11/24/2025
Should We Still Be Posting Photos of Our Kids Online?
“Investigators believe the suspect used artificial intelligence (A.I.) to alter images of children he knew for sexual purposes.”
– CTV News, Nov. 21, 2025/ "Police say Kitchener man used A.I. to create images of children for a sexual purpose"
It’s a chilling sentence, and unfortunately, it’s not fiction.
A recent arrest in Kitchener, Ontario, highlights a disturbing reality: even innocent photos shared online can be exploited. In this case, police allege that a man used A.I. tools to manipulate photos of real children into explicit material. It’s sickening, and it’s a reminder to all of us to be cautious about what we post online.
Even if your Facebook post is set to “friends only” or is a temporary Story, it’s not private. Anyone can take a screenshot. And once an image is out there, you lose control of where it goes next.
We used to share family photos freely - newborn announcements, summer holidays, Christmas parties - without a second thought. But that innocence is gone.
Before you post, ask yourself: Is it worth the risk?
Parents are now prohibiting any photos of their kids from being shared online, from grandparents to schools. Some parents are opting to show only the backs of their kids in photos, or cropping them out entirely. You’ll even see family influencers on Instagram and TikTok keeping their kids just out of frame. That’s not a coincidence, it’s a precaution.
There are safer ways to share with trusted family and friends. Google Photos, Apple Shared Albums, or even private WhatsApp groups are all better options for preserving control over who sees your content.
A.I. is helping us work smarter and connect faster, but it also gives bad actors powerful new tools. Until legislation and platforms catch up, we have to be our own gatekeepers.
If you wouldn’t trust someone with your child in real life, don’t trust them with your child’s image online.