01/11/2026
This is exactly why I tell women — especially public women — be very careful who you build with.
These men will embarrass you without blinking. Fame, status, success… none of it stops them. If anything, it gives them more audacity.
Not saying that woman don't embarrass their man if he's in the public eye, but it's generally not some reckless s**t like this 👀
When you’re the entertainer, the brand, the public face — they still step out, still cheat, still move reckless, and leave you to carry the embarrassment. Your whole empire gets built around family, loyalty, image… and then they shatter it like it’s nothing.
And what happens?
People start side-eyeing you.
“What did she do wrong?”
“Why couldn’t she keep him?”
As if his behaviour is your responsibility.
This is why I always say: do not introduce your man to the public when you are the public.
Protect your empire. Protect your name. Protect your peace.
Me? I’m not bringing any man into my business, my brand, or my platform.
Because I refuse to let someone else’s lack of discipline make me look small in front of the world.
Learn from other women’s stories.
Don’t become one. 💅🏽
