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Two things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.
10/09/2025

Two things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.

05/09/2025

'dignified silence' বলে একটা কথা আছে। যেখানে কথা বললে নিজের মানসম্মান নষ্ট হয়ে থাকে, সময় ও শক্তির অপচয় হয়, সেখানে চুপ থাকাটাই সবচেয়ে এলিগেন্ট এবং ম্যাচিউরড রেসপন্স।

Sometimes silence isn't empty, it's full of answers. এতে করে শুধু নিজের শিক্ষা ও রুচির প্রকাশ হয় না, বরং তুচ্ছ কথার মোহে না জড়িয়ে আত্মসম্মানও অক্ষুণ্ণ থাকে!

সাগরের পাড়ে ঐ যে পাথরটা দেখছেন, ওখানে আরবিতে লেখা আছে,— 'তুমি চলে গেলেও ঢেউ গুলো থেমে যাবেনা'।আপনার অনুপস্থিতিতে পৃথিবী...
05/09/2025

সাগরের পাড়ে ঐ যে পাথরটা দেখছেন, ওখানে আরবিতে লেখা আছে,
— 'তুমি চলে গেলেও ঢেউ গুলো থেমে যাবেনা'।

আপনার অনুপস্থিতিতে পৃথিবীর কিছুই আসবে যাবে না। পৃথিবীর মানুষদেরও কিছু আসে যায় না। শুধু পৃথিবী থেকে বিদায়ের ক্ষেত্রে না, জগতের যে কোনো বিদায়ের ক্ষেত্রেই এটা সত্য।

05/09/2025

হাসবুনাল্লাহু ওয়া নিমাল ওয়াকিল,
নিমাল মাওলা ওয়া নিমান নাসির।

04/09/2025

An honest man doesn't bend his backbone.

03/09/2025

Close the window that hurt's you, no matter how beautiful view is;

Have you read a book that walks into your hands the way a memory drifts into your mind on a sleepless night? Steinbeck’s...
02/09/2025

Have you read a book that walks into your hands the way a memory drifts into your mind on a sleepless night? Steinbeck’s Once There Was a War is one of those books. It reads less like history and more like an overheard confession, the kind soldiers might make when the night is too long and the silence is unbearable.

The book is not a grand declaration of war’s glory or horror, but a collection of dispatches: small stories that, like pebbles, fill your pocket until you feel the weight of the whole world dragging you down. Each fragment feels alive, urgent, as though Steinbeck wrote with his pen pressed against the pulse of the men he met.

Steinbeck himself went to the war not as a soldier, but as a correspondent. That distance, and his instinct for human detail, make the writing unique. He did not chase explosions or strategy. He listened, he noticed. He carried back to us the overlooked, men making coffee, waiting for mail, patching their boots, or trying to laugh through the ache of longing.

What struck me most is how Steinbeck refuses to romanticize. His prose has no polish of propaganda, no cheap sheen of heroism. He writes about boredom and absurdity as much as bravery. One moment you are reading about men joking around a table, and the next you feel the undertow of grief, because you know some of them will not live to joke tomorrow.

The title itself: Once There Was a War, feels like a lullaby gone bitter. It suggests that what we are reading is already past, but Steinbeck never lets us forget that while wars end, their shadows linger in people’s bones, in memory, in silence. He is not just telling us “there was a war,” but “once,” as though to remind us of the fairy-tale rhythm, the cruel irony of repetition.

Reading these dispatches, I found myself remembering my grandfather’s stories, how he would sometimes fall quiet in the middle of a sentence, his eyes fixed on something I could not see. Steinbeck captures that same hesitancy, that refusal to give us a neat conclusion. War, for him, is not a single story. It is a thousand unfinished ones.

The humanity in the book rests in its smallest gestures. A soldier lending another his last cigarette. A nurse writing letters for the wounded. A cook stirring soup in a battered pot while artillery rumbles in the distance. Steinbeck knew that history is written not only by generals and treaties, but by ordinary people who endure the unbearable by doing the ordinary.

His writing also reveals his moral vision. He does not judge the men for their flaws: cowardice, cruelty, fear, but he notices them, and in noticing, honors them as human beings rather than faceless soldiers. War, in Steinbeck’s view, is less about ideology and more about endurance, about what happens to a man’s soul when he is thrown into chaos.

And yet, Steinbeck is not entirely without hope. He shows humor, resilience, the way men create pockets of life in the middle of destruction. A broken guitar strummed in a bunker can feel like a hymn. A letter from home becomes more powerful than any weapon. These glimpses remind us that even in the darkest hours, humanity flickers.

For readers today, the book does something quietly radical. It refuses the distance of time. Wars may have different names, but the emotions remain the same: the waiting, the dread, the fragile laughter. To read Steinbeck is to realize how close we always are to repeating history, and how fragile peace really is.

