Pastor On A Park Bench - Rev P.D. Yetman,

Pastor On A Park Bench - Rev P.D. Yetman, Hi, I’m Rev. P.D. Yetman, pastor, counsellor, writer, and full-time human navigating faith, emotions, and the holy chaos of real life. - Pull up a seat. I’m Rev.

There’s grace here, and maybe a little caffeine too. Go with God… and always stay spicy. Yetman, also known as “Pastor on a Park Bench.” My heart is to create gentle spaces where people can pause, breathe, and remember they are not alone. Whether through short videos, writing, or conversations, I bring honesty, kindness, and a touch of Newfoundland charm to the journey of faith and life.

Hey Friends!I’m working toward a milestone on my YouTube channel, 500 subscribers. Reaching this would open the door for...
09/08/2025

Hey Friends!

I’m working toward a milestone on my YouTube channel, 500 subscribers. Reaching this would open the door for me to earn a little extra income from my writings and videos, which helps me keep creating and sharing encouragement week by week.
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Go with God and Always stay Spicy
— Rev. P, Pastor on a Park Bench

Welcome to the official YouTube channel of Rev. Peggy Yetman, MA. Since answering God’s call in 2006, I’ve been committed to nurturing faith and uplifting communities through God's Word. With a background in counselling and specialized training from Kingswood University, I strive to encourage pe...

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09/07/2025

Today’s sermon. Feel free to like and share!

Prayer; Beyond Words | When You Pray, Move Your Feet (Week 1)Prayer is powerful, but it’s not meant to stay locked in our words. In this first message of our...

I'm at it again - Here is a newly created promotional video for the upcoming sermon series, 'Beyond Word - Let Prayers M...
09/06/2025

I'm at it again - Here is a newly created promotional video for the upcoming sermon series, 'Beyond Word - Let Prayers Move Your Feet,' starting tomorrow. Enjoy.

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Canada: A Land of Many Faiths, One Call to LoveBy Rev. P – Pastor on a Park BenchWhen we think about Canada, it’s tempti...
09/06/2025

Canada: A Land of Many Faiths, One Call to Love
By Rev. P – Pastor on a Park Bench

When we think about Canada, it’s tempting to imagine that we are, or at least once were, a “Christian nation.” Some people still talk that way. And it’s true: if you look back a few decades, the majority of Canadians would have identified as Christian. Churches dotted every town, and many of our laws reflected a Judeo-Christian moral framework.

But let’s not forget something important. Long before Christianity ever arrived here, Indigenous peoples lived on this land. They carried their own spiritual traditions, deep, wise, and rooted in creation. Then came settlers from Europe who brought with them Catholic and Protestant faiths. Over time, more communities arrived: Jewish, Sikh, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Baha’i, and so many more. Today, Canada is one of the most multicultural and multi-faith nations in the world.

And here’s the gift: in Canada, you are free to believe, or not believe, whatever you want.

A Brief Look Back at Canada’s Story

Our history reminds us that this freedom didn’t just happen by accident.
Indigenous peoples: For thousands of years before European arrival, the First Nations, Inuit, and Métis lived with their own spiritual traditions tied to land and community.

Colonial beginnings: When the French and British established colonies, they brought Catholic and Protestant Christianity, and for a long time those two streams dominated public life.

Confederation (1867): Canada was not founded as a “Christian state.” It was built as a political federation under British rule, with no official state religion.

The Charter of Rights and Freedoms (1982): This enshrined freedom of conscience and religion, guaranteeing that all Canadians, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, atheist, or otherwise—are equal under the law.

Multiculturalism Policy (1971, Pierre Trudeau): Canada became the first country in the world to adopt multiculturalism as an official policy, affirming that cultural and religious diversity is not just tolerated but celebrated as part of our national identity.

A Flying Spaghetti Monster?

Just this past weekend, I was introduced to something called Pastafarianism, the belief in the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Do I think that’s a little strange? Sure. But let’s be honest, lots of people think my belief in a Triune God is strange!

Am I going to try to talk them out of it? No. Because in Canada, I don’t have to. I am free to carry my Bible, to preach about Jesus, to pray in my home, and to worship with my community. And they are free to wear a colander on their head if they choose. That’s the beauty of religious freedom, it goes both ways.

