Ejike Lilian

Ejike Lilian If you care about motherhood, family, relationships, and personal growth, you are in the right place. I also share lifestyle content and business updates.
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Here, we have honest conversations and meaningful Q&A sessions about real-life experiences.

04/28/2026

You can’t change people… you can only control how you respond.

Just something to think about.

04/27/2026

Every woman wants a husband who helps with home chores and other household responsibilities. So ladies, what kind of chores would you love your husband to assist you with? Husbands, feel free to share your thoughts too.

While growing up, we had this woman in our compound.She was very bïg in size, very, very biīg… the kind of person you wi...
04/27/2026

While growing up, we had this woman in our compound.

She was very bïg in size, very, very biīg… the kind of person you will just notice immediately. She didn’t have any child, it was just her and her husband.

She had a provision shop—one of those busy ones where you’ll stand from morning till night attending to customers, collecting money, bringing out goods. No rest at all.

Her husband, on the other hand, used to go to farm work. He would leave very early in the morning, and come back early too.

But this woman?

She hardly came back before 12 midnight.

And what used to amaze me was what she would do immediately when she comes back.

She would go straight to the kitchen.

If there was no soup, she would start cooking soup Then after that, she would start pounding fufu.

Yes… pounding fufu around midnight.

Every single night.

They were staying upstairs then, so the noise was disturbing the people downstairs. The complaints became too much, and the landlord got angry and gave them quit notice.

That was when the woman started begging.

She said, “Please sir, my husband cannot do without fufu. If he doesn’t eat it, it’s like he has not eaten. His work is too stressful.”

The landlord later adjusted small. He moved them downstairs and gave her one small kitchen outside to be using.

From that day, the routine continued.

She would still come back around 12.

Still cook.

Still pound fufu.

Every night.

No matter how tired she was.

We all got used to it.

Then years later, she started having health issues. The stress, the late nights… it was too much for her body.

Before we knew it, she dïed.

Not long after, the husband married another woman.

The new wife took over the shop. She also works, but she doesn’t come back as late as the first woman. And one thing we all noticed

No more midnight pounding.

No more daily fufu.

Everything just became quiet.

And that’s where my confusion started…

Isn’t this the same man that they said cannot do without fufu?

Why is he not eating fufu every night again?

Why is the new wife not pounding like before?

Does it mean he can now suddenly do without fufu?

Abi the first wife was over doing things or maybe she too can't do without fufü??

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04/27/2026

Good morning 🌞

Quick question: Is it okay for a family member to go directly to your husband to ask for money without informing you?And...
04/26/2026

Quick question: Is it okay for a family member to go directly to your husband to ask for money without informing you?
And if it happens, what does it mean—lack of respect, or the assumption that you may not approve?

If you were with a man from your university days…You both started from nothing. No money, no connections—just love, drea...
04/26/2026

If you were with a man from your university days…

You both started from nothing. No money, no connections—just love, dreams, and pure struggle. You built yourselves up together. Encouraged each other. Stood by each other when things were hard.

Then life started getting better.

He got a job before you did. You were happy for him. Proud of him. Because in your mind, his win was your win.

Then one day, he comes to you with news—he got another woman pregnant.

He says it was a mistake.

You cry, you break, but because of everything you’ve been through together… you forgive him.

Life moves on.

Then tragedy strikes.

The other woman dies during childbirth, leaving behind a baby.

Now he comes back to you—not just for love—but asking you to marry him and help raise the child.

To step into a life you didn’t plan.
To carry a responsibility that came from his “mistake.”

So tell me…

If you were this woman, would you marry him?

04/25/2026

That feeling when mum promised to get chocolate for everyone

How do you apply oil on your baby's hair ?? I practice both and you?
04/25/2026

How do you apply oil on your baby's hair ?? I practice both and you?

04/25/2026

Good morning 🌞 let's start the day with a positive energy

04/24/2026

What has the Enemy stolen from you is time to take it back

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