The prose itself has that characteristic Steinbeck simplicity: direct, uncluttered, but with currents running beneath. He does not tell us how to feel; he hands us the rawness and lets it ache in our hands. That restraint makes the sorrow sharper, the moments of kindness more luminous.

When I closed the book, I felt I had been entrusted with something, not knowledge in the academic sense, but fragments of memory, like someone pressing photographs into my palm and saying, “Keep these safe.” That is what Once There Was a War feels like: the safekeeping of lives, gestures, and voices that would otherwise vanish.

And so Steinbeck leaves us with the truth that war is never truly over. The guns may fall silent, but the stories remain lodged in us, shaping the way we look at a quiet street, a boy in uniform, a name on a list. War, he reminds us, is not only about what was destroyed, but about what survives, half-broken, trembling, human.

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01/09/2025
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01/09/2025

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We live in a noisy world—filled with distractions, quick replies, and half-listened conversations. In How to Listen: Dis...
01/09/2025

We live in a noisy world—filled with distractions, quick replies, and half-listened conversations. In How to Listen: Discover the Hidden Key to Better Communication, Oscar Trimboli reminds us that listening isn’t a passive act. It’s an active skill—one that can transform our relationships, workplaces, and even how we see ourselves.

Here are some of the most powerful lessons from the book, along with ways you can put them into practice:

1. Listening Is More Than Hearing Words

True listening means noticing tone, pace, body language, and silence. It’s about picking up on what lies beneath the words.

How to apply it: Next time someone speaks, pay attention not just to what they say but how they say it. Notice shifts in tone, hesitations, or energy. These often reveal more than the words themselves.

2. The Five Levels of Listening

Trimboli describes five levels: listening to yourself, to the content, to context, to what’s unsaid, and to meaning. Each layer adds depth.

How to apply it: In your next conversation, ask yourself: Am I just catching the words, or am I also noticing the environment, emotions, and what isn’t being said? Try to move beyond content into meaning.

3. Silence Is Golden

Silence gives people space to think and share more openly.

How to apply it: Count to three in your head after someone finishes speaking before responding. You’ll be surprised how often they add something important in that space.

4. Ask Better Questions

Curiosity is the key to deeper understanding.

How to apply it: Replace questions like “Are you okay?” with “What’s on your mind today?” or “What feels most important about this for you?” These invite richer answers.

5. Don’t Listen Just to Respond

Many of us craft our replies while the other person is still talking. This blocks understanding.

How to apply it: The next time you feel the urge to jump in, remind yourself: Listen to understand, not to reply. Repeat back what you heard before adding your own thoughts.

6. Listening Builds Trust

People feel valued when they feel heard. Listening is often more powerful than advice.

How to apply it: In a work meeting or with a friend, practice paraphrasing: “It sounds like what matters most to you is…” This shows you’re not just hearing but truly absorbing their message.

7. Listening Improves Decisions

Better listening means better input, which leads to smarter choices.

How to apply it: When making a decision with others, pause and ask: “Is there anything we haven’t considered yet?” This ensures quieter voices are included and new perspectives surface.

8. You Can Practice Listening Like a Skill

Listening isn’t fixed—it’s a muscle you can strengthen.

How to apply it: Set a daily intention: in one conversation today, I’ll listen without interruption. Reflect afterward: what did I notice, and how did it change the interaction?

Final Thoughts

Oscar Trimboli’s How to Listen is a wake-up call in an age of constant noise. It challenges us to move beyond shallow interactions and practice the deep, transformative act of listening. Because when we truly listen, we don’t just hear others—we help them feel seen.

BOOK: https://amzn.to/4lTWKTW

"How to Finish Everything You Start" by Jan Yager is a direct and practical guide to overcoming the common human challen...
01/09/2025

"How to Finish Everything You Start" by Jan Yager is a direct and practical guide to overcoming the common human challenge of procrastination and follow-through. The book's narrative is a blend of psychological insights, relatable anecdotes, and concrete strategies, all designed to help readers develop a "finishing mindset." Yager argues that the reason we fail to finish what we start isn't a lack of talent or ambition, but a combination of psychological barriers, poor planning, and a fear of perfection. The book provides a clear, step-by-step framework for diagnosing the root cause of your procrastination and offers a toolbox of techniques—from time management and goal setting to dealing with perfectionism and self-doubt. It's an essential read for anyone who has a long list of half-finished projects and wants to learn the skill of completing what they set out to do.

10 Key Lessons and Insights

1. Understand Your "Why": The first step to finishing is understanding why you stop. Yager encourages you to identify the psychological reasons behind your procrastination, whether it's fear of failure, perfectionism, or a lack of motivation.

