Violet Vision

01/04/2025

"When an institution engages in denialism, it engages in practices utilized by perpetrators against victims."
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01/04/2025

This.

10/09/2022

Thank you for this. It is a relief for all of us.

10/09/2022

"It is no secret within the family law world that family courts idealize shared parenting and prioritize it in custody determinations; but the degree to which the shared parenting ideal undermines consideration of family violence has not been widely recognized. Rather, family law, in both theory and practice, treats domestic violence and child abuse as exceptions to the norm and rarely legitimate, despite longstanding empirical evidence suggesting such histories are common in custody cases. This marginalization and denial of family violence in law, theory and practice fuels and reinforces custody courts’ denials of abuse and disfavoring of mothers who report it. This critique has been amply articulated in domestic violence and abuse scholarship and literature but ignored in mainstream family law scholarship. This article argues that domestic violence and child maltreatment (together termed “family violence”) need to be brought in from the margins of family law discourse to change the profession’s systemic denials of the risks many children face from a custody-litigating parent. For the first time we now have empirical evidence that validates the domestic violence field’s critiques. The new study’s objective data put a point on the cognitive dissonance between the domestic violence field’s critiques of family courts and mainstream family law and scholarship."

Meier, Joan S., "Denial of Family Violence in Court: An Empirical Analysis and Path Forward For Family Law" (2021). GW Law Faculty Publications & Other Works. 1536.

https://scholarship.law.gwu.edu/faculty_publications/1536/

10/09/2022

“To be trapped in a cycle of abuse and to be harmed and silenced by a cruel and unfair system causes you to suffer enormously; I know it will push you to breaking point on more than one occasion.”
watson.insight

09/22/2022

“Narcissist’s love to shift the blame for their own mal-adaptive behavior onto their targets.”


'The Narc Decoder’
Understanding the Language of the Narcissist
By Tina Marie Swithin

Link: https://www.onemomsbattle.com/tinas-books

05/28/2022

LGBTQ2QIA 🏳️‍🌈 children need and deserve love and acceptance of them for exactly who they are.

Being an ally 🏳️‍🌈 is a verb.

1. Check out the link below. ✅
2. Like and share. ✅
3. Encourage more adults to learn - and to support the LGBTQ2QIA children in their lives - by loving and accepting them for exactly who they are. ✅

https://familyproject.sfsu.edu/?fbclid=IwAR3WTtHjIjJinq8P3n4e7TiFebGeY3mGvqyMdNG3ijDT_94SHPzbFqmakFY&fs=e&s=cl

The Family Acceptance Project® is a research, intervention, education and policy initiative to prevent health and mental health risks and to promote well-being for le***an, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer-identified (LGBTQ) children and youth, including su***de, homelessness, drug use and HIV ...

04/03/2022

Abusers are in control of their actions.
They abuse their families, not their bosses. 🚩

04/01/2022

Thanks to One Moms Battle:
“Moms don’t let moms say, “Alienation.”

And the APSAC agrees.”

03/26/2022

”You are no longer a pawn in the mind games of a psychopath. You are free.”

- Jackson MacKenzie, Psychopath Free, (Expanded Edition)

Thanks to Jackson MacKenzie at PsychopathFree for sharing their writing with the world.