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12/09/2025

Essence of True Love
A genuine man is unequivocally committed to you and seeks novel ways to rekindle the love that binds you together with each passing day.

He prioritises safeguarding your emotional well-being.

A genuine man avoids making permanent decisions based on fleeting emotions.

He never confuses you regarding your position in his life.

A genuine man apologises when he is mistaken and remains steadfast in his character.

He is willing to sacrifice the feelings of others to protect your own.

A genuine man offers affection without any sexual expectation.

A genuine man refrains from entertaining any women other than you.

From the outset, a genuine man harbours genuine intentions and demonstrates how it truly feels to be a priority rather than an option.

A genuine man assists you in healing from the trauma that has been perpetrated without apology.
A genuine man assists you in healing from the trauma that has been perpetrated without apology.

A genuine man values you and would never jeopardise your well-being.
Consider seeking out the person who never lets you fall asleep at night, constantly questioning your self-worth.

Written by Catherine Basilicata 2025

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10/09/2025

Selfless
If one day, I am no longer with you, please know that my absence was never due to a lack of love.

I loved you with all my heart. You were my first thought in the morning and my last prayer at night.

I had the opportunity to choose anyone, but I chose you consistently, even when it caused me pain and when you did not reciprocate my feelings.

I remained steadfast through the silence and the anguish, continuing to love you quietly and endlessly.

Therefore, if one day I am gone, I hope you find peace in my absence—the peace that my love was never able to provide you.

For all I ever desired was for you to be happy, even if it was not with me. Written by Catherine Basilicata 2025 Publishers Weekly Highlights The New York Times

07/09/2025

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05/09/2025

Men who engage in physical, mental, and emotional abuse frequently project an image of amiability, charm, and friendliness to the general public.
This façade facilitates their avoidance of accountability for their actions.

Public displays of kindness, a natural ease in conversation, and a demeanour of respect, well-manneredness, and generosity contribute to this perception, rendering them as the “good guy” everyone admires and suspects of nothing.

Behind closed doors, a stark contrast emerges. The charm dissipates, the “gentle tone” becomes condescending, and kindness transforms into manipulation. The same individual who compliments strangers can gradually erode a woman’s self-confidence, rendering her unrecognisable.

Abuse doesn’t always manifest in visible physical marks; it can take the form of silent control, guilt-trips, gaslighting, or isolating her from friends and family while maintaining a façade of good intentions and kindness. This emotional warfare disguises itself as charisma.

The most concerning aspect is that when a woman finally confronts the abuse, her account is often met with disbelief. The perpetrator’s perceived niceness, the notion that they would never engage in such behaviour, and the perception of their goodness as a great guy contribute to this dismissal.
Consequently, she remains silent, or worse, begins to question her own worthiness. This underscores the profound nature of emotional abuse.

This is why many women endure abusive relationships longer than they should. Not because they lack strength, but because psychological abuse is perplexing. It operates in a cycle of love and harm, where apologies and excuses are interspersed with accusations of wrongdoing. Boundaries are questioned, and pain is dismissed because the perpetrator exudes positivity in public while concealing their darkness in private.

Consequently, it is paramount to refrain from equating kindness with goodness. We should not presume that an individual cannot be an abuser solely based on their popularity, success, or reserved demeanour. Abusers do not wear labels; they do not invariably resort to shouting to the public.
Some of them navigate life with meticulously crafted personas, leaving destruction in their wake behind closed doors.

Therefore, it is imperative to believe when a woman asserts that something is amiss. We should provide support even when it does not appear to be abuse. For sometimes, the most dangerous individual in a room is the one everyone praises.

05/09/2025

Thank you so very much Ben Caudill…Illustration of author Catherine Basilicata of Sydney, Australia.Royal graphite on bristol. Pandora’s Order Pandoras Night Order NC-17
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04/09/2025

Thank you Lalit Rupani for drawing this portrait of me and sending this to me! Publishers Weekly

The portrait was inspired by the published author's work, likely catching the artist Lalit Rupani's attention. Without more context, it's hard to pinpoint exactly what sparked the creation, but often artists draw inspiration from notable achievements or compelling stories.

31/08/2025

Thank you Lalit Rupani for drawing this portrait of me and sending this to me! Publishers Weekly

31/08/2025

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30/08/2025

CATERINA
One characteristic of a resilient woman is her ability to endure immense hardship and remain composed, often without revealing her inner struggles.