2. Break It Down: Large projects are intimidating. The book teaches the power of breaking a massive goal into a series of small, manageable tasks. This makes the project feel less overwhelming and easier to start. 🧱

3. Start Small, Finish Big: Yager emphasizes the importance of starting with a very small, achievable first step. The momentum from completing this tiny task can be powerful enough to carry you through the rest of the project.

4. Manage Your Inner Perfectionist: The fear of not doing something perfectly is a major cause of procrastination. The book provides strategies for recognizing when perfectionism is a barrier and for accepting that "good enough" is often just fine.

5. Set Realistic Deadlines: Unrealistic deadlines lead to burnout and procrastination. Yager advises setting clear, specific, and achievable deadlines that provide a sense of urgency without being overwhelming.

6. Create a Support System: You don't have to finish alone. The book highlights the value of having a supportive network of friends, family, or colleagues who can provide accountability and encouragement.

7. Reward Your Progress: Celebrate your small victories. Acknowledging your progress with a small reward reinforces positive behavior and keeps you motivated to continue.

8. Time Management Is a Tool, Not a Torture: Yager offers practical time management techniques, such as scheduling specific blocks of time for a project, to help you stay focused and on track.

9. Don't Let Distractions Win: The book provides strategies for eliminating distractions from your environment, allowing you to focus on the task at hand without getting sidetracked.

10. The Finishing Mindset: The ultimate lesson is that finishing is a mindset. It is the belief that you are capable of completing what you start, and it is a skill that gets stronger with every project you see through to the end.

BOOK: https://amzn.to/4p01GcI

Mona Hajjar Halaby's In My Mother's Footsteps is a poignant memoir that intertwines the author's personal journey of dis...
01/09/2025

Mona Hajjar Halaby's In My Mother's Footsteps is a poignant memoir that intertwines the author's personal journey of discovery with the rich, often turbulent, history of Palestine. After her mother's passing, Halaby embarks on a quest to uncover her mother's untold stories and experiences growing up in Jerusalem during the British Mandate period. Through letters, diaries, photographs, and interviews with surviving family members, Halaby meticulously reconstructs a vibrant past, revealing a world of cultural diversity, community, and personal resilience amidst significant political upheaval. The book is a testament to memory, identity, and the enduring power of family narratives to connect generations across time and geography.

10 Detailed Key Lessons and Insights

1. The importance of preserving family history and oral traditions: Halaby's journey highlights how untold family stories can be lost forever if not actively sought out and documented. Her diligent research into her mother's past emphasizes the value of listening to elders, preserving artifacts, and piecing together narratives to understand one's roots.

2. Memory as a bridge between past and present: The memoir demonstrates how individual and collective memories shape identity and provide a continuous link to history. Halaby's exploration of her mother's memories allows her to understand her own present identity more deeply and to connect with a heritage that transcends geographical boundaries.

3. The human experience amidst political turmoil: The book vividly portrays the everyday lives of ordinary people caught in extraordinary political circumstances. It shows how communities thrived, formed bonds, and maintained cultural practices even as the political landscape of Palestine shifted dramatically, offering a nuanced perspective beyond typical historical accounts.

4. Cultural diversity and coexistence in pre-1948 Jerusalem: Halaby's mother's recollections paint a picture of a multicultural Jerusalem where Arabs, Jews, and other communities coexisted. This challenges monolithic narratives and underscores the historical reality of diverse populations sharing spaces and building lives together before significant geopolitical changes.

5. The enduring power of resilience and adaptation: Despite the profound changes and displacements experienced by her family, the narrative showcases their remarkable ability to adapt and rebuild their lives. It's a testament to the human spirit's capacity to find hope and continue forward in the face of adversity.

6. The personal impact of displacement and exile: The book subtly conveys the long-lasting emotional and psychological effects of displacement on individuals and families. While not overtly tragic, the underlying sense of loss and longing for a lost homeland permeates the narrative, revealing how historical events shape personal destinies.

7. The role of tangible objects in unlocking memories: Letters, photographs, and personal belongings serve as powerful conduits to the past, triggering detailed memories and providing concrete evidence for Halaby's research. This illustrates how seemingly small artifacts can hold immense historical and personal significance.

8. The complexities of identity formation: Halaby's journey is also one of self-discovery, as she grapples with her own identity shaped by her mother's past and her family's diaspora. It reveals that identity is not static but a dynamic interplay of heritage, personal experience, and ongoing reflection.

9. The universal longing for roots and belonging: The author's dedication to understanding her mother's origins speaks to a universal human desire to connect with one's ancestral past and to feel a sense of belonging, regardless of where one currently resides.

10. The transformative nature of historical inquiry: By undertaking this deep dive into her family's history, Halaby not only illuminates her mother's life but also gains a profound understanding of a pivotal period in history from a personal, intimate perspective. This demonstrates how personal stories can enrich and humanize broader historical narratives.

BOOK: https://amzn.to/45WWeyh
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