Loving Our Neighbours

As a Christian, my faith teaches me something that never changes: “Love your neighbour as yourself” (Mark 12:31). That means my love doesn’t stop at the church door. It extends to my Muslim neighbour, my atheist friend, my Indigenous brothers and sisters, and yes, even the Pastafarians.

God came for all humanity, not just for the ones who look, think, or pray like me.

What About Public Prayer?

On Sunday, someone asked me what I think about Quebec’s law against prayer in public meetings. I didn’t answer fully at the time, but I want to now, because I believe this is important.

I know this may ruffle some feathers, but here’s how I see it: I live in Canada, a multicultural nation where Christianity is not the faith of the first peoples, and where Christianity was too often used as a tool of oppression, power, and control. That is not the Bible I have come to understand after years of study and three degrees in this area. There are scholars with far more credentials than me, but this is where my own experience and faith journey have led me.

And as I have said many times before in person: I am so deeply sorry for what has been done in the name of Christ to oppress people, especially here in Canada, with the horrendous treatment of Indigenous peoples through the residential schools and the generational trauma that continues today. People using faith to manipulate, torture, or control others is never right, not in any faith, not in any country. When it happens, it is wrong. Period. The end.

The prophet Micah says it this way: “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God” (Micah 6:8).

We need to learn to co-exist. Co-existence is not about power or control. It is not about saying one belief is superior to another. Each person who holds to a faith believes it is right for them. I don’t want anyone to take away my right to believe, so why should I want to take that right away from someone else?

That’s why in 2015, the Supreme Court of Canada ruled in Mouvement laïque québécois v. Saguenay that municipalities cannot begin meetings with prayer. The government must remain neutral in matters of religion, ensuring that people of all faiths, or no faith, feel equally welcome in civic spaces.

At first, that might feel like we are “losing something.” But think about it another way: if you were at a public event and the microphone was handed to a minister from a faith you didn’t share, Muslim, Christian, Indigenous elder, or even a Pastafarian priest, how would you feel?

Would you feel included? Or left out?

That’s the heart of the matter. Canada is not a monotheistic country. We don’t have one official religion. And maybe that’s a good thing. Because faith is personal. And when prayer is personal, it becomes a gift, not a tool of power.

A Better Witness

Here’s the truth: when Christians demand public prayers at government events or schools, we might think we’re being faithful. But sometimes what others hear is: “Your faith doesn’t count. Only mine does.” That’s not love. That’s not Jesus.
The better witness is this: to live our faith so fully, so kindly, and so generously that others see Christ in us, even if we never get the microphone.

Canada’s Story, Canada’s Future

Canada was not founded as a Christian nation, and it isn’t one today. It is a nation of many peoples and many faiths, woven together by a fragile but beautiful commitment to freedom.

And as for me? I’m grateful. Grateful to live in a place where I can open my Bible on a park bench, where my neighbour can roll out their prayer mat, and where even the Flying Spaghetti Monster gets a seat at the table.

Because at the end of the day, my calling isn’t to win arguments or demand the spotlight. My calling is to love.

Jesus said: “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35).

Go with God and always stay spicy. 🌶️
— Rev. P, Pastor on a Park Bench

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The little church I pastor!

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Comfort in a NameBy Rev. P – Pastor on a Park BenchMake no wonder Newfoundlanders are so happy. We’ve been raised in pla...
09/03/2025

Comfort in a Name

By Rev. P – Pastor on a Park Bench

Make no wonder Newfoundlanders are so happy. We’ve been raised in places where the very names themselves feel like lullabies. Names that roll off your tongue like waves against a rocky cove. Names that tell you right away: this is a place where people have laughed, cried, prayed, and carried on.

Think of it: Tickle Cove, Little Heart’s Ease, Cupids, Paradise, Leading Tickles, Come By Chance, Heart’s Delight, Heart’s Content, and Heart’s Desire.

Say them out loud and you’ll notice something. They’re not just geography. They’re comfort food for the soul. They carry stories, whispers of our ancestors, and the humour of a people who knew how to make the best out of the hardest places.

For me, when I hear these names, I feel rooted. I feel at home even if I’m miles away. They remind me that joy can be found in the simplest things, even in the naming of a little harbour or village.

We live in a world that often feels sharp and hurried. But here’s the thing: names like these invite us to slow down. To remember where we came from. To laugh at the oddities. To rest in the comfort of knowing that someone, long before us, stood on that same patch of land and thought, This place needs a name of delight.

