
09/23/2025
this is going to be real personal, and i don’t know how relateable.
when i realized i was masking, i became terrified when i also realized i didn’t know any opinions that were my own.
i was safe and happy doing what others liked. i didn’t know what i liked because it never mattered, it was always wrong.
when i became an adult i knew i wanted to be in the drivers seat of my life. i wanted to make my own choices and follow my heart. i had to listen to it first- and then, i had to trust it.
it takes a lot of practise. but it does get easier. 💗