She presents herself with a positive outlook, carrying herself with grace, laughing despite her emotional turmoil, and managing her affairs with a composed demeanour, as if she were not grappling with a silent battle.

She has mastered the art of resilience, avoiding vulnerability and displaying her pain internally, having learned that not everyone deserves access to her emotional scars.
She does not allow her struggles to be visible to others unless she chooses to do so.

Her experiences are not devoid of emotion; rather, they have left her emotionally drained from the countless times she has let her guard down, resulting in more emotional wounds than healing.

Consequently, she moves with caution, not bitterness but wisdom, not coldness but guardedness. She embodies the spirit of self-reliance, wiping away her tears and continuing forward despite facing immense challenges.

Having endured hardships that would have shattered a weaker individual, she has experienced love and loss, given her all to those who left her empty, trusted the wrong individuals, stayed when she should have left, believed when there were compelling reasons not to, and yet, she has preserved her emotional integrity.
She still loves deeply, shows up for others, and perseveres even when exhausted.

The essence of a strong woman lies not in the ease of her life, but in the resilience she has cultivated through adversity. She is strong because she has faced challenges that have tested her, and she has no other choice but to endure.
Breaking down was not an option, and even on days when she felt like crumbling, she continued for those who depended on her, including herself.

When encountering a woman of such strength, it is imperative to honour her and refrain from taking her resilience for granted. Silence should not be misconstrued as a sign of well-being, nor should her independence be misinterpreted as a lack of emotional vulnerability.

She carries emotional pain as a private burden, yet it does not diminish her capacity to feel. She has developed resilience through life’s experiences, having learned that no one will come to her rescue.
Although she may choose to remain reserved about her struggles, it is crucial to recognise that she has overcome them.

If you ever gain sufficient proximity for her to share her story, understand that her decision to confide in you was not accidental. She chose you because, at long last, she felt safe enough to be seen and understood.
Such an act is rare, and it’s essential to preserve and honour her trust.
Written by:Catherine Basilicata
2025 (C)
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30/08/2025

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28/08/2025

CATERINA
One characteristic of a resilient woman is her ability to endure immense hardship and remain composed, often without revealing her inner struggles.

She presents herself with a positive outlook, carrying herself with grace, laughing despite her emotional turmoil, and managing her affairs with a composed demeanour, as if she were not grappling with a silent battle.

She has mastered the art of resilience, avoiding vulnerability and displaying her pain internally, having learned that not everyone deserves access to her emotional scars.
She does not allow her struggles to be visible to others unless she chooses to do so.

Her experiences are not devoid of emotion; rather, they have left her emotionally drained from the countless times she has let her guard down, resulting in more emotional wounds than healing.

Consequently, she moves with caution, not bitterness but wisdom, not coldness but guardedness. She embodies the spirit of self-reliance, wiping away her tears and continuing forward despite facing immense challenges.

Having endured hardships that would have shattered a weaker individual, she has experienced love and loss, given her all to those who left her empty, trusted the wrong individuals, stayed when she should have left, believed when there were compelling reasons not to, and yet, she has preserved her emotional integrity.
She still loves deeply, shows up for others, and perseveres even when exhausted.

The essence of a strong woman lies not in the ease of her life, but in the resilience she has cultivated through adversity. She is strong because she has faced challenges that have tested her, and she has no other choice but to endure.
Breaking down was not an option, and even on days when she felt like crumbling, she continued for those who depended on her, including herself.

When encountering a woman of such strength, it is imperative to honour her and refrain from taking her resilience for granted. Silence should not be misconstrued as a sign of well-being, nor should her independence be misinterpreted as a lack of emotional vulnerability.

She carries emotional pain as a private burden, yet it does not diminish her capacity to feel. She has developed resilience through life’s experiences, having learned that no one will come to her rescue.
Although she may choose to remain reserved about her struggles, it is crucial to recognise that she has overcome them.

If you ever gain sufficient proximity for her to share her story, understand that her decision to confide in you was not accidental. She chose you because, at long last, she felt safe enough to be seen and understood.
Such an act is rare, and it’s essential to preserve and honour her trust.
Written by:Catherine Basilicata
2025 (C)

28/08/2025

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