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Onesikhmom Sukhi is a community organizer, college science teacher, content creator, and bookworm.

20/08/2025

Many older parents want to tell us what to expect with our children during certain seasons of life, but no two kids are the same, which means we don’t parent them the same way.

For instance, my kids never went through the terrible twos or threes or had a tantrum in public, but I kept expecting it to happen 🤷🏽‍♀️

Children also have their own personalities that direct and influence our parenting styles, so I’m not the same parent for each of my children.

With parenting, there’s a new learning curve in every unknown season of life.

Even though others will give you advice on what to expect, many of us won’t actually experience it. This is because there are so many factors involved:
• You’re a different parent than them
• You have different parenting styles
• You have different communities of support
• Your children’s birth orders are different
• Your life experiences that guide your parenting are different from others.
…and so so much more.

Just remember, there are many ways to raise kids- not just one. So if anyone gives you advice or a warning about what’s to come, remember that you may not go through it.

You’re doing amazing💙

🎼: 💜

Parenting Siblings Kids Parents

On our recent trip to England, we took a few “ceiling” photos, as I love looking up to see details that many people miss...
19/08/2025

On our recent trip to England, we took a few “ceiling” photos, as I love looking up to see details that many people miss.

Let’s play a game:
Can you guess where we are based on the photos?
They’re each numbered. I’ll post the answers later on tonight… let’s see how many you get correct!

England Vacation Trip Family Photos British Museums Tour Guide Explore

18/08/2025

Raising boys in a world that continues to tell them to “man up,” or stop crying will only lead to inauthentic & deeply pained grown men.

Parents need to allow young boys to cry & express their emotions, teaching them early on to share their feelings. Crying helps lower cortisol levels and calms the nervous system. Shutting down the emotions wires brains to store stress, not release it. When boys experience a range of emotions as a child, it teaches them how to process the emotions and not suppress them, helping our boys become emotionally mature adults.

No one said parenting was easy. I’m just trying to raise more open-minded, nurturing, and compassionate kids.

What would you add to this list?

Boy moms Sons Kids Moms Parents

16/08/2025

Ok… please tell me that I’m not the only one to receive a ‘compliment’ like these. They seem a little backhanded, don’t they?🤔

That’s because each of these compliments is actually followed by a conditional statement.

“You’re pretty for a brown girl.” Does that mean brown girls are ugly?

Also… if I didn’t have 2 kids, I’d look… horrible?

When conditions are put in, the actual compliment has been minimized.

Compliments actually make us feel good! They light up our brain in the reward center, releasing a whole bunch of good feelings… not only for the recipient of that praise, but for the giver as well😉

I know that not all compliments are meant to be backhanded. But we can learn to compliment others genuinely, with no conditions attached.

Also, consider praising someone other than their beauty sometimes☺️

Ladies, what’s the worst back handed compliment you’ve ever received?

Compliments Brown Girls Moms Desi

There are so many things that I’ve learned and reflected on in my 40s, I could probably do a part 2!I’m curious, what ha...
11/08/2025

There are so many things that I’ve learned and reflected on in my 40s, I could probably do a part 2!

I’m curious, what have you learned now that you wish you knew in your 20s?

Life Lessons Wisdom Aging Mature

I love this quote by Jefferson  Fisher. Bridges bring people together & resolve issues by being mediators, while a light...
09/08/2025

I love this quote by Jefferson Fisher. Bridges bring people together & resolve issues by being mediators, while a lighthouse inspires others, and offers hope & guidance from afar.

✨Are you a bridge or a lighthouse…or both?

Inspiration Quote Explore

When I try a new product, I don’t try anything else until that bottle’s done. That’s how I know it works & if I like it....
08/08/2025

When I try a new product, I don’t try anything else until that bottle’s done. That’s how I know it works & if I like it.

So here are some of my favourite skincare products, the ones I keep returning to. I’ve repurchased each item multiple times now. If you’re wondering about my fav BHA, glycolic acid, hyaluronic acid or vitamin C…I’ve used multiple products that I like…so I don’t really have a “favourite.”

Find these products in my LTK or a local shop near you☺️

Skincare | Aging | Sunscreen

📸July photo dump!What a month. We started off attending a family wedding and then flew to London England for the kids’ f...
05/08/2025

📸July photo dump!

What a month. We started off attending a family wedding and then flew to London England for the kids’ first trip in Europe. Our family had a “Welcome Home” party waiting for us after our very first excursion.

Once we returned, we immediately had another family wedding to attend. Which is why we just finished putting away the vacation things & wedding clothes.

For the past week, I’ve felt so exhausted. Maybe it was the jet lag or perhaps too much excitement over the month. Maybe it was feeling overstimulated for so long, something I’m not used to. But things are getting back to normal for August!

Vacation | July | Photo Dump | Family | Wedding | Punjabi

04/08/2025

On our final full day, we checked out the British Museum. Give yourself half a day to get through everything.

Tip: book your free ticket online. The museum has 2 separate entrances, one for ticket holders & one for non-ticket holders. Book your free online tickets at BritishMuseum.org and you can even see many of the items I’ve mentioned on their website!

I hope you’ve enjoyed Our Great England Adventure! Check out all the videos in my highlight “England” and be sure to send to a friend or save for the future.

✨Have you been here before? What was your favourite part?

🏷️ England Museum British Tour Guide Explore Learn Trip Vacation

02/08/2025

Here’s what you’ll find at the Legoland park in Windsor, UK:
• Various Lego worlds
• Many rides and attractions
• Lots of restaurants that detail the 14 major allergens on their menu. We were told the park is nut-free.
• Epi-pens located around the park
• A Sensory Space in Heartlake City for anyone who requires a quiet moment.
• Shows & movies in the Lego Bricktopia world theatre
• Lego Stores located around the park
• and 4 specially themed minigolf courses (separate fee)

There are 10 Legoland parks around the world. Have you visited one yet? What was your favourite part?

Lego | Legoland | Tourist | Vacation | Children | Family

02/08/2025

London Vlog #5

Places to visit:
-the Big Ben
-the Palace of Westminster
-Westminister Abbey
-the London Dungeon ($)
-Florence Nightingale Museum (in St. Thomas’ Hospital, $)
-Twinings Tea Shop
-Cleopatra’s Obelisk/Needle

Have you visited any of these sites? Let us know!

✨Find all of our London videos in my highlight ENGLAND

London Explore Vacation Family

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