Tito Bill

21/09/2025

When I was 29, I thought I had it figured out. When I was 34, I realized I didn’t. Now at 39, I’ve learned that life isn’t about having all the answers it’s about asking better questions.

Every year taught me something:
- How to work hard.
- How to push through pressure.
- How to show up for the people who matter.
- How to stay hungry, even after wins.

This year feels different. 39 is where reflection meets action. It’s where you stop proving things to everyone else and start proving things to yourself.

I’m building not just a career, but a legacy. Not just a business, but a life worth living. And when 40 comes? I’ll be ready not because it’s easy, but because I’ve been preparing every single day.

To anyone walking their own path right now: Keep going. Build through the noise. Your next level is closer than you think.

01/09/2025

When I became a father, I thought my role was simple; to protect, to provide, and to prepare my children for the world. But the truth is, they don’t just live in the world I create outside… they grow in the atmosphere I carry within.

They feel it all.
The weight in my shoulders when life gets heavy.
The silence in my voice when something hurts.
The storm in my heart, even when I try to hide it.

Without meaning to, they sometimes hold pieces of battles that were never theirs to fight. And that’s when I realized my healing isn’t just for me, it’s for them.

Because what matters most isn’t the house I build, the gifts I give, or the comfort I provide… it’s the peace, the patience, and the love they see in me every single day.

Parenting is not about perfection. It’s about presence. It’s about breaking cycles, growing through pain, and making sure what I pass down is strength, not scars.

At the end of the day, the most valuable inheritance I can leave isn’t money or material things… it’s the version of me that showed up whole, healing, and ready to love them better. ❤️

25/08/2025

A blessed milestone for Clarence.

Yesterday, our son Clarence received the Sacrament of Confirmation a milestone in his faith and his life. Grateful beyond words for the love, guidance, and support of his sponsors who will walk beside him in this journey.

Clarence, may this day remind you that you are never alone. You have your faith, your family, and the people who believe in you. May the Holy Spirit continue to guide your steps, strengthen your heart, and bless your path ahead.

Congratulations, Clarence! May you always carry this light with you. ✨

22/08/2025

🤔 One problem, two answers.

Equation: 3 × 3 – 3 ÷ 3 + 3
Most people will either say 11 or 5.

Here’s the thing both answers come from looking at the same problem, just with a different process.

👉 That’s life too.
Two people can face the exact same situation but come out with completely different conclusions. Not because one is dumb and the other is smart, but because the way they process things isn’t the same.

The lesson? Before arguing about who’s “right,” try to understand how they got there.
Sometimes the answer matters less than the perspective.

So tell me… 👇
What’s YOUR answer to this one 11 or 5?

22/08/2025

-Deep Thought of the Day-

What’s something you wish people just knew about you, without you having to explain it?

For me…

That silence doesn’t always mean I’m distant. Sometimes it’s my way of recharging, processing, or just finding peace in a world that’s always loud. I’m learning that quiet doesn’t make you weak it can be a sign of strength, reflection, and self-control.

That toughness doesn’t mean I don’t feel anything. It means I’ve learned how to carry pain, pressure, and responsibility without letting it break me. It means showing up even when it’s heavy, even when no one sees the weight you’re carrying.

That I don’t always put it into words, but my family is the “why” behind almost every choice I make. Every sacrifice, every late night, every hard decision it’s all for them. Because at the end of the day, success doesn’t mean much if the people you love aren’t part of it.

How about you? What’s one thing you wish people understood about you, without needing an explanation?

19/08/2025

Saw this powerful journal prompt from :
“You can meet your dad before you were born. He doesn’t know who you are. What would you say to him?”

That question hit me hard, because I never really had the experience of having a father in my life. No hand to guide me, no voice to reassure me, no example to show me what being a dad was supposed to look like. For a long time, that absence felt like a wound something missing that I thought I’d always carry.

But now, as a father myself, I look at that question differently. If I could meet him before I was born, I think I’d say:

“You may not be there for me, but your absence will teach me something just as valuable how important it is to be present. One day, I’ll have a child of my own, and I’ll make sure they never have to wonder if they are loved, if they matter, or if I’ll show up. Because I’ll be there in the small moments and the big ones, in the late nights and early mornings, in laughter and even in struggles. Your absence will remind me every day of the father I promised myself I would become.”

Sometimes what you don’t have pushes you to give even more. Not having a dad showed me the kind of father I need to be. And for that, strangely enough, I’m grateful.

Because at the end of the day, it’s not about what we missed it’s about what we choose to give now. 💙

12/05/2025

Balancing Success and Inner Battles: My Journey with High-Functioning Anxiety

From the outside, it probably looks like I’ve got it all figured out — running a business, leading a team, balancing family life. I’ve worked hard to build a reputation for being reliable, dedicated, and driven.

But here’s the part not everyone sees: The late nights lying awake, questioning if I did enough. The constant push to keep moving forward, even when I’m completely worn out, because slowing down feels like failing.

Leading a business and being responsible for others is a lot. It’s not just about getting the work done; it’s about making sure everyone around me is okay — that the standards are met, that my team is safe, that clients are satisfied. Sometimes, that pressure drives me to be better. Other times, it feels like carrying the world on my shoulders.

I’ve realized that admitting it’s heavy doesn’t make me weak. It makes me human. Talking about it doesn’t come naturally — I’m used to keeping things to myself and pushing through. But being open about my struggles doesn’t make me less of a leader or less of a person. It just means I’m being real.

I’m learning to give myself permission to breathe. To step back without feeling guilty. To understand that balancing ambition with self-care is not a weakness, but a sign of growth.

If you’re like me — always pushing, always striving, and sometimes forgetting to take care of yourself — just know that it’s okay to take a break. Real strength isn’t about never feeling overwhelmed; it’s about being honest with yourself and allowing space to breathe.

Sometimes, the strongest thing you can do is admit that you’re human.

- Balancing Success and Inner Battles: - A Personal Journey with High-Functioning Anxiety Most people see me as the guy who’s always on top of things — running a welding business, leading a team, and balancing family life. From the outside, it might look like I’ve got it all under control. Rel...

30/01/2024

“If you’re losing your PATIENCE , you’re losing WAR against YOURSELF “

Patience is a valuable quality that we should all strive to develop. It allows us to wait for the right moment, to make the right decisions, and to handle difficult situations with grace and composure.

Remember, patience is not about being passive or complacent; it's about being resilient and understanding that CHANGE takes time.

14/01/2024

“Don't wait for things in your life to change before you feel better. Feel better now and watch the things in your life change.”

To experience improvement in your life, don't wait for external factors to change. Instead, focus on enhancing your emotional wellbeing and mindset now, and observe how it impacts your circumstances favorably over time.

Remember a positive mindset is crucial as well. Focus on the things you can control and let go of the ones you can't. Surround yourself with positive influences and always choose to approach challenges with a positive attitude.

31/12/2023

“Golf is the closest game to the Game we called life. You will get bad breaks from good shots; you will get good breaks from bad shots, but you have to play where the ball lies.” -Bobby Jones -

Playing golf teaches us the importance of perseverance, resilience, and taking calculated risks. It reminds us that no matter how bad things may seem, there is always a way to get through it and come out stronger on the other side. For many of us, our breakthroughs come when we are faced with adversity, and it is in those difficult situations that we learn to grow and develop as players.

So, the next time you find yourself in a tough situation on the golf course or in life, remember that you have the power to choose how you will handle it. Embrace the challenges, learn from your mistakes, and always strive to play the ball where it lies.