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WELLINGTON-BASED MOTSWANA MUSICIAN CONVICTED OF R**E CAN NOW BE NAMEDA Wellington musician convicted of r**e can now be ...
28/07/2024

WELLINGTON-BASED MOTSWANA MUSICIAN CONVICTED OF R**E CAN NOW BE NAMED

A Wellington musician convicted of r**e can now be named as Martin Ditlhabi. He was found guilty in November of one charge of r**e in a retrial - after previously being cleared of other sexual assault charges - and sentenced to three years and nine months in prison.

The now 27-year-old was arrested after a raft of sexual allegations on social media. Ditlhabi had lived in New Zealand since 2009, after he and his family emigrated from Botswana. They first moved to Tauranga and later settled in Wellington, where he went to high school.

During the first trial, Ditlhabi testified he was targeted with death threats and racial abuse as part of the social media frenzy, and his lawyer later argued he should never be named because that would happen again.

But he was denied permanent name suppression in two courts, with the High Court ruling in May that revealing his name would not cause extreme hardship. On Thursday, his lawyer abandoned his attempt to keep his name secret forever.

WHAT HAPPENED?

In 2020, numerous online accusations of r**e and sexual assault were made. The police kicked off an investigation dubbed Operation Emerald, which resulted in multiple police complaints, and Ditlhabi's arrest.

It came to trial at Wellington District Court in October 2022, with six complainants testifying he had r**ed or sexually assaulted them, often in the context of a party, and with alcohol and drugs involved.

Ditlhabi pleaded not guilty to four charges of r**e, two of unlawful sexual connection and two of indecent assault.

At trial, one of his lawyer Sam Campbell argued Ditlhabi was a victim of a "social media frenzy", and Ditlhabi said he was "blindsided" by the online allegations.

Later in the trial, Ditlhabi told the court through tears he had been subject to death threats and racist abuse from those social media messages. His house was broken into and he found spray paint all over the walls, including the word ‘rapist'. This became the guts of his attempt to try and keep his name secret.

During the trials, the basis of the defence's argument was that the complainants either consented to sexual activity, or that Ditlhabi was not involved at all. In the first proceeding, the court heard all the alleged abuse occurred during or after partying. The defence argued the complainants' and witnesses' testimonies were hazy - given the time that had passed between the alleged abuse and trial, and that drugs and alcohol were involved.

But Crown lawyer Rushika De Silva said the complainants' imperfect recall did not mean they were lying, or that their evidence was unreliable. They had no reason to lie, she said.
The jury found him not guilty of the unlawful sexual connection and indecent assault charges - but could not reach a decision on the r**e charges.

A RETRIAL, A GUILTY VERDICT AND A BID FOR SECRECY

The case was retried in November last year. By that time, only two charges of r**e were left, and several complainants did not return to testify, Stuff reported.

Ditlhabi was found guilty on one of those charges, and Judge Peter Hobbs sentenced him to three years and nine months in prison.

Judge Hobbs also refused Ditlhabi's application for permanent name suppression - but kept suppression in place for a time, to allow him to appeal the decision. That appeal was heard before Justice Helen McQueen at the High Court in Wellington in April.

Campbell argued revealing Ditlhabi's name would re-ignite a social media "firestorm", adding he had no support from friends or family, and he was still young, with prospects for rehabilitation if his name was kept secret.

But in her judgement in late May, Justice McQueen declined the appeal because it did not meet the threshold for "extreme hardship" which must be proven in order to grant name suppression. The suppression was continued while Ditlhabi appealed that decision - but on Thursday, he abandoned that appeal.

WHO IS MARTIN DITLHABI?

Ditlhabi's defence team gave a brief overview of Ditlhabi's background during the first trial - information which was suppressed until now. They said he makes music and has done modelling work, as well as worked in hospitality.

He was born in Botswana, where his parents are from, and he came with his family to New Zealand in 2009 when he was 11. The family first lived in Tauranga, and when he was 16 they all moved to Wellington where he attended Rongotai College.

