Pastor On A Park Bench - Rev P.D. Yetman,

Pastor On A Park Bench - Rev P.D. Yetman, Hi, I’m Rev. P.D. Yetman, pastor, counsellor, writer, and full-time human navigating faith, emotions, and the holy chaos of real life. - Pull up a seat.

There’s grace here, and maybe a little caffeine too. Go with God… and always stay spicy. Hi friend, I’m Rev. P, a Canadian pastor, counsellor, and creator of SOAR Chat™, where faith meets real life. After a lifetime of learning from an atheist to an ordained, from humanitarian work to trauma-informed ministry I’ve discovered how faith and psychology can work together to bring peace and purpose to

neurospicy, overthinking, faith-curious souls. Here you’ll find short devotionals, honest reflections, and practical encouragement — because healing doesn’t have to be perfect to be holy. Pull up a bench, grab a coffee, and subscribe for weekly encouragement.

☕ Go with God and always stay spicy. Rev P, your pastor, on a park bench.

Stuck on the Dam, Blessed by the ViewReflection by Rev P.Last night, on my way home, I found myself caught in one of the...
11/07/2025

Stuck on the Dam, Blessed by the View
Reflection by Rev P.

Last night, on my way home, I found myself caught in one of the longest traffic lineups I’ve ever seen crossing the Mactaquac Dam. If you’ve ever driven that stretch, you know the drill, one narrow lane, a light that takes its sweet time, and cars stretching as far as the eye can see. It’s been that way for a couple of years now, and most nights I’d be tempted to grumble or fiddle with the radio while watching the clock.

But not last night.

As I sat there waiting, I happened to glance toward the horizon and there it was. The moon. Round, golden-orange, and climbing slowly above the treetops like a lantern being lifted by unseen hands. It wasn’t just any moon either, it was the Beaver Moon, November’s full moon. Tradition says it’s the time when beavers ready their dams and lodges for winter, storing what they need before the freeze sets in.

And there I was, sitting on our dam, watching that great glowing sphere rise into the night sky. How fitting. Creation has a way of speaking truth right into our ordinary moments if we’re still enough to listen.

By the time the light turned green, I didn’t mind the wait anymore. I watched the moon all the way home, its soft glow keeping me company on the winding road. Later that night, I stepped out onto my deck and looked again, unable to resist one more look. It was brilliant and steady, as if God had painted the sky just to remind me that delays aren’t always detours, sometimes they’re invitations.

And this morning, that invitation continued. When I woke and looked out from the other side of my house, the Beaver Moon was still hanging in the western sky, pale and glowing, even as the sun began to rise in the east. I could see both, the moon slowly setting, the sun climbing higher, and it took my breath away. Night and day, meeting in one shared moment of beauty. The rhythm of creation, perfectly balanced.

Sometimes God shows up in traffic. Sometimes He speaks through sky and shadow, through long lines and quiet mornings. And sometimes, if we’re paying attention, we find that what feels like a delay is really a reminder that His timing is always art, never accident.

“The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands.” — Psalm 19:1

A SOAR™ Moment

Stop and Sit:
Take a breath. Be still for a moment and notice what’s around you right now.

Observe the Pattern:
In creation, endings and beginnings often overlap; the moon sets as the sun rises. Where in your life might God be doing the same?

Affirm the Deep Truth:
Even when light changes, God remains constant. His beauty holds both the dusk and the dawn.

Reflect and Respond:
When was the last time you saw something ordinary, like the moon or sunrise, and let it speak to you about grace, patience, or hope?

Go with God, and always stay spicy.
Rev. Peggy Your Pastor on a Park Bench.

SOAR™ is a registered trademark of Peggy Yetman, MA.

If this reflection found its way to your heart, give it a like, share a thought in the comments, and pass it along, because someone else might need a little light on their path today.

Who needs this reminder today? ❤️❤️
11/05/2025

Who needs this reminder today? ❤️❤️

Good advice for this rainy day!!
11/04/2025

Good advice for this rainy day!!

Meet Rev. P -  From Atheist to Pastor | From Surviving to SOARing Sometimes the path to peace looks nothing like a strai...
11/04/2025

Meet Rev. P - From Atheist to Pastor | From Surviving to SOARing

Sometimes the path to peace looks nothing like a straight line.

