01/07/2026
Seven years ago, on the 24th and 25th of this month, my life changed forever. I was attacked by someone who was meant to love me, someone I trusted. The result was a subarachnoid haemorrhage, a trauma that didn’t just affect my body but tried to break my spirit too 💔
And for a while, it did. I fell into another abusive relationship, caught in a cycle that made me believe this was just how life would be.
But here’s the thing about me—I rise. 🎉 👏
No matter how many times I was knocked down, I refused to stay there. I built myself back up, piece by piece, with every bit of strength I had. She took away my ability to be a mother, something I will grieve for the rest of my life. But she did not take away my ability to love. I found joy again. I found love again—not just in others, but in myself. I now have a (dull) life that I love. ♥️
I have an incredible niece, who brings me more happiness than I ever thought possible. I have the most wonderful wife, friends and family, who lift me up, stand by me, and remind me of my worth. And I do work I am immensely proud of with the NSPCC, fighting for those who deserve protection, safety, and a voice. 💪
And through it all, despite everything, I never lost my sense of humour. I never lost my optimism. They tried to take my laughter, my light—but they failed. I stand here today, not just as a survivor, but as someone who has thrived. 🤗
These days will always be hard. They will always carry the weight of what happened. But they will also be a reminder: I am still here. I am still strong. And I am still laughing.
And that is something no one can ever take from me. ♥️
I know this is a long post, but if anyone reads this and they think that there isn't an end to the dark abyss, I promise you there is. Life gets better. Don't ever, ever give up. Life is there to be lived, and you will rise again 🙏 🤗
Post Credit: Gemma Hannah Ollosson