08/04/2026
1. FAITH & VALUES
a. What does God truly mean to you in daily life?
b. How do you make decisions when Scripture and emotions clash?
(Ask on biblical believes and Values as well. Don't neglect your faith and walk with God before getting married to anyone, else, you will be building on a Wrong foundation)
2. MONEY
a. How do you view money and spend money
b. Saving, spending, debt, generosity etc
3. CONFLICT
a. When you're angry, do you shut down, shout, or seek peace?
b. How were conflicts handled in your family growing up? and is that your picture for your own home.
c. What is your conflict resolution style? Third party settlement, silence or talking
4. FAMILY & BOUNDARIES
a. Who comes first after marriage-spouse or extended family?
b. What boundaries are non-negotiable?
5. CHILDREN & PARENTING
a. Do you want children? How many?
b. Discipline, schooling, spiritual training-what's your vision?
6. PURPOSE & DIRECTION
a. Where do you see your life going in the next 5-10 years?
b How do you support your partner's calling without competing?
7. S*X, INTIMACY AND EXPECTATIONS
a. How do you communicate needs without shame or manipulation?
b. What does faithfulness look like to you practically?
8. HEALING AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH
a. What wounds are you still carrying?
b. Are you willing to heal, not bleed on your partner?
9. ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES
a. Who handles what- finances, chores, leadership?
b. Are these based on culture, conviction, or convenience?
10. DEAL-BREAKERS
a. What can you tolerate?
b. What can you never accept?
Marriage doesn't reveal character, it exposes it. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. This is the best time to talk
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