At school he played football, and started writing hip hop music. He went to Paraparaumu College for his last year of schooling, leaving halfway through his final year.

He then moved to Wellington City and lived in several suburbs with a friend and his then-girlfriend.

Source: RNZ

6 EFFECTIVE WINTER HAIRCARE TIPSWinter haircare is crucial because the cold, dry air can lead to brittleness, breakage, ...
03/07/2024

6 EFFECTIVE WINTER HAIRCARE TIPS

Winter haircare is crucial because the cold, dry air can lead to brittleness, breakage, and moisture loss. It’s a perfect storm of bad conditions.

Wind and harsh cold air suck moisture out of your hair, causing tangles. Indoors, the heated air is so dry, it can almost feel like you’re under the dreaded dryer!

Hair dryness promotes frizz, breakage and split ends. Worse still, while your winter woollies(including beanie hats), keep your body warm, they pull and snag on your hair, breaking strands. It’s not all gloom and doom, however. With the right tips, you can keep your tresses healthy and happy during the winter months.

1. Moisture, moisture and more moisture - Winter calls for different haircare. Botswana winter is dry. As such, your hair dries out, hence the need for more moisture-infusing treatments. In the summer there’s humidity, you sweat and the hair is kept moist. During winter months, use hydrating sulfate-free shampoos and conditioners to retain moisture.

Tip! Don’t make the mistake of having protein treatments thinking they’ll give your hair vitality and strength. Afro hair has a lot of protein and not enough moisture.

For that reason, you need to up moisture treatments, which Caucasian hair can also benefit from. This type of hair easily gets greasy. Owing to its texture, grease is not absorbed but rather sits on the hair, explaining why it’s easier to see than on afro hair.
Bonus tip!Thinly apply Mizani Rose H2O to your scalp to stop flaking. It’s amazing as it doesn’t weigh your hair down.

Warning! Many moisturisers are a misnomer as they are petroleum-based. A little of the right type of oil seals the hair cuticles, improving hair quality. Bear in mind oil doesn’t moisturise hair.

2. Hair mask is key! Moisture-promoting treatments coupled with a good hair mask seal in the moisture, leaving your hair glossy without looking greasy. Look for argan, coconut or olive oil-based products as they are easily absorbed, and nourish your hair and scalp. A hair mask works on the surface of the hair and hair cuticle.

Tip! Hair mask treatments can be done at home. Hair Essentials does a great Argan Oil Hair Mask for P350. If you prefer to do it yourself at home, the product is also available for purchase at the same price.

3. Beware of braiding as a protective style! People mistakenly believe braiding and plaiting are the best protective styles for winter. If you do opt to go down this route, don’t leave your braids/plaits in for too long. To improve hair elasticity and moisture, remember to do treatments even with your plaits or braids in. Elasticity is important because it enables your hair to stretch with little to no risk of breaking.

Tip! Keeping braids in for too long puts strain on your hair. So be sure to keep them in for no more than FOUR weeks.

4. Woolly hats keep you warm and roastie in the biting Botswana winter but worn regularly and for extended periods, they can rob your hair of moisture and natural oils, leaving it dry and prone to breakage. The rough material will also snag on hair and cause breakage.

Tip! Avoid wearing woolly hats all the time. Silk or satin bonnets and scarves are kinder on hair and are ideal for cold winter months.

Your hair will also thank you for it because silk and satin keep your tresses smooth and tame. That’s because silk and satin are not absorbent materials whereas wool is.

5. Reduce direct heat and over-manipulation of hair, which leads to dryness. Put away flat irons and keep your blow dryer on a cool setting for the season. These tools take moisture out of your hair, a process already accelerated by the wind and dry air outside.

6. Stay hydrated: Drink plenty of water to hydrate your body, which in turn benefits your hair and scalp health.

By following these winter haircare tips, you can help maintain the health, moisture, and strength of your hair, regardless of type, during the colder months.

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