12/12/2025
Tony - Im writing this on my phone, so forgive my giant thumbs, missed words, and generally poor grammar. I've shared a beautiful story below and wanted to add a few thoughts of my own. It's a little long-winded, so pls excuse my lack of brevity.
I can't tell you how many times I've been the recipient of something I needed at a time I couldn't provide it for myself.
I've lived without power for a long dark week. That layoff was one of the hardest times of my life. My roommate and I were cooking on an old bbq and spending our nights reading by candlelight. We saved on heating by wearing our winter jackets inside all day and night. So I know what it feels like to make a choice between rent and light. My heart really goes out to those who have to experience this. The local food bank not only gave us some food items but also rescued us by clearing up our bill and even paid a month in advance until we could get back on our feet.
I've been given new wheels for a vehicle that was having trouble holding air in the winter months. They were completely degrading. It was an unbelievable gift from Rod Oszust that saved me from using credit to solve the issue. Something I will never forget. Thank you, sir.
I am forever gracious for my first acoustic guitar. A lifetime loan from a man that saw a troubled kid that found comfort in 6 strings and an old music book filled with chord charts.
Sometimes, it's not "things" at all. An understanding ear, a dose of verbal confidence, or a rare compliment can carry someone for months! Think about how clearly you can remember those, and remember that you have the power to give that to someone else.
I say this not to be a braggart of the things I have been given, but to express that it means so much that it will never be forgotten. I know you can look back and remember those sorts of moments for yourself as well This season is a great reminder of how many gifts we've received in our lives in one way or another, but also how powerful the humble act of giving can be. Everyone has a need, and everyone has the perfect thing, skill, or words that would fulfill someone else. A lot of us don't have much, but we have enough, and may be able to spare a little to support a fantastic local organizations that are there for those who are not in a time of want....they're in a time of NEED. Let's all take a moment to feel gratitude for what we have been given and for what we have, but most importantly... open our hearts to being kind and generous. You could be the thing that saves someone this holiday season and beyond.
Much love to you all this Christmas.
Ok....here's the story
I lied to a customer this morning.
Said it straight to her face.
And honestly? I’d do it again tomorrow.
I’ve been a mechanic for 30 years. My hands are permanently stained with grease, my back is a roadmap of old injuries, and I run my shop with a simple rule:
Fix it right. Charge what it’s worth. No exceptions.
At 8 a.m., a beat-up Chevy limped into my lot coughing smoke like it needed last rites. A young woman stepped out — couldn’t have been more than 22 — wearing oversized nursing scrubs and exhaustion in her eyes. In the back seat, a baby slept in a car seat, clutching a tiny teddy bear with one ear missing.
“It’s making a weird noise,” she said quietly. “Please… please tell me it’s something small.”
I popped the hood.
It wasn’t small.
It wasn’t even medium.
It was a disaster — burst hose, shredded belt, leaking oil, one bad drive away from blowing the engine.
“To fix this right,” I told her gently, “you’re looking at about a thousand dollars.”
She didn’t cry.
She didn’t panic.
She just stared at her baby.
Then at her phone.
Then at the ground.
“I start my new job at the nursing home in an hour,” she whispered. “If I’m late… they’ll fire me. I don’t have anything left in my account. I was going to put water in it and just… try.”
She gently placed a hand on the hood like she was apologising to the car for being poor.
That did it.
I swear, sometimes life gives you a moment where doing the right thing isn’t a choice — it’s a responsibility.
“Give me your keys,” I said.
“I can’t pay you,” she said immediately, panic rising again.
“Did I ask you for money?” I replied.
She blinked at me, unsure.
“The part you need,” I lied smoothly, “is on national backorder. Two weeks minimum. You can’t drive this car.”
She looked like she was going to collapse. “Two weeks? How do I—how am I supposed to get to work?”
I pulled my truck keys out of my pocket and held them out.
“Take mine.”
Her jaw dropped. “Sir… that’s your truck.”
“I know. Built like a tank. It’ll get you to work and back. Bring it back when your car’s done.”
She stared at me like she couldn’t decide whether to cry or hug me.
My shop manager looked at me like I’d lost my mind.
But I’ve been young and broke.
I’ve been terrified of losing a job.
I’ve been one bill away from falling apart.
So she left safely, in my truck, with her baby strapped in the back.
And her old Chevy stayed in my garage.
There was no backorder.
The hose cost $20.
But I didn’t stop there.
Every lunch break.
Every after-hours minute.
Every quiet moment in the shop…
I rebuilt that car.
Brand new tires.
Fixed the belt.
Cleaned the engine.
Rewired the lights.
Replaced the brake pads.
Oil change.
Detailed the interior.
Tuned the engine until it purred like it hadn’t purred in years.
By the time I was done, that 15-year-old junker felt like a brand-new ride.
Two weeks later, she walked back into the shop, my truck keys in hand.
“It drove perfectly,” she said softly. “Thank you. Truly. I’m… nervous to see the bill.”
I handed her the invoice.
TOTAL: $0.00
PAID IN FULL BY FACTORY WARRANTY RECALL.
Another lie.
A harmless one.
A necessary one.
She stared at the paper.
Then at the car.
Then at me.
“But… this isn’t a new car,” she whispered. “There can’t be a recall.”
“Ma’am,” I said, pretending to fuss with paperwork, “you questioning my paperwork accuracy?”
She laughed through tears — that soft, heartbreaking laugh people make when the world finally gives them a break instead of another burden.
“Why would you do all this?” she whispered.
I looked at her sleeping baby in her arms.
“Because you’re trying,” I said. “And the world doesn’t make it easy for people who are trying.”
She hugged me. Tight.
One of those hugs you feel in your bones.
When she drove away in that bright, reliable Chevy, waving out the window, I stood there a long time… thinking.
About how many times I wished someone would help me when I was young.
About how much difference a little kindness makes.
About how good it feels to make someone feel safe — even for a moment.
People often say,
“You can’t help everyone.”
Maybe not.
But you can help someone.
And sometimes that someone is exactly who needed it that day.
So yes — I lied this morning.
I lied to give a young mom a chance.
I lied to make sure a baby got to daycare safely.
I lied so someone wouldn’t lose the job they desperately needed.
And if I had to do it again?
I’d lie every single time.
Because the kindness we give away…
is the only part of us that lasts.
💛 Moral:
Be the break in someone’s bad day.
Be the yes in their world full of no.
Be the reason they still believe good people exist.