So today, I invite you to think of the place names in your own story, whether they’re in Newfoundland or elsewhere, that bring you peace. The names that feel like home.

Because sometimes, all it takes is remembering where we’re rooted to remember who we are.

You can take the girl out of Newfoundland, but you can’t take the Newfoundland out of the girl.

Go with God..,and always stay spicy. 🌶️

👉 Drop the name of a town that brings you happiness, I’d love to hear it.

What If I’m Wrong?When my daughter was young, I can’t count how many times I reacted too quickly.I’d scold her, maybe ev...
09/02/2025

What If I’m Wrong?

When my daughter was young, I can’t count how many times I reacted too quickly.
I’d scold her, maybe even punish her, because I thought I knew the whole story. Later, I’d find out more, and realize, with a lump in my throat, I was wrong.

I learned to tell her, “I’m sorry. When i know better I can do better.”

That phrase still echoes in my life. Because so often, our beliefs, opinions, and judgments are built on partial stories. And partial stories can lead us to misbeliefs.



Our Beliefs Aren’t Always the Whole Story

What if my belief about someone is missing a key piece of their history?
What if my opinion about an issue is shaped only by the voices I already agree with?
What if I’m holding tight to an assumption because it feels safer than facing the discomfort of being wrong?

Beliefs are powerful. They guide how we live, how we treat people, how we see ourselves. But they’re also fragile because they’re built on the information we have at the time. And sometimes, that information is incomplete.



Why We Hold Misbeliefs

We don’t cling to wrong ideas because we’re foolish. Often, it’s because:
• We only know part of the story. We see one side, one moment, one version, and we assume that’s enough.
• We inherited it. From parents, teachers, churches, cultures. We absorbed beliefs before we ever had a chance to question them.
• We want certainty. Sometimes we’d rather hold onto a shaky answer than face the unknown.
• We protect ourselves. Believing something, even if it’s not true, can shield us from pain, responsibility, or change.

And so, misbeliefs can feel comfortable, even righteous. Until the moment we discover they’re not.



The Courage to Ask

So here’s the uncomfortable invitation: What if I’m wrong?

What if the way I see this person isn’t the way God sees them?
What if my conviction about this issue isn’t the whole picture?
What if the story I’ve told myself about my own worth isn’t true at all?

Asking those questions doesn’t make us weak. It makes us honest. And honesty is the doorway to growth.



A Mirror for the Soul

Holding up that mirror takes courage. We may not like what we see at first. But when we’re brave enough to say, “Maybe I’ve been wrong,” we open ourselves to something better: wisdom, compassion, and truth that runs deeper than our assumptions.

Scripture reminds us:

“For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.”
— 1 Corinthians 13:12

One day, we’ll see the full story. Until then, humility keeps us teachable.



❤️ Drop a heart and add a comment: What’s one thing you once held as fact only to learn later it wasn’t true?

Go with God and always stay spicy. 🌶️
— Rev. P
Reflection from Pastor on a Park Bench

What happens when desperation meets persistence, and borders can’t hold back faith?In this week’s sermon from our When G...
09/02/2025

What happens when desperation meets persistence, and borders can’t hold back faith?

In this week’s sermon from our When God Calls Your Name series, we look at the Syrophoenician woman, a mother who refused to take no for an answer. Her story demonstrates that God’s grace is not confined by culture, religion, or walls.

👉 In this message, you’ll discover:
Why Jesus praised her bold persistence
How faith can cross barriers of nationality, class, and exclusion
What does it mean for the church today to live like Christ outside the walls of the church?

📖 Scripture: Mark 7:24–30 | Matthew 15:21–28
If Jesus were here today, He wouldn’t stay inside the church walls. The church exists to encourage and equip us, so we can go out and live like Christ in a divided world.

✨ Don’t miss this powerful reminder: even crumbs of God’s grace are more than enough.
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Today’s 2 minute Bench Break: When Conversations Turn Toxic

Not every conversation deserves your energy. When words shift from sharing to accusation, the wisest thing you can do is stop fueling the fire. Scripture reminds us, “Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down.” (Proverbs 26:20) Protecting your peace isn’t weakness; it’s sacred. Sometimes the most courageous response is silence, stepping back, and choosing not to add another stick to the fire.

🪑 Pause. Breathe. Remember: you are safe to step back.
— Rev. P | Pastor on a Park Bench

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