12/02/2025
5 things I’d tell you🫶🏻
Just found out? It’s normal to be shocked. You’re not ungrateful; you’re human. Let yourself process before you plan, but while your planning find your twin tribe because no one and I mean in the nicest way possible, NO ONE gets it like another twin mom. Their support will save your sanity🤍
That “how will I do this?” feeling? It fades and becomes replaced by a confidence you didn’t know you had. You were made for this, you will find your rhythm trust me, it might take time but you’ll get there. Two babies doesn’t mean double chaos forever. Plus even singleton moms have chaos too!🤍
Accept help (and ask for it often) from your spouse, friends, family, home care nurse, honestly anyone who’s willing to lend a hand. You were never meant to do this alone, let others show up for you even when deep down your twin mom superhero instinct kicks in that you can do it all, take a step back I promise it’s worth it for you all.🤍
Schedules are your best friend, the best advice I got from my twin mom tribe was to start this right from the hospital. Put your foot down that both babies eat at the same time and both babies sleep at the same time!!! Make it happen!! When one eats, both eat. When one sleeps, both sleep. It’s survival made simple for you when you get to go home🤍
You’ll feel every emotion times two to put it simply, twice the joy, twice the exhaustion, twice the love. You’re the perfect mama for them, you were chosen for them so even on days you doubt yourself, remember: they were chosen for you too🤍
OKAY MAYBE 6🫶🏻 most importantly, comparison will steal your peace, every twin journey looks different, so give yourself grace because through it all you’ll never know love like this. This kind of love is the kind that stretches you, humbles you, and fills you beyond what you thought possible… welcome to twin mom hood, welcome to the tribe🤍🤍
