29/03/2026
A few days ago, I shared a hadith. Let me give some real life examples of it.
The hadith is that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, 'There are some people (men and women) whose hearts are like birds. They will go to Paradise.'
I have been watching the online Muslim community in Bangladesh since about 2015. Now there are different groups here. One group cannot see the other group. I myself am one of them in a roundabout way.
All of them talk about religion, write big posts about many important issues of religion. But I noticed one thing. Many people, including me, do not have this heart 'like a bird'.
However, I know some people who have hearts like birds. I know them in real life.
Here, an important issue has to be brought forward from another perspective. I will tell you in this post, why I brought up this 'other' issue.
A few days ago, in a video by Abdullah bin Abdur Razzak Bhai, he said, 'If there are two or three flaws in your appearance, then marry a girl whose family is civilized.' (I spoke the truth).
I have also seen brothers who could not be happy by marrying an orthodox Muslimah. The same is true for sisters.
So it is understood that many people may forget two or three things, but still, there can be many good things in that person.
A person's heart being soft is a very important thing. Orthodox means that he is good, but it is not really that.
So what I was saying is about some real life examples.
1. I have a cousin. I mean, my mother's cousin's son. He does not write big articles. He is busy with work. Sometimes he plays a few games. But he is a good enough Muslim in many ways. I have never seen him miss the prayer at the earliest time.
This Ramadan, he went to the mosque and prayed Qiyamul Layla. If I had a sister, I would have said, 'Marry my sister' even if I was beaten up and had a gun pointed at my head.
His morals are extraordinary. I think this boy will be a good husband.
2. My great uncle's son. He is not very active on Facebook. He lives in the USA. He was at IBM. Even if he doesn't say it himself, I don't know about him. He is a very charitable person. He has sent a lot of money to Palestine and Syria so far. A lot means a lot.
He helps his relatives with whatever they need.
When a funeral is held in his area, he tries to volunteer to wash the body.
His morals and deeds are extremely good. He puts a lot of effort into reading the Quran, understanding the Quran, and converting it into deeds.
The funny thing is that my brother got a scholar like Sheikh Hatem Al Hajj. His wife got reverted by Sheikh.
3. My best friend Sajib. He cannot be an orthodox Muslim like many of you. He plays some games, watches movies and TV. But when it comes to transactions and keeping promises, this boy will leave many behind. He has extremely good morals. We have been together since the age of 7. Till today, I have no record of him lying, making trouble about transactions, and not keeping his promises in these 27 years.
4. Another relative of mine. I don't want to mention his name (there are family members). Let's call him A.
Another relative of mine is a big loser in business. Let's call him B. When this 'B' brother is sitting at the peak level of depression, then this 'A' brother gives him 10 lakh taka and tells him to restart again. Give the return when you can. No problem.
Brother A's business of 10 lakh taka has now stopped, and brother B's business has come to a standstill. You can say that his entire family is now running on this money.
He has done a good deed all his life. But look, his own brother also does not do this work.
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The people I mentioned have a common trait in them all. Their hearts are soft. There is no controversy. There is no backbiting. There is no poking.
They have some shortcomings in many places. Maybe their "method" will not match many of you. They do not write big Islamic writings. They do not write big jihadi posts. They do not have any activism either.
But they do some work that is in line with the hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him).
I have seen one or two brothers in our community. I do not want to mention their names.
So, notice, these innocent people may be buying paradise. And many of us, despite making big posts and big activism, are unable to shorten the road to hell.
✍🏻 Muhammad Rakib