17/03/2023
nawe , Kugira uronke umukunzi wawe mwiza Kandi yizewe wubuzima bwawe ,ntiwirengagize ibibintu:
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_🔺 raba ko Ari umuntu yitaho umuryango wawe,nubona ataco anezwe ube uramuzibukira hakiri kare k*ko Hari umugabo (umugore) akunda wew gusa,uzanye ibibazo vyiwanyu mumuryango we ntibimuraba,ntaco akurikirana Kandi ntanico afasha mugutora umuti wikibazo uwo ntimukwiranye, none ko ibihe vyose umuryango uzokwamaho,nimba rero atabakunda ngo abiyegereze ahuze nabo Hari igihe uzogira ikibazo bikenerwe ko ujayo canke mujanayo ashobora k*kwankira canke akakwima ubufasha,iwanyu mama,papa nabandi bashobora kuba batifashe neza kubijanye nuburyo ntagire ico asahiriza, muricogihe umuryango uzokubona nabi mbere ushobora kuzoca ugiranira urwanko ruvuye kuruyo muntu wawe, mwirinde atarakuzanira ibibazo bikomeye gusumba,
_🔺 Raba Kandi aho ageza gutahura ,urabe ko mubihurizako akarorero ushobora kuba ufise indoto zo gukora business nini,mbele ugashobora no kujabuka imbibe ariko nawe kubera aba yiyumvira buhoro canke hagufi icogihe ntazogutahura ahubwo azokubona ko ugiye hanze mubuhumbu gusa nabandi bagore canke abagabo, umuntu mutari kuri niveau imwe muzoguma muharira ntanico muzoshokako,umubwiye kugiye kubandanya amashule ntazovyizera azobona ko ugiye kubana nabandi bagabo/abagore hariya ugaruke usanga nawe yaramaze kwonona vyinshi nko kuzana uwundi canke k*kuvyarira hanze ikibondo kubera mutabitahura kumwe,
_🔺Raba ko afise ubushobozi bwo guhangana nishavu ryiwe(Anger Management skill),k*ko umuntu arashavura,arababara rero Haraho bishika utabishatse uravuze akantu kamubabza,k*ko ntushobora kunezereza umuntu imisi yose,nimba adashobora kwigumya ashobora gufata ingingo yo kugukubita,kugutuka canke kuguhana mubundi buryo,ariko uwushobora kwigumya ikibazo kibaye arihangana hama munyuma mukicara mukabivugana b**ahera ubuzima bukabandanya,nutamenya kuvyihweza hakiri kare ntumbaze,
_🔺Raba Kandi ubushobozi bwo gutanga ikigongwe (Kubabarira),nokwibagira (Ability to forgive and forget), nk*ko kwisi atawudakosha k*ko na bibiriya irabivuga ko tuvuze ko atacaha dufise tuba twibeshe, umuntu adashobora gutanga imbabazi no kwibagira uyo uramuca kure k*ko Hari abantu babika mumutima imyaka nka 20 igahera,
Uwo rero ukamwihambirirako atakwishe ntumbaze,
_ ❗mukurangiza rero biragusaba gufata ingingo yo kuja murukundo umanje kubaza umutima hamwe nubwonko ,erega umutima uravuga umviriza rero ico umutima ukibwira, Haraho umutima ukubwira ikintu ukakirengako hama ukazicuza munyuma,nukubwira ati uyu niwe narondera canke siwe uraca ubaza ubwonko insiguro mukumwihweza ubwonko burahanura, ati egome niwe,ndavye uko ndamubona arankwiriye canke ntidukwiranye,
Hanyuma ucuraba ko muhuriye kubintu vyinshi bitadukanye atari uwuzoguma aguhaririza, erega raba umwe akwubaha mwubahana ndetse aguha agaciro mubantu atapfa k*kuburira isoni mubantu,
⭐hama kuberako umugore uzotwara naba afise imico myiza nawe ucubona ibibondo vyawe ingeso biziga kuva kumuvyeyi wabo, mwibuke Kandi ko urukundo ruvugwa iyo ruvuye habiri umugabo canke umugore,iyo bikozwe numwe haba ukwicuza Kandi bikarangira nabi, mwirinde ntimujanwe namarangamutima canke ngo imyaka iranjanye itegure hakiri kare Mugenzi k*ko Urugo rubi nigihonomu yokwisi,
Bandanya kudukurikira hano Hari vyinshi turiko turabategurira,hama mubisangize aba jeunes benshi caane,nabo bagire , and
Ukaba washoboye guheza kubisoma siga akajambo muri comment tubandanye twiyagira ,canke utubaze ikibazo aho mutatahuye!