Dear Tober

09/10/2026

Hey everyone!

Today is an important day, not only because the NEW EPISODE IS OUT AT 1:09PM today, but also because its Kas's birthday!

Normally its her on here making all these posts while I sit behind the screen writing outlines and playing with clipchamp; but today, before she wakes up. I just wanted to share that on this magical day Kasandra turns 30!

Happy birthday Kas!

Also check out the new episode!
Http://www.linktr.ee/DearTober

- Sara

09/04/2026

After Andelyn - Peregnancy and Infant Loss Collection 2026 🩷🩵

We thought we would share that the PAIL Awareness Collection will be available for order soon. There are several colour options in a crewneck or tshirt.

Tober's name will be included this year 🦊🧡

09/04/2026

Hello everyone! 🦊🧡

I hope you've all enjoyed your week 😊
We're slowly getting back into things after being away for a few months.

I've taken a couple days off posting as today is a loss date for me.
Not only am I a loss mom of a full term stillborn, but I've experienced four other losses as well.
I think this is considered a taboo topic, but I have named all of my losses, even when I didn't know the gender.
Today I am thinking of Amberlee.

09/01/2026

09/01/2026

Hello everyone! 🦊🧡

This is the 'something exciting' we've been posting about 🤗

Kas here - last year, after many poems and letters to Tober from me, my mom, and my two best friends, I had the idea of putting together the Dear Tober book for Tober's second anniversary.
Being a two time, self published author, I knew this was possible, it would just take time. Now here we are!

My closest friends and family have been voting on their favorite versions of each cover I've come up with. Please see our stories to vote on the cover you like best! 🦊

09/01/2026

No submission today - but don't forget we take submissions to our email ([email protected]) and to our DM's 🦊🧡

08/31/2026

Stay tuned for a special announcement tonight! 🦊🧡