a 🙌 or DM me — let’s make the next step feel doable (and even a little fun). 🎉🐎

www.herrideherway.com

23/09/2025

🐴 𝟐 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐟𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐜 🐴

✨🐴 CALLING ALL QUEENS 🐴✨

👑 Stuck in the rut of the daily grind?
👑 No time for you… let alone your horse?
👑 Feeling like everything else comes before YOU?

Babe, we’re holding space just for YOU & your pony 💕

🌸 This is a NON-RIDDEN clinic — it’s not about “training” your horse.
🌸 It’s about getting back to your grass roots, slowing down & reconnecting.
🌸 You’ll learn how to manage your own emotions and notice the subtle shifts in your horse.

✨ Perfect for women of ALL disciplines, ALL experience levels, and especially those needing some well-deserved “me time.”

💫 In just a few hours, you’ll see the change in yourself AND your pony.
💫 Leave lighter, grounded & with your spark reignited!

✨ All you need is YOU + your horse… we’ll provide the refreshments, tissues & laughs.
✨ No horse? 👉 No dramas, Queen — we’ve got ponies for hire so you don’t miss out! 🐴💃

📆 SUNDAY 5th October 2025

⏰ 2-5pm
⚡️ Limited spots available — this is your sign to do something for YOU! ⚡️

EARLY BIRD PRICING
$150pp BYO Horse
$199pp includes horse hire

Enter via the jotform link:
https://form.jotform.com/252580211211037

22/09/2025

⚡️ 𝗟𝗲𝘁’𝘀 𝗯𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁 ⚡️

Do you ever catch yourself slipping into a bit of negative silent talk with your horse? 🐴
No shame, no judgment—it happens to the best of us.

👉 Sometimes it’s the “𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳…” thoughts.
👉 Or the “𝘴𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴…” frustrations.
👉 Or even the “𝘸𝘦’𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦” comparisons.

💥 Here’s the thing: even if you never say it out loud, your horse feels that energy. And yep—it can hold you both back.

But here’s the fun part… you can flip it ⬇️

❌ “𝗛𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗲”
✅ “𝗛𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱—𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗜 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽?”

❌ “𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴”
✅ “𝗦𝗵𝗲’𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴—𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀.”

❌ “𝗪𝗲’𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗼 𝗳𝗮𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲”
✅ “𝗪𝗲’𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗷𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆—𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁𝘀.”

🌟 These little shifts in your self-talk? They change everything.
Your horse relaxes.
Your confidence builds.
Your partnership grows.

💖 Because at the end of the day—it’s not about being perfect. It’s about being present, patient, and kind (to them and to yourself).

www.herrideherway.com

22/09/2025

✨ 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁 & 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 ✨

It doesn’t just apply to the saddle 🐴
👉 Learning to manage your mind
👉 Building real confidence
👉 Quieting that negative self-talk

…all of that spills over into every single part of your life 💫

💖 The way you show up at work.
💖 The way you show up in relationships.
💖 The way you show up for yourself.

I’m here for all of it 🙌
So if you’re ready to stop overthinking, stop second-guessing, and finally back yourself…

📱 Book a 1:1 FaceTime session—because confidence doesn’t just “happen,” you build it. And I’ll show you how 😉🔥

You’ve got the horse. You’ve got the dream. But somewhere along the way, fear, doubt, or a bad experience dimmed your sparkle.

22/09/2025

🚨💥 𝙏𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝 𝙗𝙤𝙢𝙗 💥🚨

𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤 𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 — 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙨.

Yeah, you heard me 👏
That “fail” you’re beating yourself up about? → It was just a lesson.
That messy reaction you had? → Lesson.
That curveball that knocked you sideways? → Yep… lesson.

✨ Lessons = growth.
✨ Lessons = boundaries.
✨ Lessons = you levelling UP.

You are not alone. 🤝 We are in this together. 💛

So instead of spiralling into “ugh I failed” 🙄 try this instead:
👉 What’s this teaching me?
👉 How do I want to show up next time?
👉 Where can I give myself some damn grace?

Because babe… you’re not failing.
You’re learning. 💃🔥🐎

Wanna debrief with me? Drop a 🙌 below or DM me — let’s unpack it together. 🗣️✨

21/09/2025

I’m all about balance and sometimes it can feel like we’re on a roller coaster! 🎢
(See yesterdays post 😜)
But on the flip side of the shockers , there are those rides where everything just… clicks? ✨🐴
The ones where your circles are actually round 🙌, your horse listens to your seat aids 💃, and you finish with a huge grin on your face 😁?

That’s not luck. That’s evidence.
Evidence of your hard work.
Evidence of your persistence.
Evidence that you and your horse are growing — together. 💕

Too often, we skim right past the good rides, already worrying about the next challenge. But here’s your reminder:

1️⃣ Celebrate the wins. Even the small ones. Write them down, tell a friend, pat your horse twice as much.

2️⃣ Anchor the feeling. Close your eyes and remember how your body felt when it went well — calm, connected, confident. Lock it in for the days that feel harder.

3️⃣ Give your horse credit too. A soft word, a scratch in their favourite spot, or an extra carrot 🥕 goes a long way.

✨ Those “good ride” moments are proof you can do this. Let them fuel you for the days when it feels wobbly.

⚡ Want help building more rides that feel this good? Pop me an email 📩 — I’d love to help you create more of those “we smashed it” moments.

www.herrideherway.com

21/09/2025

Ok let’s be real… there’s plenty you could pick apart with this clip:
🐴 Horse is lame (yep, another post for that).
🩴 Husband’s in thongs — the true Aussie safety boots.
🍺 His beer is getting more attention than the herd.

But… why pick it apart at all? 🤷‍♀️

At the end of the day, it’s just a bloke vibin’ with his wife’s horses. And that’s kinda beautiful. 💕

Maybe we could all take a leaf out of that book:
✨ Less nit-picking.
✨ More celebrating.
✨ Embracing the moments that didn’t go wrong (because let’s face it, they easily could have!).

Sometimes the magic is in what didn’t happen.
Let that sink in 🫶🏻🌟