09/08/2026
π LAST YEAR, MAX STOOD BESIDE HIS SISTERS. THIS YEAR, MAX A ROAR HAD TO STAND IN HIS PLACE. π
We thought we were ready to take this picture.
We were wrong.
Last year, Max stood beside his sisters for their back-to-school picture.
Our boy was there.
His backpack. His little face. His place beside his sisters.
Just another school morning that, at the time, we never could have imagined would become something we would give absolutely anything to have back.
And this yearβ¦
π MAX A ROAR STOOD WHERE MAX SHOULD HAVE BEEN.
We love Max A Roar. He has become such an important way for us to carry Max with us.
But standing there looking at him beside Maxβs sisters broke something inside us.
Because he isn't Max.
He cannot put on his backpack.
He cannot stand impatiently while we try to get one decent picture.
He cannot walk through the school doors.
He cannot come home.
He cannot grow up beside his brother and sisters.
And maybe that is the cruelest part of pictures like these.
They keep changing.
His sisters will get taller.
Their faces will change.
There will be new grades, new teachers, graduations, birthdays and milestones.
And Maxβ¦
π Max will forever be seven.
Last year we could touch him.
Last year we could hug him.
Last year he was standing right there.
LAST YEAR.
Not ten years ago.
Not some distant memory.
Last year, our little boy was part of this picture.
This year, we had to place something we love in the space where our son should still be standing.
And yes, underneath this heartbreak is anger.
Max needed support at school. He needed meaningful, full access to the education he loved.
Instead, he was on a reduced schedule and coming home with mommy at lunch on December 11, 2025, when tragedy took him from us.
He should have been in school.
He should have come home at the end of the school day.
And he should have been standing beside his sisters in this picture.
π HE SHOULD BE HERE.
If you are new to Maxβs Story, please take a little time to get to know him. Not only how we lost him, but who Max was the funny, beautiful, dinosaur-loving little boy behind everything we are fighting for.
That fight is Maxβs Law: making sure disabled and high-needs children are not pushed out of school or placed on reduced schedules simply because the system does not provide enough staffing or support.
Please sign and share:
https://www.change.org/MaxsLaw2026
And please remember this picture.
Because last year, we took a back-to-school picture of our children.
This year, we took a picture of who was missing. π
We would give anything to go back to that ordinary morning we didn't know was precious.
One more backpack.
One more rushed picture.
One more hug.
One more chance to say:
βCome on, Max. Stand beside your sisters.β π₯Ίπ
And have our little boy actually be there.