11/03/2025
I remember a guy who was asking me out and one day, he came to pick me from church so we can have lunch and the first thing he told me was ''sey you know that if we marry, all these your wigs, shakara dresses and high heels, you will not wear them again? I was like, excuse you? But the first dat you saw me, I was wearing a dress, wig and heels and you said "you liked the way i looked"
He said, yes but when you get married, you no longer need to dress that way, and you have to dress the way I your husband wants..I asked someone what happened to what I want regarding my body and he said "a married woman should only think about her husband" i said I see!
I asked him, why don't you just go for women who don't wear makeup, wigs, nice dresses and heels at least they would make your life easier..oga said no na, they are not his spec!
I asked him to take me to my house to drop somethings and wear slippers so I can feel comfortable. He kept talking and telling me why his wife would never be seen with makeup and the rest. As soon as I got from the car, I told him to move forward to the next woman cos I can never be his wife and blocked him.
Some men feel that a woman should stop existing just because she married him..
Anyways some women will still glady jump into it just to be callled *Mrs*
