Selami

08/02/2025

🥹💗

"Take care of your partner who came from a broken family."

Because behind their strength is a heart that has endured the ache of waiting for someone who never showed up, the silence of unspoken goodbyes and the burden of pretending they're okay when they grew up craving the kind of love they never fully received.

The absence of their parents taught them independence too early and love with walls high. They may flinch at loud arguments or fear abandonment even in small things and overthink your silence...
that's not because they don't trust you but because they've lived through people leaving without warning

So when they choose to love you...
it's not half-hearted.

They are choosing you despite their wounds, their fears and their broken expectations of what a home should be.

You're not just their partner...
you're their safe space,

their peace in a world that once failed to protect them.

So take care of them gently. Reassure them.

Palanggaa sila and don't punish them for the scars they didn't choose.

And most of all, be the love they've always deserved.

Dili man siguro nimo ma fill up ang love nga ilang need gikan sa ilang ginikanan... pero ang gugma sa usa ka tao na ilang gikinahanglan, i know ikaw gyud ang tao nga ilang gisaligan.

So ampingi sila, kay ampingan pod ka nila...✨🖤

07/28/2025

Bibbidi-bobbidi-boo 🧚✨

07/18/2025

Home 🫶🏻

07/07/2025

💗

07/02/2025

lisoda aning sweto natas tanan oy di naman ta kiligon sa mga atik🤧😹

07/02/2025

Madugay natong binilar ani kita naman gyu'y bilaran sa mga tao ani ba.

07/02/2025

Batia selpona oi, di maka receive ug
"kaon na love"

07/01/2025

good morning, way mobalos diha kay iyabo ko ning kape. ☕️

07/01/2025

a little reminder for you, just incase you're feeling down, disappointed and sad at certain things today.🧡✨

07/01/2025

Our roles will never be the same,
but they are equally important.

He will never know what it’s like to be the default parent.
And I will never know what it’s like to be the full-time provider.

He won’t feel the overwhelm of being touched out, cried on, and needed 24/7.
He won’t be the one packing the diaper bag, scheduling appointments, or knowing which cup won’t cause a meltdown.

And I’ll never know the pressure of making sure the bills are paid,
That there’s food on the table,
And that our family stays afloat.

We carry different loads.
But both are heavy.

It’s not about who’s doing more.
It’s about showing up, fully.
For the kids.
For each other.
For the family we’re building together.

Because without him, I’d break.
And without me, so would everything else.

It’s not 50/50.
It’s 100/100.
Every. Single. Day.

©️Momming On Empty