07/06/2025
THE COMPASSIONATE NURSE
At a healthcare symposium, Nurse CYZ, a well-known speaker and senior educator, was invited to talk about compassionate care.
With confidence, he lectured for over an hour about empathy, patient dignity, and how nurses should treat every patient like family. His words were powerful — full of quotes and textbook-perfect examples.
Midway through, a hand went up in the audience.
A young nurse stood.
“Thank you, Sir,” she said. “Your words are inspiring. I feel safe to speak now.”
She took a deep breath.
“I was a patient in your ward six months ago. You were my assigned nurse. I was scared, in pain, and couldn’t even eat by myself… but you never once looked me in the eye. You passed my meds, noted my chart, and left. I remember watching you laugh in the hallway while I cried alone.”
The room fell silent.
Nurse CYZ’s face went pale. He slowly sat down.
The young nurse smiled gently.
“I was never your patient. But someone like me was. I just needed to know if your practice matched your words.”
Lesson:
Before you teach compassion, make sure your care leaves no wounds.
In nursing—and in life—patients don’t remember what you said. They remember how you made them feel.
Don't just preach the values. Live them at the bedside.