The Demon In My Home

01/08/2026

Congratulations 🎉 to everyone who walked away from a narcissist in 2025!

01/08/2026

For years, "home" felt like walking on eggshells in a minefield. You become a master at reading moods, dimming your light just to keep the peace, and shielding your children from the unpredictable shifts in energy. But the day you finally leave, the silence is different. It’s no longer the heavy, suffocating silence of fear—it’s the quiet beginning of peace.

The Reality of the Journey:
The Emotional Fog: In the beginning, the "trauma bond" is real. You might second-guess yourself or feel guilty, but that is just the narcissist’s voice still playing in your head.

Protecting the Little Ones: Seeing the light come back into your children’s eyes is the greatest reward. Away from the manipulation and "triangulation," they finally have the space to just be kids again.

Relearning Yourself: You start to remember who you were before you were told you weren't enough. You realize you aren't "difficult" or "crazy"—you were just reacting to an impossible situation.

The Turning Point: Recovery isn't linear. There are days of intense strength and days of
deep exhaustion. But every day away from a narcissist is a day you are no longer being erased. You are teaching your children that love should never hurt, and that their mother is a warrior who chose their well-being over a toxic cycle.

"We didn't just survive; we are finally starting to live."

01/08/2026

The Silence After the Storm: Breaking Free

For years, "home" felt like walking on eggshells in a minefield. You become a master at reading moods, dimming your light just to keep the peace, and shielding your children from the unpredictable shifts in energy. But the day you finally leave, the silence is different. It’s no longer the heavy, suffocating silence of fear—it’s the quiet beginning of peace.

The Reality of the Journey:

The Emotional Fog: In the beginning, the "trauma bond" is real. You might second-guess yourself or feel guilty, but that is just the narcissist’s voice still playing in your head.

Protecting the Little Ones: Seeing the light come back into your children’s eyes is the greatest reward. Away from the manipulation and "triangulation," they finally have the space to just be kids again.

Relearning Yourself: You start to remember who you were before you were told you weren't enough. You realize you aren't "difficult" or "crazy"—you were just reacting to an impossible situation.

The Turning Point: Recovery isn't linear. There are days of intense strength and days of deep exhaustion. But every day away from a narcissist is a day you are no longer being erased. You are teaching your children that love should never hurt, and that their mother is a warrior who chose their well-being over a toxic cycle.

"We didn't just survive; we are finally starting to live."



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01/08/2026

Building a Life They Can’t Gossip Away

The hardest part of recovery isn’t just leaving the narcissist—it’s realizing who was willing to be a pawn in their game. Dealing with flying monkeys is a test of your foundation.

I use this work to stay grounded. While they’re busy talking, I’m busy doing. While they’re spreading stories, I’m building a reality. You can’t argue with someone committed to misunderstanding you, so I’ve stopped trying. I’m letting the work speak for itself.

01/08/2026

The hardest part of recovery isn’t just leaving the narcissist—it’s realizing who was willing to be a pawn in their game. Dealing with flying monkeys is a test of your foundation.

I use this work to stay grounded. While they’re busy talking, I’m busy doing. While they’re spreading stories, I’m building a reality. You can’t argue with someone committed to misunderstanding you, so I’ve stopped trying. I’m letting the work speak for itself.

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01/07/2026

It is heartbreakingly common for children to align with the narcissistic parent and view the victimized parent as the "problem." This phenomenon is often the result of a deliberate and long-term psychological strategy.
When children are raised in this environment, their reality is curated by the narcissistic parent. Here is why they often get it "backward":

01/07/2026

The Narcissistic Parent Trap
It is heartbreakingly common for children to align with the narcissistic parent and view the victimized parent as the "problem." This phenomenon is often the result of a deliberate and long-term psychological strategy.
When children are raised in this environment, their reality is curated by the narcissistic parent. Here is why they often get it "backward":

It is heartbreakingly common for children to align with the narcissistic parent and view the victimized parent as the "problem." This phenomenon is often the...

01/06/2026

She is evil!

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01/06/2026

She will never be happy!

01/06/2026

She will never be happy!

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01/06/2026

Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.

01/05/2026

You ARE enough!