Nimu.Mannu’s Vibes

03/09/2025

One night, you wake up with your baby five times. Then, three times. Finally, just once.

For weeks, they wake up at 5 a.m. like clockwork. But one day, they sleep a bit longer, and then even longer.

Suddenly, they are both resting well, and it feels like they have finally overcome this phase.

Remember, everything is temporary.
Long nights and early mornings will pass. They won't last forever.

Motherhood is a lifelong journey full of changes 🩷🩷

20/08/2025

To hold the emotional load as a mother during back-to-school season is its own kind of hard.

Because you’re not just carrying your own worries— you’re carrying theirs, too.

Every stumble and heartbreak strengthens you, leaving behind an indelible mark of resilience.

And this—this is the hardest part of back to school.
Not the homework.
Not the projects.

But the way your heart shatters each time theirs does—when they feel “not enough,” or like they don’t belong—
and you can’t always be there, in that moment, to catch them, to hold them,
to remind them of their worth.

That’s a pain that only a mother can truly understand and feel in her heart.

04/08/2025

28/05/2025

Big shoutout to all fathers out there 🙀

Imagine the silent scream of your kid's mom!

moms aren’t just doing the work—
they’re also carrying the mental load of everyone and everything.
And this burden??
It is the load that’s the heaviest.
It’s often the hardest one to carry.

27/05/2025

Being a mom, Sometimes I feel like I need a break from being too hard on myself and society.

🕯I need a break from self-criticism and societal expectations.
🕯I need a break from worrying about my appearance and being told my pizza wasn’t good enough for my kids because it wasn’t organic.
🕯I need a break from hating my body and pushing myself to the brink because no one else would do it.
🕯I need a break from being told what to eat, how to sleep, and which childcare setting is best.
💡I need a break from perfectionism and expect to be the perfect wife, mom, and worker.
💡I need a break from the cycle of thinking I’m always doing something wrong and am not enough.
🌺My kids don’t need perfection; they need laughter, playfulness, and happiness.

07/05/2025

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized how fragile life is.

I’m not into flowers or grand gestures.

What I want is for my kids to be healthy and safe, surrounded by love.

Having them around is the best gift ever ❤️ I’ll treasure it always.

05/05/2025

Check on your wife—not just on her daily tasks.

Look deeper, like she does with your children.

Did she eat? Has she rested? Is she holding it together while struggling inside?

Check her eyes—are they tired? Check her heart—is it heavy?

She’s not just a mom; she’s a woman with her dreams and feelings.

Sometimes, all she needs to hear is, “I see you. I’m here.”

01/05/2025

Be kind to your parents. It’s their first time living too.

They didn’t get a manual. They raised you while carrying their own pain. They worked while they were tired. They tried their best.

They didn’t always say the right words. They didn’t always show love the way you needed. But they tried in small ways. A packed meal. A “Where are you?” A quiet wait by the door.

Sometimes they were too strict. Sometimes they were distant. But look closer. Behind the worry was love. Behind the silence was stress.

They are not perfect. But they gave all that they could.

So be kind. Be patient. They’re still learning too. Just like you.

20/04/2025

I’m a strong person both physically and mentally, but do you know what makes me cry?
It’s when I have given my best to you and still feel useless.

10/04/2025

Your second baby will make you wonder why one was ever hard, but show you that a sibling is the best gift for your first.

You’ll wish for four hands, yet find there’s less mess to clean. Your confidence as a mom will grow, but you’ll realize how much you still have to learn.

Your second baby will teach you efficiency while reminding you to slow down. You’ll wish for more hours in the day but long to savor every moment.

Ultimately, your heart will double in size as you split your time, attention, and patience between two amazing little ones.

09/04/2025

Best friend forever 💜 👯‍♀️