Hi friend, I’m Rev. Peggy Yetman, your Pastor on a Park Bench.
I didn’t grow up imagining I’d ever wear that title.

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In fact, for a long time, I didn’t believe at all. Faith wasn’t something I trusted; people weren’t, either. But life has a way of reshaping us.

In my 40s, as a single mom raising a beautiful daughter with ADHD (while undiagnosed myself and probably AuDHD), I went back to university. Not once, but three more times.

🎓 A degree in Social Justice taught me how systems shape our souls.
🎓 A degree in Pastoral ministry with a minor in Counselling helped me learn to listen differently.
🎓 And a Master’s in Pastoral Theology helped me weave faith and psychology together in ways that heal, not harm.

Those added to the education I already had:
🎓 A two-year Recreation Management diploma from the College of the North Atlantic in Newfoundland.
🎓 Plus two more from Eastern College in Dartmouth, one in Accounting and one in Computer Applications.

You might say I’ve made a lifelong career out of curiosity.
If I don’t know it, I’m going to figure it out.
My motto has always been: “How hard can it be?”
(And yes, that’s the ADHD talking!)

Before entering ministry, I worked in Recreation Management and Aquatics, and also volunteered with the Red Cross on humanitarian efforts. I was a military spouse, lived through deployments, trauma, and divorce, and somehow, through all of it, found my way back to faith.

Somewhere in that story, God found me again, or maybe I finally stopped running long enough to notice He’d never left.

Now, I’m the creator of SOAR Chat™, a gentle framework developed over years of faith, psychology, and personal experience. It’s designed for neurospicy, overthinking, tender-hearted souls who long to find peace and purpose again, and it’s the heart of my upcoming book, arriving soon in print and eBook.

People often say, “hurt people hurt people.”
But I’ve learned this:
💛 Hurt people love to help people, too.
That’s me. That’s my calling.

I was born to a teenage mom and adopted by her older sister, something quite normal in Newfoundland families, where love often looks like stepping in. I grew up surrounded by strong women, kitchen tables full of stories, and the kind of humour that helps you survive just about anything.

Like most Newfoundlanders, I’ve carried that mix of resilience, compassion, and laughter wherever I’ve gone. It shows up in every sermon, every book, and every cup of coffee shared on my bench.

If any of that sounds like your story, too, pull up a seat.
You’re welcome here. ☕

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🪑 Go with God and always stay spicy,
Rev. P Your pastor on a park bench.

PS: I would love to hear from you and learn more about your story. leave a comment, a heart, or a like, and check out the content on YouTube.

How AI Helped Me Find My Voice (Without Losing My Soul)Pull up a bench and lets have an honest conversation about AI sha...
11/03/2025

How AI Helped Me Find My Voice (Without Losing My Soul)

Pull up a bench and lets have an honest conversation about AI shall we?

A friend asked me last night if I use AI to help with my videos. It wasn’t meant as a criticism, just an honest question, but that question made me pause. Someone had commented on one of my posts that it sounded like it was AI-generated.

And in a sense, they’re right. As one of my professors would often say in Symantic theology - "It's both and". LOL

But maybe not in the way people think.

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Here’s what really happens.

I start with an idea something I’ve lived, prayed through, or researched until it refuses to leave me alone. I write it out by hand, fill it in, trim it back, and edit it like writers have done for generations. Then I run it through Grammarly, which quietly saves me from a hundred typos that ADHD eyes tend to miss. If I’m unsure about phrasing, I’ll sometimes paste it into a chat to ask, “Does this sound clear?” Then I pull it back, reshape it, and make it mine again.

When I’m ready to record, I move into Descript and Canva.

Descript lets me train my own voice yes, it’s really me so I can narrate without the wave of self-consciousness that often hits when I hear myself back. (If you’ve ever winced listening to your own voicemail, you’ll understand.)
Through punctuation and phrasing, I can guide the emotion a question mark lifts the tone, an ellipsis slows the pace, an exclamation mark adds warmth. And yes, I sometimes have to “teach” it how to say Newfoundland. (If you know, you know.)

🎙️ Why I Once Used a Male Voice and Why I Stopped
At one point, I even experimented with making the voice sound slightly male. During my summer sermon series, When God Calls Your Name, I was writing each sermon from a first-person perspective characters like Moses, Hagar, Paul, etc.. and I thought adjusting the tone might help the storytelling.
But someone I deeply respect offered gentle, loving feedback:
“Peggy, your voice your real voice adds something the AI can’t.”
And they were right.
So now, I stick with my authentic voice trained through Descript, yes, but still fully mine. Imperfect. Human. Warm. And real.

