09/27/2025
💙 One of the hardest parts of being an autism parent…
For the past 3 years, Noah was doing so well at school. I’ve seen so much improvement and progress that made me so proud. But this year feels different. Maybe grade 5 lessons are just not his thing anymore.
When I visited the school, the topic was about immigration. I couldn’t help but wonder.... would Noah really understand that? All he knows is that he came from the Philippines, and he can happily memorize every place we’ve been to. 🌏
At school, they can’t always understand Noah. His behaviors are so different from how he is at home. 😔 As a mom, it breaks my heart.... because I know the sweet, caring, funny side of him that not everyone gets to see.. What do they expect from him? Change is one of the hardest thing for people with autism.
This is one of the struggles of being an autism parent: living in two worlds. At home, we see progress, love, and little victories. At school, he faces challenges, misunderstandings, and judgments (even it's an inclusive school)🧩
I feel bad sometimes, like maybe I’m not doing enough. But I remind myself ...Noah is doing his best. And so am I.
To other parents walking this same path: you are not alone. The struggles are real, but so is the love that keeps us going. 🌈✨
