18/08/2025
Recently met a guy for marriage (arranged setup). His family liked me, he seemed interested.We met and then the conversation quickly turned into how his partner should be, why his past relationships failed, and why he's trying arranged marriage now etc etc.
When it was my turn, I asked one simple question
"What do you bring to the table for me?like i earn my own money, I don’t look to others to fill my emotional gaps so tell me, why should I choose you?" He had absolutely no answer. So I simply said "Sorry this isn't going to work" and left.
If a man's first conversation is entirely about what he wants from you, what you should do for him, with zero consideration of what he's offering in return that's not a partnership that's a job description!
I'm not interested in being someone's checklist while they bring nothing to my life. If you can't even articulate your own value, then we're done here.😃