🧠 AI as Accessibility Not Artificiality

I live with ADHD and something called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). That means every piece I create has to climb over a mountain of self-doubt before it ever leaves my desk. For years, that mountain silenced me.

AI hasn’t replaced me. It’s released me.

It’s like a digital white cane a tool that removes barriers without erasing the person. My ADHD and RSD don’t disappear, but these programs help me move freely through creative spaces that once felt inaccessible.

I once saw a story on the news about a young woman who was non-verbal for most of her life. When she was finally given access to an iPad-based communication program, she found her voice, not a robotic one, but her own. Through technology, she could express thoughts, feelings, and humour that had been trapped inside for years. It didn’t make her less human; it revealed her humanity more fully.
That story stayed with me. Because that’s exactly how I feel when I use these tools.

Free. Empowered. Finally able to express what’s been inside for years.

🐾 And Yes Sometimes the Cat Has Five Legs

Not everything comes out perfect. Sometimes Canva gives my cat five legs. Sometimes the AI pronounces a word so strangely that even my GPS would be embarrassed. I fix what I can, laugh at the rest, and keep going.
Because perfection isn’t the goal.

Connection is.

I always tell people if you see something that feels off, be like the Bereans in Scripture. Look it up. Let me know. Maybe I got a reference wrong, or maybe it’s just a you problem. (Kidding… mostly!) Either way, conversation keeps us honest and growing.

Tools Grow Up, So Must We

AI is still growing up, and like every new technology before it from the printing press to the radio to Facebook it brings both excitement and anxiety. There will be debates. There will be bad uses of it. There will also be breakthroughs that change lives for good.

Our task isn’t to run from it. It’s to discern it. To use what’s in our hands wisely.

For me, these tools don’t change my voice they amplify it.
They give me courage to speak where fear once held me back.
And they allow me to tell stories of faith, resilience, and grace in a way that bridges old traditions with new tools.

So yes, I use AI. But more than that, I use it as a mirror one that helps me see my own voice more clearly.


🪑 Final Thoughts from the Bench

Every creative person I know has something that’s held them back, perfectionism, fear, comparison. For me, it was a mix of all three.

AI didn’t erase that mountain. But it gave me a way through it. So pull up a bench.
Ask your questions. Laugh with me at the five-legged cat.
And let’s keep learning together, one authentic voice at a time.

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Go with God, and always stay Spicy.
— Reverend Peggy Yetman, your Pastor on a Park Bench












Hello, friend.Pull up a bench and take a breath with me.This reflection comes straight from the heart, part theology, part counselling, and part real-life st...

Someone asked me this morning who wrote the books in this picture.Well… you’re looking at her. ✍️Some were written years...
11/02/2025

Someone asked me this morning who wrote the books in this picture.
Well… you’re looking at her. ✍️

Some were written years ago, some more recently, but everything changed when I discovered I was born with ADHD. It was like a light switch flipped on. Suddenly, I understood why I’d been holding back, why I struggled to let my voice be heard, and why fear of rejection had such a grip on me.

Learning about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria explained so much. I realized how often I’d second-guessed myself or stayed quiet when I should’ve spoken. That understanding set me free, and I decided I wouldn’t let fear stop me anymore.

Now I’m working with Tellwell Publishing to bring my first professionally published book to life.

Currently, these books are only available directly from me; however, with Tellwell’s help, my goal is to make them available worldwide. They’re for anyone who’s ever struggled to believe their story matters.

You can help:

🌿 Share my posts or YouTube videos from Pastor on a Park Bench
🌿 Tell your friends what’s coming
🌿 Watch for updates and presales. I’ll keep you posted!

Every bit of encouragement helps more than you know. 💛
Here’s to courage, fresh starts, and finally letting our voices be heard.

Oh, and before you go, check out my YouTube channel, Pastor on a Park Bench, where the words come to life. ☕️🪑

YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTyHiwbtM46tTdpChormRTw

Go with God and always stay spicy.
PS: SOAR™ is a registered trademark of Rev. P.D. Yetman as of May 2025.

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